I watched the 10 episodes of the first season of Deadly Woman in two days. When I saw the third episode, when Jade showed a little sign of something wrong, my heart began to tremble. It was exactly the same as the one I met before. Roommate, I am full of the same people who treat people as friends.
Without talking about anything else today, I just want to talk about the character of Jade, which is really unpleasant.
At the beginning, Jade came to the house and appeared for the first time. The protagonist and the audience must have the same feeling. I think this girl is so beautiful and sunny and positive! She appeared with a smile all over her face, and the next day she made breakfast for the couple who took her in for the night, and cleaned the house. What a wonderful girl.
But in fact, in the first episode, Jade took off his swimsuit and then didn't immediately go into the water to swim. I already felt something was wrong when I sat down and used the bear to Eli. Hey, hey hey, he was a married man, but at that time it was I don't know if it's careless or deliberate. And he also said that the movie with the poster hanging on the male protagonist's wall was his favorite movie, and he quickly broke the ice and closed the distance. I guess even if there is an Ultraman poster hanging on the wall of the male protagonist, she will say that Ultraman is her favorite movie.
Later, when Jade and Taylor and Eli went to the nightclub to play, they met two of Jade's Internet celebrity friends. After Taylor said that she wanted to go home and hoped that she would not go to Venice with those two friends, Jade was still smiling, but The meaning of the expression is already the meaning of leave me alone. When she turned around later, the look in her eyes was exactly the same as when she faced Taylor. But the face she turned around was something she would never show or let you see when she was with her.
Isn't that scary?
In an instant, I thought of my experience two years ago. At that time, my husband and I were married, and the house we bought had not been delivered yet, and we lived in a rented house with three bedrooms and one living room. In fact, the house was first rented by my husband and his friend, who is called T, and then I moved in when my husband and I were together. One room is for my husband and I, one room is T, and one room was rented out after the original roommate quit the lease as my workshop. Later, T had a girlfriend and moved in. Later, T broke up with his girlfriend, the girl moved out, and the three of us lived together again. It's been like this for two years, and it's been a good relationship.
Later, T changed jobs and the location was in Beijing in May 2017, so he moved to Beijing.
So my husband and I hired a new roommate, a girl about our age, we call it W.
In August of 2017, W moved in. My husband and I both thought that W was good, and she was a very decent girl.
T is our good friend. He still comes back to Shanghai from time to time. live in our house. W moved in, and T came back to live on the sofa.
One day my husband and I forgot where to play and were away from home for a day and a night. T came back to Shanghai and slept on my sofa, and we were attracted by W.
But T returned to Beijing in a hurry after a weekend. At this time, W woman began to think of a way to add it to T man's WeChat.
At this time, I said that T had a fitness card to transfer, and W said she wanted to take over. I was also a member of that gym. At that time, t put the fitness card with me, and I took w to help them do the transfer. Then the gym was bad and could be transferred for free, but when it really did, the transfer fee would be several hundred more. I quarreled with the people at the gym over w. At that time, w also said that the gym was bad, boycotted it together, and returned Comfort me to calm down. Later, after about a month, I learned that w had gone to that gym to get a card and had been exercising for half a month. .
So what is it that I quarrel with the gym for her?
But, let me tell you, W's purpose has been achieved, because she said that she wants to take over t's fitness card, so I naturally pulled a group, and pulled w and t into the same group. At that time, after a few minutes, I actually glanced at w's mobile phone screen, and there was already T's avatar in the WeChat conversation, which means that I pulled a group and she was added to T's WeChat in one second. But at the time, I didn't actually feel that something was wrong. It was really a simple act of being used as a gunman.
But, this is only the least disgusting thing. .
Later, W only moved in for a month, maybe at the end of September, I don't know why, my husband began to have a good impression of W, and he also talked to me about this feeling at first. One day he came back from get off work and asked me, I'm already married, but it shouldn't be unfair to have a good impression of others. Being sensitive, I noticed it at the time, so I asked him if you had a crush on w. He didn't deny it, I said at the time that I understood, because maybe I've been around me for the past few years, and no other girl has ever appeared. Now there's a W who lives under the same roof, and she's really good , I also like her quite a bit. It's normal to have a good opinion. Just distinguish the good feeling of a friend, and don't mistake it for love, just fine.
