In this life, who do you want to accompany you on the next journey?

Rosella 2021-11-27 08:01:17

In a happy ending in a tense, the protagonist meets his first love girlfriend again after many years, forgetting the past, and starting over again, marrying the woman he originally wanted to marry, giving birth to a smart and cute daughter, and living happily Together.

In the happy ending of another tense, the male protagonist pondered for a long time in the face of the divorce agreement when his daughter was seven or eight years old. He wanted to find the true love that he had missed because of his youth and cowardice. Since then he and his love (PS, with the support of his daughter) have lived happily together.

When the previous happy ending happened, no one could foresee that there should be another happy ending in this story; and when the next happy ending happened, everyone did not deny that the previous episode was also a happy ending (the male protagonist himself That said, that lovely daughter is the happy ending of all the previous stories). This is the tolerant and gentle part of this film, just like the title, conclusive, and leave room for it. Because of this forward life, you can never predict what the future will be.

Emily is obviously tender, and the habit of touching her lover's sideburns makes me feel so emotional. Wisconsin is a conservative and peaceful state. People enjoy a slow and peaceful life. The small town of Madison is more romantic and peaceful. Emily, who is happy and content in such a life, is unimaginable and unwilling to assume life in a bustling city like New York. As soon as Will left, she was surrounded by a sudden sense of insecurity, and the future of the two seemed so far away. This scene is similar to what happened to a couple on campus when we graduated from college. It is not difficult to imagine that even without Emily's derailment, maybe Will will transfer love in a few months. If Will really succeeded in proposing marriage at that time, maybe it was just artificially setting constraints for both parties. This kind of love that is completely indifferent to society and only relies on pure love on campus is inherently fragile; the sense of security that can only be achieved by getting along day and night is too easy to collapse after all. Two people who enter into marriage in this state will have no space to mature each other, and ultimately will not be a perfect relationship.

Summer is obviously passionate, from a sudden kiss to singing and dancing in a red dress. The joy of Will's time with her makes me almost sincerely feel that this is a good way to go. Because those intimacy are so natural, happiness almost overflows from the tips of two people's hair. At this moment, who cares whether Will was broken by Emily, and Summer had hooked up with the old man of her mentor. The beauty and inconceivability of love is that it can sweep the world. The grievances and hatreds of the past and the future can be kept behind. As long as you concentrate on enjoying the present, it can become all you have. It's a pity that Summer doesn't plan to give up everything else for love. She pursues a breakthrough in her career rather than the future of love and two people. She is a kind of selfishness and pride that can't be touched by each other, and at the same time possesses extremely hot and extremely calm. She is an excellent woman, but unfortunately there is no "weigh and sacrifice for love" in her dictionary. This kind of relationship has no alternative but to end well.

April's words, I think it is amorous from the moment of appearance. In the blink of an eyebrow of this woman, there is no telling how good-looking. She wanted nothing but alienated from the world, wishing to travel around the world to places she didn't understand at all. She can speak long and difficult sentences with very complicated words, sometimes cynical, and sometimes warm and touching. There is a kind of loneliness deep in her expression, but she can always conceal it with a bright smile. Will's sincerity and even a little clumsiness is what makes her heart fascinating. In the depths of the soul of this eager woman, she originally yearned for a safe haven for her to let go of all her wandering fantasies. Will never understand this complex, probably not easy for all men, so April said he was an idiot. It's just that April, like all women, is used to avoiding the most important things in front of the people they love, using funny conversations to cover up their sincerity, or offering insincere helpless blessings. Because of love, I feel humble, so I feel that I can't compete with others, so I can only escape or twist. This state of mind was later experienced by Will. When he went to April's home to return the books, and when he saw April's handsome boyfriend Kevin leave afterwards, he had automatically given up on the woman he loved.

Therefore, the re-encounter with Emily happened later, and the old relationship was naturally rekindled. Only then has the first happy ending to continue the front edge.

I would rather believe that the two former lovers who had gone through the vicissitudes of life after passing through the years, respectively, gained a rare peace when they held hands again. Just like the conversation between Will and April in the bar, the so-called sometimes it doesn’t matter who you meet. The important thing is that at a certain point in time, you just want to settle down and want a confirmed and stable promise and contract. , And the person you meet at this time will become that person. This is absolutely the truth. Will was obviously already at that point in time. The humble feeling born of love made him give up April, so Emily became the best candidate to do his part: What could be better than someone who is so familiar with and has a deep emotional foundation and common ground with you A woman with life experience is more suitable to be your wife.

This is a pragmatic Happy ending. Most people in this world can come to such an ending, it is estimated that it is enough to wake up from a dream.

But the Yankees really like to pursue maximum happiness. This is their highest principle of survival, and they are not fettered by morality, responsibility, public opinion, and so on. Therefore, in this male-perspective movie, the male protagonist needs to obtain the ultimate happiness. So the film arranged for his wife to submit a divorce agreement almost ten years after marriage. He decided to fulfill himself after reviewing his relationship career, but April, who was single on the other side, was preparing to welcome him to start their common life. .

This story is actually not tortuous or touching. It's just that some emotional details make me feel so real; and some understanding of feelings, I think it's quite appropriate.

Definitely, Maybe. We are turned round and round in the roulette of love. No one knows who will occupy the position we most want to occupy in the end, and no one knows where we will land. But according to the logic of this movie, it also gives the opportunists a little confidence: to live in this world is to keep it at the gaming table. Maybe someday, there will be unexpected luck, and come to a re-definition. , A brand new happy ending.

And you, who do you want to accompany you on the next journey of this life?

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Definitely, Maybe quotes

  • Maya Hayes: What's a threesome?

    Will Hayes: It's a game, that adults play sometimes... When they're bored.

    Maya Hayes: ...Whatever.

  • April: You and me, it'd kinda be like cats and dogs.

    Will Hayes: Oil and water.

    April: Sand paper and bare ass.

    Will Hayes: That's gross.