How are those irresponsible parents shaped?

Yolanda 2022-03-21 09:02:58

The film is based on a true story. We must have heard this statement:

Happy families are the same. Unhappy families have their own strengths"

The protagonist of the story, the man the child calls his father, has no serious job and likes to gamble. Treating children regardless, even starving for three days is commonplace.

And the woman called mother, because of her own cowardice, did not dare to leave this man, and chose to give birth to four children again and again.

Such an unfortunate life does not only exist in TV dramas. In real life, we often see such examples:

On the day the child was born, he was abandoned by his biological parents. Or on the day of birth, because it is the daughter who does not get any attention, the idea of ​​patriarchal. If you are born as a son, you will be smiling, and if you give birth to a daughter, you will be cold benched, or rolled your eyes. not welcomed by any family

It's all 9102 now, and this kind of ban thought is still alive in the world. I really want to ask those parents, what did they eat to grow up?

Since you have no way to give your children a complete family and complete personality. Why did you let this kid come out?

Is it not enough to be born unhappy? Have to pull a pad on the back? Also euphemistically said: I am for your own good?

Maybe when I was young, I didn't know the world. When you reach adulthood, you find yourself a victim of a failed marriage, or someone born for your own selfish desires.

I advise those parents who do not have good economic strength and whose personalities are incomplete, don't harm their children, don't become the victims who can only give birth but have no ability to educate, each child is an independent individual, they are not born by you tool.

At the end of the play, one of them told his boyfriend: What kind of person is my father, he didn't invent any patents, instead he was an alcoholic and a gambler, but I love my father very much, I I think this pattern is not so generous for everyone. If such a situation appeared in reality, I am afraid it would be a different scenario.

Fortunately, the ending was perfect. The four children lived the life they wanted through their own efforts. Even if they didn't get married, they were happy. Because they know that the misfortune of their native family should not harm anyone.

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Extended Reading
  • Arnold 2022-03-28 09:01:09

    Based on real events. I resonated with the most profound truth: everything brought about by the family of origin will really affect me for the rest of my life. The pursuit of freedom does not mean indulgence. Respecting the original heart is not an excuse for lack of responsibility. No matter how tall the ideal is, in front of the bread, it is just a glass castle built in the air - it cannot be built, and it will be broken when touched. We are not entitled to choose our parents, but we are entitled to redraw our paths as adults. I grit my teeth to save money, and try my best to pluck the strings of my life. Even if it's not so beautiful, at least my blood is left on the strings.

  • Armando 2022-03-28 09:01:09

    The peculiar nature of real events is often beyond people's imagination. An unbelievable family, a pair of parents with a rather eccentric way of thinking, and a relatively strong child, finally had a not-so-good ending.

The Glass Castle quotes

  • Rex: I never built the glass castle.

    Jeannette: No. But it was fun to plan it.

  • Jeannette: He's never gonna change. You have to leave him.

    [pause]

    Rose Mary: I can't.