Looking forward to empathy, everyone has been disappointed

Astrid 2022-03-20 09:01:37

There is a word in English called "empathy", which is generally translated as empathy. I like to translate it as empathy or empathy, for no other reason, because it represents an ability to empathize.

Kafka said: "The heart is a house with two bedrooms, one for pain and the other for joy. One cannot laugh too loudly. Otherwise the laughter will wake up the pain in the next room."

In fact, this sentence applies not only to one person's emotions, but also to two people. To a large extent, the reason for emotional disputes with other people is that one party cannot understand the emotional needs of the other party, and the other party cannot put himself in the other party's shoes.

However, art comes from life and is higher than life. In the movie, a somewhat eccentric old Chinese lady was directly asked to facilitate the complete and real empathy-the mother and daughter who had been arguing exchanged bodies, feeling the life of their relatives while stumbling, and thinking about their own. Life.

"You ruined my life!" Anna always shouted to her mother Tess. From her point of view, the mother is simply unreasonable, whether it is the old-fashioned dress or the boring behavior, the most important thing is the direct and domineering accusation against her.

However, from the mother's point of view, her daughter Anna is really a headache. She entered the confinement room twice in one day, hovered on the edge of failing the examination, and turned against her former friend. Why can't her daughter calm down and use smart and harmonious the way to resolve all disputes?

Thankfully, there's a good solution to everything - since you don't understand it, go experience it for yourself.

Tess also wiped off other people's answer sheets after being tortured and framed by a mean ex-friend; Anna deeply felt the love of her stepfather for her mother, and also understood why her younger brother was always against her - it turned out to be because he felt that her sister Is the coolest guy in the world, and slapstick is so much fun.

Jamie Lee Curtis (Jamie Lee Curtis), who plays the mother, is really good at acting, and she plays both mature women and pregnant girls so well. Jake is really charming. At first, he didn't feel anything, but his eyes are really sexy. When he looks at people, he is full of emotion. I feel a bit like Nick Jonas on this one. And singing "hit me baby one more time" loudly at the door of the mother-daughter duo's house in the evening is too funny, and it's so unpleasant to sing.

I have to mention that the songs in this movie are really good, whether it's "Take Me Away" that they practiced in the basement or "Ultimate" that Anna sang at her mother's wedding at the end, it's a great single. And the discussion of rock music in the film will also resonate with many people.

It's really a lovely movie with a light-hearted plot and lovely actors. As far as watching a movie is for happiness, such a movie is good enough, not to mention that "Hot Mom and Spice Girl" is lovable and not so simple.

The first time I heard the name of this movie was because of Lil Dicky and Chris Brown's song "Freaky Friday" with the same title. The MV is very interesting. The two singers exchanged their lives. It took me a long time to watch this movie, but I was not disappointed, I liked it very much. When it comes to changing the theme of life, the cute and light-hearted shots are pleasing, not to mention that it was in the distant 2003, when I was only two years old.

Few people of my age know about Lindsay Lohan. All I see about her in the news, the image of her is a helpless bleakness—ever had it all, failed comebacks, and had a less than satisfying life.

I don't actually hate her, I even like her a little bit, she is the sunshine in the movie.

I watched Mean Girls, it was the first time I saw her work, she was really beautiful. When he smiled, his sweet eyes seemed to project the sunshine of the whole of California, and the angle of the corners of his mouth was just right and beautiful.

After searching and getting to know her, she was even more embarrassed. It turned out that when she was very young, she was sent to the producer's bed by her mother just to enter this Vanity Fair. I don't know if it should be said that she made friends accidentally, or because she was longing for the pleasure of falling from the starry sky. In terms of feelings, he is always deeply in love, and bravely pursues hopeless love. She is indeed fallen, and she is also struggling, trying to be reborn like a skin cramp, but always fails. After all, this is real life, and failure is the norm. But I still hope she can cheer up and embrace a healthy new life, I look forward to it.

Movies are conveying beauty, reminding us of the importance of certain things with things that cannot happen in reality.

We all look forward to empathy, but we all fail when trying to empathize with others.

This is the norm, but don't be disappointed, after all, as Maupassant said, "Life can't be as good as you think, but it's not as bad as you think."

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Extended Reading

Freaky Friday quotes

  • Harry: You go and ask her you old fart

    Grandpa: Boy youth is wasted on the young

  • Anna (in Tess's body): [Coming back from Anna's audition, Tess looks at Ryan and begins tearing up] Mom, what's wrong?

    Tess (in Anna's body): I need you to do something for me.

    Anna (in Tess's body): Sure, Mom, after, after what you just did for me. Anything.

    Tess (in Anna's body): It needs to happen now before all the toasts and speeches.

    Anna (in Tess's body): Okay.

    Tess (in Anna's body): Clearly, we're not switching back tonight. I need you to tell Ryan that you need to postpone the wedding.

    Anna (in Tess's body): [Shocked] What?

    Tess (in Anna's body): No, listen. I can see you're not ready for this and I can wait. I guess that I was just so happy, I wasn't thinking about what's best for you and Harry.

    Anna (in Tess's body): But, but, but, Mom...

    Tess (in Anna's body): - If he loves me like I think he does, he'll wait, too. He'll understand. He'll be very sweet and gracious about it. But, please...

    [Crying a little more]

    Tess (in Anna's body): ... just, please let him know that I love him and be as kind as you possibly can... for me.

    Anna (in Tess's body): [Understanding] Okay, Mom. I know exactly what to say.

    Tess (in Anna's body): I'll be along in a minute.

    [Anna - Tess's body - walks over to the head table, while, Tess - in Anna's body - stands back for a minute to let a few tears]

    Anna (in Tess's body): [to Ryan] Um, you should sit down.

    [Ryan sits down, where Anna - in Tess's body - picks up a glass and rings it to gain the attention of the whole party]

    Anna (in Tess's body): Uh, hi. Um, I, I guess I, I'm gonna start the toasts.

    [Tess, in Anna's body, looks confused]

    Anna (in Tess's body): So, 3 years ago, we had a really bad thing happen. We lost a Father and a Husband, and I didn't think we'd ever get over it. But then, this guy, next to me, came into the picture and everyone could see that I was happy again. I was singing in the shower again, not well, I might add...

    [Everyone laughs]

    Anna (in Tess's body): ... But I was still worried about my kids, Anna and Harry, whether or not they would be able to accept a new man in their life. And now I know how Anna feels. And what she feels is that...

    [Anna's emotion begins to build]

    Anna (in Tess's body): ... No one could ever take the place of her Dad...

    [Voice breaking, tears coming in]

    Anna (in Tess's body): ... Because he was a really great Dad. But somebody could be a part of a new family in its own kind of cool, new little unit and that, for someone as special as Ryan, that we would all make a little more room. Anna would really wanted her Mom to know that.

    [the room begins to shake in the style of an earthquake with Anna and Tess switching back to their own bodies]

    Anna: [Overjoyed to be back in her own body,] And I am so psyched to be here. I guess...

    [Walks down the steps, grabs a glass of water from a waiter]

    Anna: ... all I'm trying to say is, Ryan, welcome to our family.

    [Raising her glass of water]

    Anna: To the Bride and Groom.

    [Everyone applauds]

    Ryan: [In Tess's ear] What the Hell just happened?

    Tess: Trust me, you don't wanna know.

    [They kiss]