What Happened to Kevin (We Need to Talk About Kevin, 2011)

Jamir 2022-03-20 09:01:41

1. What happened to Kevin (We Need to Talk About Kevin, 2011) is a good film. The value conflict structure is shown in Figure 1.

In Figure 1, the main value is love, against which the negative can be self-hatred, self-loathing, self-abandonment, or false love.

2. Zuo Zhuan records that "Gong Zhuang was born and shocked Jiang's family, so he was named Zhuosheng, and he hated it", which is different from Jiang's hatred of his own children. In the story, the mother played by Swindon is in the In the memory crawling, I collected different reasons (one of the reasons, including children witnessing their parents making love, which is also one of Hitler's life experiences) to blame themselves, try to correct themselves, to "understand" and "love" children. This story tests the concept that maternal love is an unconditional affirmation of a child's life and needs. The Art of Loving (The Art of Loving, 1956) 2. The theory of love 3. The object of love b Maternal love:

But a very important addition must be made here. There are two levels of affirmation for children's lives, one of which is the care and responsibility absolutely required for the maintenance and growth of children's lives. The other level is not only the preservation of life, but an attitude that infuses the child with love for life and makes him feel that it is good to be alive, to be a little boy or a little girl, to live in How beautiful this world is! ...Most mothers are able to give "milk", but only a few mothers are able to give "honey" together. In order to be able to give honey, a mother must not only be a "good mother" but also be a happy person - however, this is not something many people can do. It is no exaggeration to exaggerate the influence of mothers on their children. The mother's love for life and her anxiety are equally infectious to the child, and either of these attitudes has a profound effect on the child's overall personality; indeed, in children as well as adults, we can distinguish which are the only ones. Those who get "milk" and which ones get "milk and honey". . . . The real achievement of the mother seems to lie not in the mother's love for the infant, but in his love for the growing child; indeed, when the infant is still very young and completely dependent on the mother, the mothers are overwhelmingly loving mothers.

3. The concrete manifestation of the toughness of the protagonist of the story. He is holding a heavy stone tool and holding a razor between his fingers, scraping and grinding the blood-red paint on the walls and glass windows.

4. The demon-like young man in the story was hurt by indifference since childhood due to his mother's postpartum depression. When he was five or six years old, he was hurt by the fear of being replaced because his mother told him the news of her pregnancy again. He is about to have a sister. Although he is a teenager, from the way he eats jam toast, gnaws on roast chicken, and bites his nails in the movie, we get a message: in fact, his inner part is still in the stage of the undeveloped oral cavity, and he is still waiting to feed, A baby who longs for endless motherly love. Since he does not get the affirmation of life from love, he is immature and lacks the ability to love, including lack of self-love.

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We Need to Talk About Kevin quotes

  • Eva: You don't look happy.

    Kevin: Have I ever?

  • Eva: So, the daddy bear plants his seed in the mommy bear and it grows into an egg.

    Kevin, 6-8 Years: Is this about fucking?

    Eva: Do you know what that means?

    Kevin, 6-8 Years: The boy puts his pee pee in the girls doo doo.