a person who never existed

John 2022-03-21 09:03:03

"Haijie Diary" seems to be a movie from the previous year. At that time, I listened to Shuzhi and a few people. It sounded very good. At that time, Mr. Wu came to visit relatives, so I bought a 2T mobile hard disk on the Internet, please Li Shui There are many movies and TV dramas in the south, including "Haijie Diary", and I asked Teacher Wu to bring it here. I didn't feel it before, but the traffic was restricted on the island, and I realized how happy it is to use a few hundred yuan per month of broadband at home. After the hard disk arrived, I saw that the movie was as much as 4 GB. After changing several players, it was not smooth enough to play (probably because of win10), and I could not find the subtitles that matched the time. I tried to manually adjust it several times. , I can't always match it, so I simply don't look at it.

It rained heavily last night, and it didn't stop until noon today, and it was a lot cooler. It's been too hot recently. When I came here last year, I even showed off to my friends how good the weather is in Cook. The temperature is around 25°C all year round. Even in summer, I can sleep with a thin blanket at night. As a result, the climate changed drastically this year. The days with temperatures above 30°C lasted for three or four months. To say how much and a little, is to distinguish the unbearable heat of Hunan.

What to eat every day is a headache and tired of cookie-cutter ingredients. In the recipe, I saw someone stir-fry chicken wings with tomato sauce. The red ones looked pretty good. During the day, I went out and bought chicken wings and tomato sauce and came back to make them. However, in the evening, I didn't know what to eat, so I randomly fried a bowl of noodles and ate it, feeling too bad.

I was blind in the hard drive at night, I didn't read a lot, but I didn't get interested. When I saw "Haijie Diary", I remembered that I hadn't watched it, and I tried it again. Probably the computer was downgraded back to win7, and the broadcast would not be delayed any more. The subtitles were still out of sync, but I adjusted it patiently for a while, and it was still correct. The movie starts from the second sister, let's talk about the second sister first.

The second sister is in good shape. She just got up from the bed, changed her clothes, and has a very flat and healthy belly. She is a carefree character, and she wears the eldest sister's clothes without asking. Missing the alarm clock in the morning, going to be late for work, and rushing to the station with Simei, while waiting for the bus, she asked Simei if she had someone she liked at school, Simei shook her head, she smiled and said, "I want to find one, In this way, you will feel that the world is different." My sister asked how is it different? She said, "I think I can endure even a boring job." But in fact, she often breaks up in love. Several boyfriends don't work hard and spend her money. The eldest sister often persuades her, but she doesn't listen to her. He got very drunk.

But I like the character of the second sister, that is, I only like others in my heart and don't care too much about the results, because it seems that I am also a person with such a character. Her job is to deal with assets. Aunt Ninomiya has cancer, and her younger brother also wants to fight for her property. She is a very poor person. Colleagues and her came out of the store. Er Gong made a will to keep some of her property. After finishing speaking, her colleague said, "Since the gods don't help Er Gong, then only we can help her." When I saw this, I hope Er sister can like this colleague and get along with him. Contact, such a responsible person, probably won't let her down like those gangster boyfriends before her.

However, this relationship doesn't seem to be explained in the movie. One day, fireworks were set off in the sky. Colleagues from their company stood on the roof and watched from a distance between the buildings. Colleagues sighed that watching fireworks on the rooftop is so lonely. It's good to go to the beach with your boyfriend. At this time, my second sister's male colleague also went up to the rooftop. I was looking forward to something between them. After all, it's a joy to be with the person you like, even if you have to work, and you can only watch the fireworks from such a short distance.

The fourth sister is the half-sister of the three sisters. The three sisters did not meet this sister until the day their father died, when they went to the funeral. Here, from the mouth of the eldest sister, I know that their father is a good old man who will guarantee a friend's loan in his own name, and will try his best to help a woman as soon as he sympathizes with the woman. It's just a pity that the good man went too far, and even did things like abandoning his wife and children. People are really contradictory. When the three sisters were about to leave, the fourth sister came from behind and gave them some photos left by their father. The eldest sister then asked the little girl to take a few of them to the little girl's favorite place in the town, and the little girl took them up the mountain, saying that her father often brought her here in the past. In the years after the father left home, what he did and what kind of life he lived, the love he was supposed to give to the three daughters was transferred to the other daughter. The three sisters must be very emotional about this situation. In fact, before my father left home, he also took the eldest sister to a nearby mountain, and the scenery in front of her was similar. The eldest sister should be more touched.