However, things went to the way I didn't expect. Because I work from home in SOHO, I get up late. Every morning, my husband goes out to work at about 7:30, and w goes to work at about the same time. Then the two often go out together and walk to the subway station. What can we talk about in those few minutes? What sparks can be wiped out, we don't know.
But I know how W took advantage of my husband's little affection for her step by step, knew T's thoughts from a distance, and finally got together with T.
One day W had a bad throat. In fact, it was clear that W, I, and my husband had a small group of the three of us, because we were all roommates. W and I also have WeChat, but W didn't ask me individually or in the group, but bypassed me directly, sent a private message to my husband, and asked him: "Where is the pharmacy?" As you probably know, when a girl asks for help For a boy, especially when he needs help, that boy will definitely be stimulated by the desire for protection or male instinct. It seemed that it was still raining that day. My husband said, do I need to bring her medicine back after get off work, W said. :"if convenient". As a result, my husband was very considerate, afraid that the pharmacy would be closed when he came home late from get off work, so he ordered takeout medicine for her to be delivered to her home. Here comes the point! ! ! The medicine was delivered, and in exchange, she immediately sent a private message to T in Beijing: "I'm not feeling well, xxx bought me medicine... But... But I don't need it..."
Omg! So embarrassed and wronged her tone! ! Make T think that she is very popular, right, and then T thinks, why is this friend like this, has a wife, and is plotting against this new roommate. is not it. This girl is in a very dangerous situation, and I have to protect her, right?
Then my husband seemed to have violated her, but T and my husband were very good friends. . . Obviously W sent a private message to my husband, but we had a group and I, she didn't ask for help, she didn't ask, she asked my husband alone. . . I really can't bear to recall, how I, my husband, T, our beautiful lovers and friends in the past, these very good relationships, were separated by W step by step.
Of course, I didn't know about these things at the time, and I was foolishly keeping them in the dark, and I only discovered them later.
And October is my wedding. My husband and I both don't want to do it. My husband's parents want to do it at his house, so we will fulfill the old man's wish and promise to hold the wedding.
There are two bridesmaids and two best men at the wedding. One of the best man is T, and the other is another good friend of the husband. Bridesmaids, one is my friend growing up and the other is my sister. But my sister temporarily said that there would be a very important meeting that day, and she couldn't fly to the city where my wedding was going. Therefore, a bridesmaid was temporarily vacant. At that time, I didn't realize what kind of person W was, and I happily invited her to be my bridesmaid.
As a result, the night before the wedding, my husband drove to pick up the four best man and bridesmaids on the plane, and then sent them back to the hotel one by one. He was the last to send W, and then helped her carry her luggage to the room, and then took a seat in the room... that It was one in the middle of the night, and as a bride, I was in the same hotel, in a different room, waiting for my husband to marry me the next day. And my husband was in W, my bridesmaid's room in the middle of the night.
I would like to ask, if a normal girl would let a man into her room when she knew that her roommate and her husband were going to get married the next day. My husband is not that kind of rascal, if there is no answer from W, he will not force his way into her room. They told me that they were just chatting that day, and that they really can't go out together in the morning, such irrelevant things.
Of course I'm heartbroken, but you know what, I'm not trying to tell the pain I've suffered today like Mrs. Xianglin, I just want everyone to see how high the W rank is. While talking to my husband, she sent T a WeChat message, "You...you...who...can...come...take...XXX (my husband's name)...take...away...". That's right, she sent WeChat to T, and each ellipsis indicated that she was helpless and passive, but she didn't show anything to my husband to drive him out of her room. And my husband asked her who she was texting so late, and W said, oh, my ex-boyfriend.
Knowing this afterwards, I wanted to watch a TV show. She was in my husband's room, texting T, asking for help, she told my husband that it was her ex-boyfriend, and the ex-boyfriend was chasing her... and she knew that these people would never confront her, so she would not expose her The real face of different people saying different things. What kind of woman is this, I can't think of these tricks even if I have ten heads, and all of them think she is beautiful, kind, helpless and needs protection.
Much like the plot where Taylor asked Jade to master Eli's password, Taylor asked Jade to help her out of fear of Eli going astray.
Jade said to Eli, Taylor wants to get hold of your password, she wants to take your money.
