Connie and Martial met for the first time, and Martial told Connie to read a certain page of a book that read—
"Be happy for this moment.
This moment is your life."
This is the life creed of this young, dashing, bohemian French man who has no family and proves his worth by conquering women. On the train, Connie recalled the first time she had fun with Martial (personally thought this was one of the most exciting scenes in the whole movie), and the self in bed and the self on the train were constantly intertwined, from the very beginning. Resisting the enjoyment to the end, the whole process and even recalling it afterwards, she clearly knew what it meant. She was timid and ashamed, but she also repeatedly tasted this passion and pleasure.
At the end, another possibility is assumed after they met (one of the best moments in the whole movie), if she did not go upstairs, but turned into a taxi, then everyone, all emotions would be different result. In fact, when people make every decision, even a very small one, it may affect the outcome of the matter, but at this inconspicuous critical juncture, people are always dominated by desires and are good at deceiving themselves. Connie deceived herself: It's nothing to go upstairs with him, he won't have bad thoughts, nothing will happen once, and even if something happens, no contact will be made in the future, and they will disappear in each other's lives forever. But in fact, she longed for freshness in her heart and wanted to get in touch with him.
This is human nature.
If you can't fight your instincts, you're bound to be greeted by uncontrolled developments, constant trouble for yourself, and the brakes at the cost of hurting everyone. So please fight against human nature when you have absolute control in the first place. Maybe at that moment, you are as uncomfortable as a drug addiction and must fight fiercely with your body and heart. But that's what it means to be human.
"Be happy for this moment. This moment is your life." This sentence in the book caused me to think a lot. Because of this sentence, Connie and Martial's affair provided an excellent lobbyist, slowly swallowing up their guilt and moral bottom line, allowing them to hold hands, kiss, and flirt unscrupulously in public. Make Connie feel more at ease about lying to her husband, and make it natural for Martial to seduce married women and move between women.
The words "living in the moment" can make a person or destroy a person.
It emphasizes the importance of "now" and "now". First of all, "living in the present" means that one day in the future, you will not struggle, be disturbed, or regret the choices made at this moment. Therefore, the "now" moment is very important. Think rationally, not emotionally convince yourself. Secondly, it is to encourage people, if you have any wishes or lofty ideals, from the moment "now", please put them into action, and your efforts and actions now directly determine whether your wishes and ideals can be realized. Finally, it is to cherish the "now", that is, the present you, the present things, and the things you have at this moment, because there is no one thing that you can have forever, it will always be in various forms The way left you, so what you have at this moment is only temporary, please embrace it affectionately.
However, in contemporary society, "living in the moment" has been misinterpreted or deliberately misinterpreted by many people as a way of persuading themselves to provide a powerful defense for their current decisions. Therefore, many people covet pleasures that do not match their actual situation. When someone comes to persuade them, they drop the words "live in the moment" without thinking. They interpret "live in the moment" as enjoying the happiness of the moment to the fullest. I'm also someone who strives to enjoy life, but I don't think too much or too little is the best state, and "appropriate" is the best balance.
Be happy for this moment. This moment is your life. This is also a sentence I like very much, but he is more used to spur me to cherish the moment.
In the end, it is a good movie, with delicate emotional changes and subtle echoes of details...
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