I have recommended this movie to N people, especially fellow men. In my opinion, this is a must-see movie for fellow men. And a movie worth watching over and over again. When you are a son, when you are a father, when you are a grandfather. Every time you change your identity, you will have a new experience.
The first time I watched this movie was in college. I remember that after 12 o’clock that night, I was still watching this movie, and then I cried a lot. I still remember that I threw a pack of tissues in the upper bunk, a pack of tissues in the dark night. Later, there was another training session in Tai'an. It should be around Father's Day. After listening to the whirring mountain wind, I finished watching this movie. Can't remember how many people I recommended this movie to. Born as a son, as a son, the father-son relationship has always been a hot topic in many film and television works.
Background: In 1980, the Turkish military staged a coup that ousted the government and dissolved the parliament.
1. Sadik and his father
Forgive me for indulging in love and freedom in this life---rebellious, challenging patriarchy. Sadik, in order to pursue his own freedom, for his own ideals, and perhaps because of his rebellion, in order to resist his father's arrangement for him, refused to study at an agricultural university, and became a leftist with the ideal of changing the world and making the world a better place. reporter. At the beginning, Sadik ran away from home without hesitation. For his own ideals, this also corresponds to the reflections of the mother and father on this matter in the back of the film. When Sadik returned home in order to give his son a free space, his father did not understand him, he turned his head again and left, but when he thought of his son, he turned back. At this time, his mother said that you are leaving this time, and I will talk to you. If you leave, I will not let you leave alone again, "You have already left once, don't think about leaving again". Later, Sadik passed away, and his father returned to his hometown with his body. Standing at the intersection, he suddenly shouted in excitement, crying and shouting, regretting that he did not stop him and hugged him. Sadik's self-blame was so overwhelming, Sadik's aunt asked his other son to run to his father, who was knocked down by his father, and told him, "No one can stop him if he's going alone."
Sadik didn't understand his father because of his father's strength, and his father thought it was a logical life to go to an agricultural university, marry a girl from the village, and inherit the family's farm. Then in the ward, the father said to Sadik that he was not good at expressing, "You are my son, you are my everything." The father always thought that the son had not grown up, and always wanted to control the son, but he did not know that the son had grown up, and the father's every The second control is basically out of control because of love, and from the son.
You just want to control our way of life, but I want my life, my school, my everything is your choice, you know I hate that, Dad? ""Dad, you said I left, but I didn't, I couldn't leave, and I couldn't stay. I don't recognize where my home is. You've been leading me somewhere in my head, you know what it's like to be homeless? Dad" "Do you know why I came back? Dad, in order to give Deniz a room, let him grow up healthy, let him have a home. "
A father who is not good at expressing always gives in to his son because of love, but the son does not understand. Just like in The Lion King, because of Simba, Mufasa has a weakness and knows he is afraid.
For most of us, when we were young, if we had a very strong father, we might have a kind of rebellion in our hearts. The adults said that we should go west. It seems that my rebellion came very late. When I was young, my father was very gentle to me, basically free-range, and would not interfere with me too much, including when I went to college to choose a major and work, he did not interfere too much with me. When I was tired from work and wanted to quit my job and quit my job, my father still didn’t say anything and kept silently supporting me until I got married. Thinking about the so-called freedom I’ve pursued for myself over the years, it’s very irresponsible to my family. , a father who silently pays for you behind his back, but for my own freedom, that is, selfishness, I let him make forced choices again and again - no reason to support. The concession of family affection and the compromise of father support our freedom.
The reconciliation between father and son in the play comes from the conversation in the courtyard. The father said to his son: You know how difficult it is to raise a son. And when Sadik said, "Life will go on. Someone will write a new book, but he can't read it. Someone will make a new movie, but he can't see it. He wants to listen to his favorite song again, but he can't. Maybe it's easy to get used to. He's growing up, but he's not by his side, and he can't see him when he has a girlfriend." "Dad, my heart seems to be burning. It's the burning of unfinished business behind me. Feeling. Dad, give him a home and let him come and go freely." Sadik fell, the camera also turned, and the picture rotated, which also meant that the father and son finally reconciled. This is also a particularly tear-jerking place in the play, and it is also the climax of the plot. Sadik knew that he couldn't see his son grow up, the pain made him feel a burning sensation, and he grew up with his son, but he didn't have much time.
2. Sadik and Son
At the beginning of the plot, Sadik and his wife happily fantasized about having children in the future, and practiced with pillows, but with a coup in Turkey, everything changed when his wife gave birth to a child. At that time, because the coup d'état could not find an ambulance, he died after giving birth to a child on the side of the road. In the early morning, Sadik embraced his son and greeted a troubled morning. Before and after comparison. The turning point of life begins. With the subsequent reckoning, Sadik was taken to prison and tortured, which is why he later fell ill and died. (There is also a teardrop here. Sadik and his wife are running on the road at night. The music starts and the teardrop arrives.)
Sadik entrusted his son to a kind fat mother. When he was released from prison, Sadik returned to his son. The education of his son also gave him full freedom and let his children read various books, because his son likes fantasy very much. Also with your children. I just want to cultivate children's independent thinking ability and give children a free space.
When Sadik took his son back to his hometown in the countryside, the child went to his father's bed at night, Sadik pushed his son away in pain, and the son asked his father: Do you not love me? Where is not love, in fact, the father knows that his time is short, and he wants the child to be independent and not depend on the father.
When Sadik finally passed away, the son was depressed until school was about to start. The son collapsed and said he missed his father. Then the grandfather brought his grandson to his secret room, and took the grandson to see the influence of his father when he was young. The son smiled happily, maybe the father has become a superman, watching him from the sky.
3. Sadik and friends
Sadik came home to have dinner with friends. During the dinner, one of the people who wanted to leave his hometown and did not leave asked after so much experience. If you have another choice, would you still leave? Sadik replied: I guess, I'll take everything here and bring everything back there. Sadik still has his own ideals, and still wants to work hard for his ideals and struggle.
4. Sadik and first love
It seems that Yu Rian has always been in love with Sadik. Sadik left his hometown and his lover for the ideal, but after hearing that Sadik came back, De Rian dressed up and waited for Sadik at the door. When Sadik appeared in front of her, she opened the door directly. Turn off, dress up well, close the door after encounter, love and hate.
Later, Sadik's father found his first love and told her that Sadik was non-toxic in the past, and the first love brought cookies. The first love clings to him and cried, and the sky gradually darkened, which seemed to imply the end of fate.
Compatriots, watch this movie, different ages and different identities will always have different perceptions!
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