W and Jade have a common trick. When they recite other people's behavior or language, they will keep the first half unchanged, and the second half will change slightly. You don't look like much, but the meaning is different. Or state that the behavior of others remains the same, and the starting point changes, and it will be completely different. They know this very well. It can be said that they are all "special" girls. Definitely smart, but not kind. And without a heart, she doesn't think it's bad to cause you pain, she just needs to achieve her own goals, and your feelings are nothing to them.
Like this, the first half is right, the second half... eh? It seems right?
But Taylor's starting point is to be nice to her husband. .
That's how they "would". Exactly the same.
Poor Taylor, remembering the poor me back then, the pitiful and hateful husband, the T who didn't know the truth, and the us who finally broke up.
There are many, many similar things in the middle. Without going into details, I will say that the last time, my husband has been fascinated by the ghost of the soul-moving Dafa. At that time, W went back to her hometown in Shanxi for a few days, and when she came back to Shanghai, my husband actually went to Hongqiao Airport to pick up the plane.
And that day, I only remember that it was very cold. I found his long johns at home to wash them, and I wanted them to dry quickly so that he could wear them when he went out the next morning. At that time, there was still a washing machine with dryer at home, so I thought of a very clever way to hang his long johns at the air outlet of the central air conditioner to blow the hot air, and it was very fun to watch the johns fluttering. .
But I had no idea that my husband was cheating on me.
The pick-up time is like this. My husband was working normally that day. It was after 3 o'clock. He might be happy to chat with W, or he didn't see anyone for a few days, so he suddenly asked: "If xxx (he claimed) Going to pick up the plane, will Miss (W) be happy?"
W said: Yes.
So my husband decided to leave me alone and eat takeaway at home to pick up someone else's plane.
My husband went to the airport to pick up the W plane, and they also agreed on what to say in advance, what to say to me, and what to say to T.
What they said to Hao and T was that my husband did the wrong thing on the subway after get off work that day, and W happened to be returning home from the Hongqiao Airport subway. They met on the subway and went home together.
That's what my husband told T, but W didn't follow it. She sent T a panicked WeChat message at Hongqiao Airport: I was at the airport... I saw...
Because T has long heard that my husband is chasing W and coveting W's daily life, he said, xxx? (my husband's name)
W, very, helpless, helpless, panicked, and said at a loss: "Um..."
In other words, w doesn't care what my husband says, she just tries her best to show T that she is the goddess of my husband, my husband has been chasing after him regardless of his wife, she is trying her best to give T this impression.
As a result, T really felt his desire to protect her that day, and it was overwhelmed, so he went to rip with my husband. My husband has absolutely no idea, W has sold him.
According to my husband, that day he really felt that what W told T was different from what he told him.
It seems that he felt that the girl was wrong that day, and decided to stop on that day and stop courting her.
However, as if it was God's will, I went to my husband's office two days later. At that time, my husband's company was moving to a new office. My colleagues were very happy, and I was also very happy. That day, my friends and I had dinner and afternoon tea. I went to his office and waited for him. His colleague said that he was not there, so I went to the new office to arrange the arrangements, and I sat in his office and waited for him. His computer is not turned off. When I touch the mouse, the screen lights up. I want to see what fun he has on his computer, and see the information about my hard-working boy's work on weekdays, so I adore him. So I saw a folder named after W's full name in pinyin. I opened it a little bit, and it was all saved by him. Their chat records, screenshots of conversations that he thought were precious, photos that W sent him privately, and friends. Circled, but I haven't seen many of them. It must be sent by them chatting on weekdays, her selfie, and so on, many, many. At that time, my legs became weak, and the tears came down, as if I couldn't control it, my mind was blank, and my heart seemed to be twisted.
But I was really not smart and immature at the time. I didn't disrupt the situation in a smart way like Beth Ann found out that her husband was cheating, and I could handle it calmly. I really cried, made troubles and hanged myself. At that time, I called my husband back to his office. I said that I was going to divorce. I couldn’t express my heartache. Then I ran away. It was five kilometers from my husband's office to the house where I lived at the time. I stopped and stopped crying and walked back. My husband probably didn't know what to do, and followed me all the way. When I saw W, I was calm and even smiled at her. I was thinking about how to deal with it. At that time, I was very stupid and felt that the main responsibility was my husband. He had a crush on him, but he never did anything, didn't promise anything, and didn't cooperate with her. She Also a victim.
The next day I told W that I got it, I got it all, and I saw all their chat records.
