reject someone you love

Fredy 2022-03-20 09:01:52

A lighthearted and witty comic temperament, emotionally superficial, but I still cried.

1. Why separate

The man you deeply love is waiting for you day and night at the door of your house gently and firmly. He brings you the familiar warmth and amazing pleasure. Despite this, she still rejected her ex-husband, because she felt that as long as you were separated, no matter how many years passed, no matter how calm and mature you were, the problems of the past will always be entangled in your relationship and cannot be resolved.

In fact, what can't be solved is not the differences and contradictions that have always existed, and she has cooled down and is unwilling to try any more. As she said herself: Jake, I want to confess to you, in fact, my divorce was also at fault, and I was unwilling to insist on it any longer.

In fact, there is never a perfect marriage, and no marriage so bad that it must be separated. There is no absolute success or failure in the relationship itself, all results are determined by their own choices. There are frictions and collisions in every relationship, and those relationships that seem very sweet and sweet are just patient and not separated. And the separation is not because you are destined to overcome each other and are destined to be difficult to sustain, it is just because you are not satisfied and still want more.

2. How to let go

In any case, since you are not satisfied and want to break free from this relationship, then you can only choose to leave and face a new life bravely, only then can you be liberated and reborn!

But the hardest part of the process is how do you reject someone you love so much? Watching his lonely figure drift away, because of his deep affection for you, you feel heartache and blame yourself, because you still care about him, so you must resist the urge to regret and chase him back. You must stare into his eyes sincerely, full of tenderness and attachment, push him away with your own hands, tear the hearts of two people with your own hands, and you must bear this sin as a more sober and transparent party.

However, he is destined to become a part of your life that can never be given up. he is a part of me. he always will be.

View more about It's Complicated reviews

Extended Reading

It's Complicated quotes

  • Jane: Don't you ever eat at your house?

    Jake: Pedro dictates most meals and he has a very... limited palate.

  • Jake: Home Sweet Home.