When I was a child, I read Zhou Guoping's writing: Love is usually not three people walking together, because love is two lonely souls trying to understand and get close, and then one person joins, not ethically bad, but too difficult - after all, it is difficult for two people to understand each other Like ascending to the sky. Later, my predecessors said that open relationships "underestimated the possessiveness of human beings."
I really believe in your wickedness. From an existentialist perspective, these are assertions about human nature. However, human nature can be extended, so you just drew a circle, are you Monkey King?
Eli and Taylor's marriage also seems to confirm: open marriage is no good. However, the marriage between the two was problematic. No, what I'm trying to say is not that Taylor broke the contract and brought Jade into the house. Their marriage itself was just two pieces of cloth sewed together indiscriminately.
And the genius of "Deadly Woman" lies in catching the fleas on the brocade robe one by one for you to see - right from wrong at first, only to find out that no one is a complete little white rabbit or a big bad wolf. At first, it seemed that Taylor was self-inflicted: who told you to bring the big beauty P friend under the roof? It seems that Eli is the bad luck. People are sitting at home and B is shaking in front of him. How can I ask a man to control it? But in the fifth season, it became clear that if Jade didn't join their lives, Taylor would be suffocated: helping her husband to detoxify, supporting the family's expenses, the combination of two people who were originally equal, because she was responsible for it all alone and changed in quality. , became a shot put dragged at the foot.
But you can't blame Eli, even if he's like a piece of shit. Originally, who doesn't step on a pit in life, but you can't shout next to everyone who falls: "Come on! Stand up! You can!" The sentence he said "All I know is that I used to be a writer, wait for me. Once you get rid of drugs, it’s not anymore.” It doesn’t mean that artistic creation has to be tied to drugs or depravity, but there is one person here, and he can’t find his feelings anymore. Of course, it may be that he is too pampered; what if life forces him to write some standardized business scripts with the fame he has accumulated, even if he becomes a coding machine? But there are no assumptions in life, even if he is a fictional character, we are just outsiders.
The sense of existence and power is too important for men, and some men can risk their lives for this; these are impossible to find for Eli. But at this time, serve him and worship him. Makes him willing to break the villain's window to save Jade's dog, makes him promise to take care of her when he earns money. And Jade also seems to have a secret, especially what she said: afraid of getting too close, it will hurt. So far, she's been like an ungrateful green tea bitch, but once her past comes to light, maybe she'll become understandable and even sympathetic - just like Eli and Taylor now.
It stands to reason that Taylor and Eli are also in love, and Taylor and Jade are also in love. Why can't Taylor endure the relationship between Eli and Jade that can be called "love"? Why can't she stand, calling herself Eli or Jade second in anyone's mind? My predecessor's theory of "exclusivity" seems to have the upper hand. I have always believed that people who are insecure will want to take and want to monopolize. I only want an explanation when I have been injured, but because I have been forced to pay too much, I can't stand who of the two and don't give myself the highest ranking. And this Throuple, this is three people with scars, blackmailing each other.
The premise of an open marriage is that everyone is an equal and confident individual. Only when you are full can you share it with others.
Maybe open marriage doesn't seem to work in the world, precisely because most people in the world are incomplete?
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