W was at work, she immediately said, I'm going home now.
When she came home, I didn't hit or scold her. I asked for her mobile phone to watch their chat. I just wanted to know what my husband was doing behind my back and what kind of person he was.
W said she would move out.
Later, I still felt that it was not her fault. My friends scolded me and said why don't you hate me. A normal girl wouldn't. We wouldn't do these things when we knew that the roommate and his wife were getting married soon. We went out together in the morning and got off work. Sometimes the two of them would go out alone, go to the bar twice, w went to my husband's office, and then the two of them went for a walk by the Bund river. w Once I was working in a shop in Lujiazui, my mobile phone was out of power. I asked my husband if he had a power bank. My husband said yes. She only knew that he worked near Lujiazui, but in fact, my husband’s company was still quite a distance away from Lujiazui. After two kilometers, she was called for help. She had needs. He took a taxi to Lujiazui at noon.
Friends said, we don't do this, girls with three views are not like this.
If you meet a couple, the man seems to be interested in her secretly, she will move away, and normal girls will move away.
Later, I had a deep talk with my husband. The husband said that he wanted to break up several times, and he didn't go out together in the morning, and he didn't chat privately, but W would always take the initiative to find him, and would say that he didn't think it was just a friend so deliberately. The husband also said that at the time, he would feel that W liked him very much, that they liked each other, and he would feel that way. Chat records, W will also say, think of me, and so on. But she will bring me along cleverly. For example, when she returns to her hometown in Shanxi, she privately messaged my husband that you want me. She explained to me later that it was referring to my husband and me. I wanted her, but I couldn't see it. They said it separately on WeChat, but she explained it like this, and there was nothing wrong with it.
Then, at that time, I probably didn't understand it. I told W that she was also a victim, and she should not move out... As long as she buys me a Disney cake lollipop and cleans the public space at home for a month.
She has always had that kind, warm and harmless smile, she said yes.
Then after a week, there were no cake lollipops, and no one was cleaning the living room after get off work.
I didn't feel right at the time, I felt like she didn't care what I said or how I felt. If you really feel sorry for me, I have already said that, as long as she does very simple things, I can be fine, why doesn't she do it.
Because she has no heart, she doesn't care about your feelings, baby.
I was very angry that day because it had been a week since I made those two simple requests, I let her go, and left immediately.
It was the last day. She came back from get off work with a very aggressive tone. She rushed into the house. She was no longer her usual person. She was especially like Jade who had changed her face. She had two tall male colleagues behind her, and she spoke in a special tone. Like the kind of big sister in the society, she said, "What, I'm moving today, and I'll pay back the rent I haven't fully lived in."
I broke down completely, I said, you made a mess of my house, why should I ask you for money
A man behind her, very fierce, said, if we don't check out the rent, we won't move in today
W said, it's your husband who likes me to chase after me
I especially wanted to rush to the kitchen to get a kitchen knife and fight them hard,
But husband, he was really embarrassed about that thing, he calmed down and transferred money to her
He said that he just wanted her to leave quickly and disappear from the house as soon as possible, not wanting to delay even one more day
I hid in the room and was forced by her to break down and cry.
W really changed her face that day. She was so scary, and the two male colleagues she brought were so scary. I had seen those two people before. When we were at peace with each other, my husband , W, the three of us went to eat hot pot together. It was in that small business district. W said that two of her colleagues were playing games at a nearby Internet cafe, and she was going to buy two cups of milk tea to send to them. I don't know what method she used, those two became his bodyguards that day.
This is nothing, the ultimate damage to me is that T later became her boyfriend.
Another thing, I found out that their affair was in January, and W moved out in February. However, the new residence she found is still in our community. Is she really not afraid to see me again? Don't you feel any sense of guilt? On the other hand, I was very nervous when I went out in those few months. I was very afraid of seeing her. I didn't dare to look up when I walked in the community, like a thief. Until the new house was renovated in May and I moved out, that nightmarish feeling, afraid of meeting her, lasted for three months.
And I don't know what W said to T, what facts were distorted, or what simply changed, T is completely opposed to my husband.
And T did not hesitate to intensify the damage to me again and again, and told me some things he heard from W. In April, when I was full of holes and repairing my mood, he suddenly came to tell me on WeChat that I On the night of returning to my house in December 2017, my husband came back from a business trip in Hangzhou that day. He drank a bit too much. When he came back in the middle of the night, he hugged Miss Sister (W).