The eldest sister knew that it was the fourth sister who took care of her father when he was sick, and the mother did not love the fourth sister, so she asked the fourth sister if she wanted to live in her house. The fourth sister thought about it and agreed.

Similarly, when the fourth sister arrived in Kamakura and went to Aunt Ninomiya's shop to eat sardine bread, she realized that her father first ate this food here. These are the life of his father before his second marriage. Like the three sisters who only later learned that the father who left home still likes to climb mountains, it is the same mood.

Relatives and lovers are the same, whether it is him before or after separation, knowing what he looks like makes people feel fond of him.

This is probably the moving part of this movie, a person who never existed, he stayed in the minds of different people at different stages, and was recreated completely by the common memories of these different people. It is an eternity that transcends life and death.

Details about beyond life and death abound in the film. The green plum tree that my grandfather planted was planted in the year my mother was born. It has been fifty-five years old. The green plum wine made by my grandmother is still available ten years ago. I gave her the last bottle of green plum wine that my grandmother made. After many years, I can taste the wine made by my mother again, I am very happy. Don't feel a pity after drinking the last bottle, because the sisters learned the craft of making green plum wine from their grandmother, and they make it every year, as if my grandmother is still there every year. I like this kind of triviality interspersed in life. This is the most rare and precious inheritance for ordinary people.

The relationship of the eldest sister is not smooth, and she has taken care of the family these years. When my mother came back, she said this and that, she was very angry, and said, "Where have you been in those years when we needed you? Because my father found other women, you also left us, and now come back to give this opinion to that Opinion, we don't need it." The eldest sister is justifiable to lose her temper like this, the whole family is supported by her.

The person she likes is not married yet, so she made an appointment to see something together, but the middle-aged man said that his mother-in-law was not in good health and could not go. When the eldest sister heard this, she was very disappointed. She still pretended to be okay and said that you should go to the mother-in-law. Another time, after washing the chopsticks, I said that you also like to bite the chopsticks, and they were all broken. The middle-aged man said that you should go buy a few new pairs. The eldest sister said that chopsticks can't be bought casually, and she hoped that the other party could give her some promise, which was really distressing.

Later, when she was with this middle-aged man, her sisters found out, and the second sister scolded her that she should not fall in love with a middle-aged man who was not divorced, otherwise what was the difference between her father and her father?

This middle-aged man refused to divorce, saying that his wife was sick and he couldn't bear it. The elder sister was also soft-hearted and kept waiting like this. Suddenly one day, this man suddenly said that he was going to get a divorce. He wanted to go to the United States for further studies, and he wanted to take his eldest sister to go there. He finally managed to keep the clouds open and see the moon, but the eldest sister was still reluctant to let several sisters at home and did not agree.

When they parted, the eldest sister said that the fourth sister did not have a good childhood and wanted to stay in Kamakura to take care of her. The man said in turn: What about your childhood? It was also taken away by adults too early. The eldest sister was startled, I think she likes older people, and she also wants to get some compensation. Fortunately, someone said something like this, and I think the eldest sister is very happy. After all, some people understand their disagreement all these years.

At the end, when the four sisters were walking on the beach, the eldest sister suddenly said: Although my father is a loser, he is a very gentle person. The second and third sisters asked why, she said otherwise, why would she leave such a gentle child as the fourth sister.

PS: The article was written in March of 2017. At that time, I hadn’t read the director’s shooting notes, but the people he wanted to express in the film were ordinary and complicated. According to this article, I already felt at that time. When it comes to some of the intentions, it is very interesting that when I read the filming notes at the beginning of this year, I can't remember the plot of the movie at all. Until today, I suddenly found the old text and realized that the things in the three time and space can still correspond one by one. It seems that I have been personally verified by the director, which is a really happy moment.

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