Imagine if one day, God opened his eyes and gave you such a boyfriend :
1. He is not particularly handsome, but he is very good-looking, his facial features are clear and three-dimensional, his temperament is melancholy and charming, and most of his clothes can be supported;
2. Still rich, the small owner of a bookstore, the business is not very hot, but there are a group of diehard customers who drive a car that doesn't seem to be very cheap;
3. Almost no social network is required, restrained and calm, very interesting, extensive books, countless movies, broad knowledge, everything can talk to you, and do not like to pretend;
4. Literature and art are romantic, sunny and positive, praise you every day, in his eyes you are the most perfect woman in the world, unconditionally support you to do anything, can help you share all negative emotions;
5. Will help you deal with all kinds of problems behind the scenes, so that you will not be disturbed by messy things, you need protection, he always appears by your side the first time;
6. Love to do housework and cook for you every day;
7. He is extremely dedicated to you, absolutely impossible to cheat. He remembers everything you say, and it is impossible to forget birthdays, holidays or other anniversaries. When you celebrate your birthday, he prepares everything in advance, and he personally baked a cake for you , Your favorite word is written on the cake.
How about it? Are you about to cry? "Don't talk about it's useless, where can I get this kind of boyfriend, you say!"
But if we describe his other characteristics...
1. Steal other people's mobile phones (sometimes computers) and look at other people's privacy;
2. Peeping into sexuality, excessive desire for control, he has to read every one of your WeChat;
3. A stalker attacked a young woman in a park;
4. The number of killings is unknown, but the face is not changed in the process of committing the crime, and the body is burned;
Are you a little scared?
Let's describe it in detail. If the person he followed for the first time, it was you?
If he is the one who spies, is it you?
If there is a box in his house with several pairs of your underwear in it, what if he sneaked into your house and stole it when you were not together?
Don't worry, it's not over yet.
What if the person he killed was your ex-boyfriend and the person he attacked was your good girlfriend?
Combining the above plots that the people like to hear and hear (??) is the magic drama "YOU".
The general plot, in fact, has been introduced above.
In short, Joe, the owner of a small bookstore in New York, met a girl who came to buy a book, Baker, when he was at work one day.
Because Baker is very beautiful and passionate about people, Joe fell in love with her at first sight, and even thought Baker must be interested in him. The legendary "she looked at me, I even thought about which kindergarten the child would go to".
Driven by this "like", he began to follow Baker.
He followed her wherever she went, spied on her circle of friends, and found her social network by her name, "checking" her friends and every bit of life.
He even followed her near her house and watched her and her boyfriend...hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.
If at first Joe wanted to learn more about her world out of pure affection for Baker, but slowly, the dark corners of his heart gained the upper hand, and he began to make careful arrangements. How could he have more intersections with Baker? .
He looked for an opportunity and sneaked into Baker's house.
He flipped through the books she had read, stole her underwear, and checked her computer.
He took advantage of Baker's accident and took her mobile phone along, logged in to her various accounts for a long time, and remotely viewed every chat history and social status of her.
Of course, she also got the contact information of her close people...
In terms of some details, this drama does have a lot of perverted elements.
Imagine a person, you only met once and didn’t know each other, just because you laughed at him once, he thought you had a good impression on him, frantically searching all your social media, tracking all your movements, Even entered your house--
Nima is too terrible, is there!
Even more frightening is that you have no idea that he did these things. Later, he became your boyfriend.
This is already a standard horror story!
But the setting of the plot is still very clever. The deep description of the male protagonist’s character and the ins and outs have created a petite and sick image, just like Guo Degang’s words of Yu Teacher’s mother, "the mother is strong", weakened In addition to the perverted elements of the male protagonist, the broken thoughts from the beginning to the end of each episode also make this stalker's story less scary.
In addition metamorphosis, the show attempts to explore, in fact, is "Where the boundaries of love" .
It must be said that the love of the male lead for the female lead can also be regarded as a kind of love. He indeed regards the female lead as the only one in this life, dedicated and dedicated, and dedicated his best.
But this kind of love can no longer be explained by common sense.
Because the heroine's boyfriend is a drug addict, cheating, cheating, and doing all kinds of evil, he thinks this man will drag the heroine's life, so he kills the heroine boyfriend.
Because the heroine's friends are full of lies, worshiping money, vanity, and framing each other, he feels that the heroine will lose herself with them, so he designed to gradually keep her away from her friends.
Because the heroine's best girlfriend tried to control her and keep her with her forever, he felt that the heroine's career and future would be destroyed, so he attacked this girlfriend.
Step by step, he pulled the hostess close to him, and cut off her communication with the outside world at the same time.
He felt that only he could bring happiness to the heroine, and only the life he created for the heroine was the real life, except for him, everyone was critical to her.
Can such love be regarded as love?
In the name of love, we control the other half in every detail, arrange each other's life, ignore their personal wishes, and ignore their privacy and private space. Can this kind of feeling be considered equal?
After all, the male protagonist is a murderer whose hands are stained with blood. This kind of person is always one of the few.
But it’s not uncommon to see people like the male lead.
He may be your boyfriend who doesn't allow you to wear skirts. If you dress up better, you think you are seduce a man's boyfriend.
He may be your boyfriend who thinks you are wrong and you are inferior to him in every respect.
He may be your boyfriend who suppresses your personality, deprives you of your freedom, and thinks that you must live according to his instructions.
They believe that your lifestyle is naive, boring, and rubbish, and you need to be guided by them, otherwise you will be finished.
"What's the use of you always watching broken dramas? Learn from me and read more books."
"Those idols you chase are some kind of shit, you see, I never fan celebrities."
"After you get married, stop working and prepare for pregnancy and baby at home. I will think about the future for you."
...
First, you are required to be obedient, and then you are required to take him as the standard. Finally, you slowly grind away your ego and turn you into his accessory, a sculpture he has carefully crafted.
In the movie "The Fair Lady", the linguistics professor forcibly transforms her life in order to make a flower girl into the image of "a noble lady as soon as she speaks", but ignores her own personality and emotions, and almost makes her Into a tragedy.
Whether it is a drama or an original novel, the core of "YOU" is also "the harm caused by those under the banner of love and in the name of'good for you'".
Love itself is happy, and love must also contain possessiveness, but when love crosses the limit, when possessiveness loses control, everything becomes pressure and torture, which also distorts the relationship between two people.
When the other party no longer listens to your opinions, wishful thinking that his choice is always correct and you must listen to him, the relationship between you is no longer normal.
After all, "I don’t want you to suffer too much." It’s okay. It’s okay to share some of his really useful experience for your reference, but it’s okay, but it takes away your right to choose your life directly. This kind of behavior is Out of bounds.
But the other party insists that this is "good for you", and if you don't have him, you will be useless in your life.
No, even without him, you will still live a normal life, while eating the hardships of life, while pursuing the happiness you want.
You might even live better without him. Whether you are rich or poor, it is the essence of life to retain your true self. If the so-called love you encounter is deprived of even the most basic freedom, then it is no longer love.
This is kidnapping.
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