But recently, after watching Why Women Kill in the past two days, I discussed with my husband that Jade's role is similar to W. I mentioned the fact that he drank more and hugged W, and my husband told me that as soon as he came home that day, at night After 11 o'clock, W came out of his room, asked him how he was today, how did he drink, poured water for him, was super nice to him, made him feel that she also liked him and cared about him very much. I wonder if a normal girl would do this to her roommate when someone else's wife is not at home, is this normal behavior?
But these details W will never tell T in this life, right?
Now think about it, what is the role of her husband to W, it is very big, she is close to him, he has a good impression on her, she can easily use his mobile phone to look at his chat with T, so that she can know T's Thoughts, are there any girls around T, how does T see himself, these are some very secret information. In the end, she was with T, and my husband is the best tool she can use and maximize.
I remembered one more thing. T moved in with Ms. W in August and was with him in February. During this short period of four months, T had a girlfriend. It was W who was chatting before he appeared. T and the girl were already together in October, but what did W do? One weekend when T went back to Shanghai, W first seduced T to bed and slept, and then The next week when T returned to Beijing, W ignored him and acted indifferent. Of course T was stunned and at the same time more concerned, why is this? Tian Tian couldn't understand it, and finally W cried and said, he already has a girlfriend, so he can be together, as long as he has a good memory that is enough. . So you can imagine the result, T dumped that girl, the girl who just got together. . . The girl also posted a circle of friends saying that she wants to live a good life or something. In short, it is also a person who was indirectly hurt by W.
After this incident, I watched psychological counseling, and my husband took me to marriage counseling. The counselor's sister said that my husband and I are generally a very suitable partner, and she also said that in general, there are few men who cheat and men can take the initiative to seek psychological counseling and bring their wives with them. The whole year of 2018 has been very bad for me. I always have grudges in my heart, I am always sad, I always dream, I am unhappy, I always have the idea of divorce, and I always feel that I can't get out. For the whole year of last year, I was wondering if my husband was a duplicitous person, if he was a completely different person when I couldn't see him, or if he had someone out there that I didn't know about at all. The world, just after this incident, he hid better. And it also affects me personally and the outside world. I used to be a very cheerful person who likes to make friends, but now I am afraid to meet new friends,
My husband has been doing various things to make up for it, buying bags, and taking me out on trips to relax. In fact, it was not until this year that I felt a little more relaxed, and my mood was a little relieved. I would think of W and T as two garbage bags. I packed all the memories about them into two bags of black garbage, put them in front of my house, and let the garbage truck come and collect them.
Every time, I couldn't help but think about it, and two garbage bags popped up in my mind.
This method is fine.
Two years have passed, and life is very good now. My husband's company has changed to a new and larger office. He is very considerate to me. Many times he makes me feel that the choice of not getting a divorce is right.
I finished watching "Deadly Woman" over the weekend, and I asked my husband to watch it, so I watched it again with him, and I finished it in two days. We had been talking in the middle of the night, and he told me that he really wasn't a habitual cheater. I choose to believe.
Being unkind can sometimes have a really great impact on life, and it can even destroy a person.
I am more fortunate that I am not completely destroyed, but of course I have suffered a lot of psychological blows and injuries. The scary thing is that sometimes you can't tell what it will change about you, your thoughts, your character, Your cognition, it just eats away at you and makes you feel different.
Watching a drama is like watching life, and I am very fortunate that Taylor and Eli can start their lives again.
I wrote this article to let more people avoid the harm of such multi-faceted people, quietly live their own beautiful life, and don't let them slip into their own lives.
Actually think about it, I can find the signs of W a lot at the beginning. For example, when I pull a group, she adds T in a second. If you think about it, if there is no other purpose, there is no need to add an ex-roommate just to transfer cards. There won't be people who meet as friends. But I didn't take this as a symptom or a signal in time to let it pass.
But this is not absolute. I think the probability of unkind people in the world is still very few. Among fatal women, Jade is unkind and heartless; Beth Ann’s husband is unkind, and the pain of losing a child is a pain that a woman cannot bear. He let his wife bear it, and added weights to let her bear the weight. But other people, even the little three April, have a lovely and beautiful side in them.
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