Real cry, powerless goodbye

Guido 2022-03-21 09:02:33

3.8 stars. Films with cultural differences between the East and the West are not easy to shoot, and they fall into stereotypes from time to time. The beginning and end of the film skillfully use American-style expressions (new immigrants from North China background, simple family conflicts, straightforward dialogue design) to bring (Western) audiences in and out. However, in the middle of the story is a very oriental expression, filled with personal details of life, directly hitting the heart of the (oriental) audience. (Sure enough, it was adapted from the director's real experience, otherwise it would not be so delicate and moving.) It is not difficult to see that the director has learned from Ang Lee's "dining table" scene and Jia Zhangke's old town nostalgic scene, and the delicate and realistic interaction between three generations of women is reminiscent of Jin Yaqin's "The Two of Us" and other female works. The female perspective works well in this oriental family story. Western independent women challenge Eastern patriarchy. This film also really reveals some characteristics of Chinese families (love to make decisions for others, use "for his own good" as an excuse, love to hide), but the director seems to just want to compare, not criticize, so the ending is weak, female The Lord didn't do anything for Grandma, didn't really challenge the traditional model of the Eastern family, and just followed the crowd. The ending song without you is very foul.

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  • Marie 2021-12-28 08:02:14

    My tears are worthless. Many bridge sections are too real, just like what happened at the aunt's house next door in the community. In Sundance, there are indeed not good things. Sometimes I can't get the laughs of Americans. Many Americans laughed when their uncles returned from Japan spoke at the wedding. At that time, I was out of breath.

  • Vincenzo 2021-12-28 08:02:14

    It mainly showed the differences between Chinese and Western cultures. The script did not touch me. It was obviously not good at presenting the details of Chinese life, but it was amazing. I still laughed when I saw the embarrassment. As a Changchun native, many sceneries in the film are where I grew up when I was a child. I even live in that neighborhood, and I can't quite know that area. My grandma died of lung cancer. After she was diagnosed, she took a targeted drug called Iressa. The price at the time was 500/tablet, 1 tablet per day. The price of the medicine can be concealed, but she lives in the cancer hospital and her condition cannot be concealed. I was in middle school and she was thinner every time I met. I was brought up by my grandmother. I used to tell her everything. After she got sick, I learned to report the good and not the worry. My family's "Don't Tell Her" happened to me. The family didn't tell me when my grandma passed away. I was told only a few days later that I missed the funeral, which was not what I hoped. We all have the right to know, patients need to fulfill their last wishes, cherish every second of their time with each other, and don't let your favorite people guess randomly. (Tucao, Haohao's dad is an overseas Chinese in Japan anyway, the wedding hotel is too low...)

The Farewell quotes

  • Billi: [frustrated] Are you going to tell Nai Nai?

    Haiyan: I can't, Billi. I won't go against my family.

    Uncle Haibin: Billi, there are things you misunderstand. You guys moved to the West long ago. You think one's life belongs to oneself. But that's the difference between the East and the West. In the East, a person's life is part of a whole. Family. Society.

    Uncle Haibin: You want to tell Nai Nai the truth, because you're afraid to take the responsibility for her. Because it's too big of a burden. If you tell her, then you don't have to feel guilty. We're not telling Nai Nai because it's our duty to carry this emotional burden for her.

  • Jian: You're broke again? Are you always going to live like this?

    Billi: Poor but sexy? I hope so!