Female addict - Doing is never about talking, and talking is never about doing.
Addicts of Women is a talk-and-talk movie, and it's very much a talk-and-talk split into two episodes.
The story is better understood. Although it takes countless people, countless events, and countless coincidences to happen, and then weave them together as reasonably as possible, what the story really wants to express is always only about one or two. A person who really touched me.
So for such a movie that may or may seem controversial, I can only simply talk about those two people who may not be important to others, but who I really like.
The introduction of the story stems from an old bachelor who picked up a disfigured and dismal middle-aged woman from the street. Just based on the story of the old man and the woman, I can't think of sex in any way, but this story happens to put these two people who seem to have nothing to do with sex, and it is very hot to watch around sex. The words started a conversation that lasted for hours, and the content they talked about was all about sex, but they had nothing to do with sex.
Just from the two people in the communication center, don't look at the stories that happened to them, just talk about these two people.
Joe, a good-looking girl, knows how to read words, has first-class reversing and storage skills, knows the advantages of being a woman, can handle multiple lines at the same time without conflict, handles interpersonal relationships properly, and has outstanding ability to pick up a conversation. If you want to be a blue-collar salesman, she is the best performer in the industry.
Look at Seligman, a scholar who has read poetry and books. His tone is deep and he knows how to listen. He has an honest face. He can even tell you one, two, four, five, six when he talks about anything. He is greedy for money, does not pay attention to food, clothing, housing, and transportation, and studies religion, mathematics, music, philosophy, etc., and the whole is a walking encyclopedia. With this skill, he could teach a book in any college or university, and he would be a well-known doctor with constant lectures and a monthly income of one million yuan.
However, it is absolutely impossible for these two people to lack the company of the opposite sex, but they have embarked on a sexual road of no return. Joe's story is very attractive, erotic enough to be obscene enough, enough to cover her face, alas, she can't read it, and it is because her story is so extreme that she has enough gimmicks, and with gimmicks, perhaps the author who creates the characters can There are private goods in the cliché. I don't dare to guess what the author wants to express, and I don't dare to claim that I understand the content of the story. I even think that I am the person who is the most confused and the deepest. People are at the center and the most confused. But sometimes it's confusing, and maybe it's clear enough.
I don't want to talk about Joe, she likes sex, she wants to have sex, so she does it, she's a doer and a resolute doer, she can give up her son's care for the pleasure of sexual abuse, she can In pursuit of the advent of orgasm, she is constantly trying to innovate. She can be said to be a born revolutionary. She will inevitably walk on the road, and she will only tell herself whether she is right or wrong with her scarred body.
Unlike Joe, looking at Seligman in reverse, he seems to know everything, someone who can talk about anything, but he lives a lonely life. He is a virgin, and his family is not good. A ray of sunshine is just a little charity given by an unknown building. But Seligman remembers, he remembers where the sun is, and sees where the sun comes. Seligman's people are just like where he lives, small, not clean, dark, with gun-like stains on the walls. But Seligman's people, like him, would go to see the dim light of the big point at sunrise.
But Joe and Seligman, are they really who they are?
Joe said I love sex, and I'm curious about it, so when I was little, I found a bad boy who seemed to know the most about sex, and asked him to give me a 3+5 package, and she would go with Different men have sex, using the same lie every time to deceive each other and bring her the first orgasm. She even witnessed her shed a few feet away on the day her father died. Hot honeydew of love.
Joe said, I saw two women, I saw the smile of my own newborn baby, I saw the 40 lashes in Rome, I lost the pleasure, so I tried I wanted to find it, I went to a psychiatrist, I went to a mutual aid group , to experience the stimulation of the language barrier, to enjoy the pain of the whipping, but at the end of the story Joe said, I am tired, I want to be what other people want me to be, and be a normal person to live a life without sex addiction, to understand the real allure of being attracted to things other than sex.
Joe thought, I've been in the army all my life, fighting for it, maybe I can enjoy a moment of peace when I'm old, let me sleep, alone.
Joe has always lived an unrestrained life, but at the end of the day, he yearned for the opposite.
And what about Seligman, we don't know his story, has he ever been married? Have you had a good day? Have you ever experienced unprecedented excitement in the sea of books? I don't know anything about the previous one, but I can be absolutely sure that he, like Joe, must have sexual problems.
The last thing Seligman said to Joe was very interesting, he said that the reason you are like this, with the eyes of infamy and worldly prejudice, is only because you are a woman. Because she is a woman, she is addicted to sex, no. Because it is a woman, so fooling around, no. Because you are a woman, you are the one who has to be by your child's side at all times at night.
And for Seligman, he has only one problem, an obvious one, impotence because he is a man, no.
Seligman appears to be a man with no desires, and I dare not assume frigidity or how asexual people feel, but I understand the gossip about being a normal person. Just like how Joe was treated in the company, no one cares about the hunger and intolerance caused by sex addiction, everyone else sees your slut-like behavior, and Seligman is the same, no one cares if you are excited or not The impulse and the beautiful experience, what others see is just a dumb fire gun that you can't get up.
Men, asexuality, these two things may have created Seligman's addiction to books. He found another way to release his urge, but to outsiders, he was just a bookworm. The difference with Seligman is that he gave up, just like the tenacious will of the Italian army, he gave in as a man of flesh and blood, he lived alone, he was not rich, he did not need to contact others, let alone pay attention to others. look.
And this kind of life is exactly what the woman on the front line wants. What I want is always with you. Maybe people are such animals. You let me do it. I don't want to, but I like it. The way you do, we will eventually become the people we hate, because we will always get bored.
Seligman is a coward, not because he can't get tough, but because he's always pinning it on this lady he's just met for one night. Joe is not a warrior with honor, and what she pursues in her life is only what she wants for a moment.
Seligman had big dreams, and when he saw Joe, I'm sure he saw the light of his own. And Joe has always had small ambitions, and those who put the burden on others always wrongly estimate the inner feelings of those who stood up first.
As I said at the beginning, doing is never about talking, and talking is never about doing. Whether it is Joe or Seligman, when we look at the overall situation and simply pull away from the hearts and choices of the two people without any personal subjectivity, we will be surprised to find that they will always be each other.
So when Joe chose to give up, the ray of sunshine outside Seligman's window must have dimmed. In the end, he finally mustered up the courage and pulled out what had been hidden in his crotch for decades. It was both a compromise to life and a resistance to fate. He wanted to do something to find that Once Joe, and Joe is no longer willing. Or maybe they didn't change because Joe wanted to get to know and get rid of it from the start, and Seligman once again pinned his hopes on someone else.
Like the argument they made about that pedophile. He restrained his desires, so he should have his own medal. Joe understands this because he does it himself, and Seligman doesn't because he never fights.
I don't think Seligman is a hypocrite, or Joe is fighting for feminist interests, because they are all just simple people, not about the group, only about the individual, out of the deepest hope in their hearts, ordinary of only one person. My favorite part of the whole movie accident is the discussion between the two about which hand should cut their nails first, and the only thing I might agree with about what the other more or less people see is about gender Differences will indeed bring criticisms of differences, and the harm has never stopped since the moment of human birth.
The movie ends with a song that ends the whole story with a song about Joe, you pick up a gun and go south, and whether the word gun has another meaning with layers of it, I'll never know.
Has Joe really changed? Is Seligman really dead? And what is the South like?
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