To be honest, when I first started watching, I couldn't help but want to quit the show.
Because I can't stand the ideological derailment of such a middle-aged greasy man, and I don't want to watch families with emotional formulas, it seems that I have foreseen a happy ending that has gone through countless routines. But after the strange girl in the dance room fainted, the plot seemed to go in another direction. It turns out that behind her boring behavior, there is a dream of dancing, and the pseudo-gay boss who has been talking about football every day turns out to be a passionate dancer...
Especially John's wife's reaction when she learned through detectives that her husband's so-called "affair" was nothing more than a dance. Although she was sad that her husband was hiding from her, she still chose to stop listening to her husband's privacy. The private detective told her that she had chosen to be a private detective after her derailment. She asked the detective: "Why do people marry and make promises when they break their promises?"
The detective replied: "Because of passion".
She shook her head and said the following:
"Because we need a witness to our lives. There's a billion people on the planet. I mean, what does any one life really mean? Does it really make sense? But in a marriage, you're promising to care about everything- the good things, the bad things, the terrible things, the mundane things...All of it . All the time, every day. Good things, bad things, scary things, trivial things... everything, every moment, every day. You're saying, "Your life will not go unnoticed, because I will notice it. You It's saying...Your life will not go unwitnessed, because I will be your witness." Your life will not go unwitnessed, because I will be your witness."
This is the most romantic and pragmatic explanation of "marriage" I've ever heard.
The insignificance of human beings may not even realize it. We often travel, and then we find that there are still a group of people living like this in another place; we often have relatives and friends who leave, and it may be difficult to hear people mention the deceased ten years after the sadness; But they forgot that they used to be cherished children held by their parents... The world is so big and yet so small, so small that we can only know how to set foot in a square inch; the road of life is so long and so short, so short that it disappears in the blink of an eye trace.
So we need witnesses of life. When I was young, I might be a parent, but when I grow up, I need a partner. Two people who don’t know each other meet and know each other, witness each other, and then create the next generation together, so that life can continue in another form.
John finally confessed to his wife:
"The one thing I am proudest of in my whole life...is that you are happy with me. If I couldn't... if I couldn't tell you that I was unhappy sometimes, it was because I didn't want to risk hurting the one person I treasure most. people".
Isn't this the sincerity we pursue when we are in love? After so many ups and downs in marriage, maybe they lack communication, maybe their lives are peaceful, but people's hearts will not deceive people, change or change, love or not love, all in the heart. When the wind blew, the stagnant water was slightly turbulent, so we saw a young heart beneath the greasy surface. And I would like to walk with my son.
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