After completely chasing all the episodes, I know that she is an adaptation of a real event, and I also watched the prototype. From incredible to gradually accepting, my God, I feel that my three views have been refreshed again. From the beginning of the 20-year life that Jipsy was manipulated, her mother became her life cage. When she was a child, she trusted and relied on her mother. You are the stars in the sky, angels, and we protect each other. What the mother thinks of Gypsy, spiritual sustenance, or taking care of the child is praised and rescued. But in adolescence, this bond of trust will suffer because of the contradiction between the needs of the jeepsy and the needs of the mother, the jeepsy has no school group life, does not receive any education other than her mother, and even socializes only with The neighbor's big sister, the use of mobile phones, Facebook registration, makeup and other skills come from the Internet, her sense of right and wrong is weak, based on self-needs, because she wants to have a boyfriend like the neighbor's big sister , so through various ways to satisfy this curiosity. Killing her mother was her decision to get rid of this mother, so she decided that she knew how to use a knife and who to look for. Everything was to meet her immediate needs. She had conflicts, and this conflict was a long-term dependency. , because once this task is completed, she and her mother are divorced, but when she is really free, she will talk about what her mother told me, and making a living is also using the skills her mother taught her. She ended up being her mother until the last episode, and it was impossible to get rid of it. The original sin we suffered since childhood will be manifested at the age of my mother, just like in "Everything is Good", I thought I got rid of it, but after all, it became the one I didn't like. For example, my mother never praised and encouraged me when I was a child. I didn't realize it until my classmates told me that I was a bit mean.
When I was chasing this drama recently, I also saw Wu Xieyu's case on Zhihu. He killed his mother and fled for three years and was caught. Zhihu was all about guessing his motives. This motive may be similar to that of the Jeepsey. Jipsy was tortured physically and mentally, and Wu Xieyu was mentally oppressed. This case is so eye-catching. It is Wu Xieyu's Peking University student, who has excellent studies and no flaws in interpersonal relationships. But there was a lot of speculation about the motives because of the elaborate plan to kill the mother, because people didn't believe that, like Jepsy, people didn't believe that Jepsy wasn't sick, and that Diddy wasn't a good mother.
This motivation should also come from the mother's control.
Hey, being a mother is really hard. I don’t dare to be a mother easily, but I have to be responsible for life. Children are independent individuals. During the first ten years of companionship, it is the mother’s responsibility and responsibility. How to be a good mother, let’s be a better self first, you can’t reconcile with your childhood, don’t be a mother easily.
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