What is menopause? Coaxing heat, insomnia, irritability, blood pressure rise, in the past, menopause mostly refers to women-----women's irregular menstruation once a month is not on time! The body is bloated, and the chest that should be firm and raised has collapsed. The place where the meat should not be served is full of meat on the waist and abdomen. In fact, men also experience menopause and their sexual function declines. Also has a bloated body. In addition to physical illness, menopause also loses balance in psychological and cognitive abilities. Insomnia is difficult to deal with, and a little thing can provoke a tantrum, which makes the interpersonal relationships of the surrounding family tense. Complain, regret, lack self-confidence and inferiority------
There is a writer from a big family-----a dozen people gather for dinner every day, chatting and talking, and it's a lot of fun. One day, the writer wanted to test his role in everyone's mind, so he wanted to make a prank---hide himself in the cabinet and wait until everyone finished eating before coming out. As a result, no one found his abnormality---others should eat and drink, and no one was found at all. In the end, the sullen writer had to come out of the cupboard in a daze, and take care of himself to clean up the leftover soup at the table——
This experiment proves that you are not that important in the eyes of others.
During the Chinese New Year and festivals, the gathering of relatives and friends, everyone is also loud and happy.
However, the crowded water seats in the countryside often have hundreds of people, queuing up to grab a seat. Those who leave immediately after eating, there are not many greetings between people. Even if it is a New Year's reunion, the people who really care about themselves will not be more than a few people in the family - more than 10 people-----parents, spouses, children, parents, brothers and sisters------
In a word, you are not that important in the eyes of others. Even if it is a couple, the former best friend in the same dormitory ---- also went their separate ways with the passage of time. Even if it is a lover, no one will be waiting for you. Resurrection of old love ------- When you are tired of your later lover and look for a past partner, that person will not be the one you had in mind before.
Uncle Brad in the film chose poetry and distance when he was young. But after a few years have passed, compared with college classmates who have become famous and married now and then on TV, compared with classmates who bought a small island and bought a private jet—find themselves forgotten by the world. Financially poor (you can only buy discounted air tickets and worry about your child's college tuition) can't make it to the table.
When I met my son's senior, with clear eyes like the water of admiration cast by the other party, I couldn't help but destroy the image of myself and unexpectedly pierce the ""poetry and distance"" of my youth, pouring bitter water on the other party. Said that if he could do it all over again, he would prefer to get rich and save a lot of money instead of choosing "poetry and distance".
In fact, I said that when people are middle-aged, they are already the masters of the past. When you are mature, you have to learn to reconcile with reality. To put it bluntly—that is, accept your fate—to identify with yourself in reality. Comparing the east and the west, or regretting your original choice, is no longer helpful; no wonder that girl is going to teach him a lesson - almost 50 years old and thinking that she is the center of the world, and the world should revolve around you alone.
No matter how successful a person is in life, he is the leader of a country, or he is rich enough to rival the country——If you want power, you want money, you will also feel a sense of disappointment.——Look at those great dukes and great people A few rested their hands in peace when they were dying. People who are uneasy, insomniac and not sick will restrain themselves. Men and women have reached menopause, and their ability to control their emotions has declined, so the loss is beyond words and there are all kinds of regrets----
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