Listening to "Born to be Human" in the past two days, I feel that life is really sad when I think about it. Tonight, I watched "Hold Him Closer", and I saw the tragic life of a pair of homosexuals. It is tragic and solemn, and it is different from the sadness and helplessness to them and the spectators.
The love on campus is always exciting, not to mention the love of such a beautiful teenager, so brave to say "I like you" on the phone, so candid to answer "Okay" on the phone, so happy together. Faced with parents, priests, cold eyes, society, separation, and illness, it has been this way for more than ten years.
In the second half of the movie, in the torment of AIDS, the two people endured different torments. I was entangled in front of the screen who was infected first, but John didn't seem to care about this. It can be seen that the first initiative TIM, in the absurdity of time and the world, gradually got bored and abandoned the idea, but JOHN is always the same, who loves whom more? In the final companionship, in addition to guilt, I believe that TIM finally found his true love, and the cry when JOHN left was far more real than the exam interview.
It was very touching, not only the two people were together from beginning to end, but also AIDS. I thought about watching some AIDS documentaries, but it didn't happen. This time I thought it was a warm love movie, but the illness made the whole movie not only have a tragic ending, but also made people feel more about AIDS and real feelings. In this era of sensuality, in this era of fast food love, it is common for the opposite sex to separate and combine, but the same sex is different. Under more and heavier pressure, two people are faced with more than just how to stay together. The difficulties of being together, and the persistence and firmness after being together. Because it is difficult, there are many people who escape, and there are also unbearable cheating and YP. The disease brings not only pain, but also despair. Even if there are medical means to treat it now, the betrayal caused by it is truly penetrating.
Is it possible to pursue true love and companionship? Do you also want to think that these two people are the same, one can hold on, the other walks through thousands of flowers and leaves, fortunate to be able to get back to the original heart, fortunate to be able to accompany the person who truly loves to the end. In reality, such a thing is rare!
Taiwan can get married. I know this is a news that is worth celebrating for the majority of comrades. But being able to get married is one thing, and being accepted is another. How to support each other and go on, to the end What a difficult thing. How many people can resist the family, how many people can face the strange eyes of society, and how many people can resist the temptation that keeps coming.
Meeting is a very beautiful thing, staying together is a very difficult thing.
Up to now, I don't blame those who leave because of family, because of society, because of themselves, because it is inevitable, because it is not love. Leaving was the right option, for me, too.
AIDS is terrifying, and even more terrifying is finding the wrong way and finding the wrong person. I am an ordinary person, and you are also an ordinary person. We are already lingering in this world, and we do not have such a strong heart to face all kinds of disappointments and failures. Those who want to leave should leave as soon as possible, and those who want to be together must think carefully. The future of the future, what needs to be faced, and what kind of future is needed to make this life less regrettable.
The scene where JOHN smashed the screen and ran away from home with TIM on a bike, I knew they really really wanted to be together.
TIM watched John, who was tortured by the disease, change shape day by day, and never left. Even at the final funeral, he was only called a "friend", and he still missed and missed it in the days to come.
I envy, but I do not force. Gain my life, lose my life.
In such an environment, in such a life, it was a distant dream that could not be farther away, just take a look. Be kind to yourself, don't pay too much for the light and shadow of that little dim dream, it's not worth it.
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