We are not alone, we are alone

Shany 2022-09-12 07:39:52

This is the second time I've seen this movie, and I can't remember when I saw it for the first time. I just remember that after reading it for the first time, I bought myself a T-shirt with the words "where's Wally?" on Taobao. Wear this simple black print T-shirt and try to find my Wally in the crowd.

Take it seriously this time.

This is a movie made for lonely people, in which I saw the crisis of interpersonal relationships that the modern society with highly developed information is facing. Everyone longs for love and at the same time is full of disbelief in love. Afraid of being hurt, I chose to close myself, move forward in temptation, and find a soul that knows myself. This reminds me of the lyrics from The Answer:

The star on the sky

why

Crowded like a crowd

people on earth

why

alienated like stars

The protagonists live alone in their own worlds. She, an aspiring architect, had to temporarily engage in window design. He is an engineering otaku who is engaged in web design. The same is that they all live in shoebox apartments without sunlight. In the first half of the movie, their repressed life, although they have a lot of yearning for life, but like their apartment, there will never be sunlight.

Although she has many suitors, it turns out that either she doesn't like him or he doesn't like her. The first man, on a date, picked a restaurant on the 20th floor. But she was claustrophobic and couldn't take the elevator. After persuading her to take the elevator and choose another restaurant to no avail, the man chose to climb the stairs with her. At the beginning, the man was confident that he could climb the 20 floors of stairs, so he told her about his experience of climbing the pyramids in Egypt with his companions. His words revealed his tenacity and disdain for his companions who gave up halfway. She listened silently, without saying a word, just to persuade the man not to talk too much and save his energy to climb the stairs. The man apparently didn't take her advice into account. 3rd floor. 5th Floor. 9th floor. Because of smoking all the year round, the man has long lost the physical strength of the year, and it is getting more and more difficult to climb. In the end, he decided to give up and take the elevator to wait for the heroine. She then also climbed to the 20th floor. Maybe it's because she lost confidence in the man who gave up halfway, maybe it's because she feels insecure about being known about her claustrophobia. Instead of walking towards the man who had been waiting at the dining table for a long time, she ran down the 20th floor after washing her face in the bathroom.

She was the second man she met in the swimming pool. The first time they met, he enthusiastically taught her swimming experience. Unlike the people in the pool who swim for the sake of swimming, he really loves swimming. At the same time, although he is a doctor, he is also an insomniac. Swimming can bring his body to extreme exhaustion and relieve his tense nerves. The second man gave her hope, and he was also a lonely person like her. She felt like she had found her own kind. But this man also had his own insurmountable psychological obstacles. After some contacts, he never came to the swimming pool again, and she never met him again. The ending with the first man was the result of her active choice, but this time it was the result of being chosen, and her heart was hurt again.

The movie also describes the heroine's change in attitude towards the piano. The first time she met the piano was when she was out. The porters used ropes to transfer the piano from the top of the building to the apartment. She counted the floors and found that the piano was bought by her neighbor. The first time she heard the piano in the room was curious and pleasantly surprised, apparently she had never met the neighbor who played the piano. The sound of the piano is very soft, she likes it very much, and tastes it carefully while leaning against the wall. The second time I heard the piano sound was after the heroine had an unpleasant experience with other men. This time, the sound of the piano was urgent and powerful. The more she listened, the more confused her heart became. Finally, she lost control of her emotions and smashed the cup in her hand to the floor. The sound of the piano also stopped abruptly with the cracking of the cup.

Until that day, she opened the window of fate and found him wearing a red striped shirt with a dog in the crowd. At this point, the claustrophobic elevator is no longer an invincible obstacle. In order not to miss him, she pressed the elevator on the first floor and ran towards him all the way. Everything seems to happen because of destiny, but man-made is also indispensable. If there is no female protagonist's desire for sunlight, and there is no window that can see the street, maybe they will inevitably miss it this time.

Meeting is like a ray of sunshine that shines into the morning mist in winter. The faint sadness accumulated in my heart is dispelled in an instant, and all the hard work and suffering can be relieved. All the trek was worth it for this moment.

We are not alone, we are alone.

So, one day, we will meet, and then we will no longer be alone.

Believe, true love will find you in the end.

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