This is a woman

Agustina 2022-03-22 09:02:26

Not very appealing from a cinematic point of view. As many bean friends have said: I really can't pick out other highlights, which complements the heroine's performance, so I was nominated for the Oscar for Best Actress. I take it for granted.

However, this story is indeed a good performance - when a woman loves a man deeply, even if the man treats her badly or even hurts her, as long as the woman still loves this man, then this Women are still making excuses for that man in their own hearts - he must be so good to me because I am not good enough ~ there must be other bad women hooking up with him ~ he must be temporarily because he is under too much pressure recently Deserted ah~ In fact, he still loves me very much~~~~~ and so on. An animal like a woman, really, once you love each other deeply, you can really low into the soil.

It's definitely not discriminating against women because I'm a woman myself. I myself have made such deep mistakes as above. Looking back on that experience now, I really feel that I was very ridiculous and aggrieved at that time. After having such a painful experience, I have learned a truth, knowing that now, and even in the future, I will often remind myself: don't wrong yourself, because in the end, who will be fulfilled.

I think this kind of story must be written by only women. Take a look, eh? The director turned out to be a man? ! Again, oh, it's based on a novel written by a woman. Well, that's right. Men can never understand the complex psychology of women.

In fact, I think the story itself is quite human, but I think that when the film is narrated, why the heroine loves the hero for so many years; It may really be because of the male director. In terms of the choice of the plot of the novel and the use of audio-visual language, the audience cannot empathize and be brought in by the complex feelings of the heroine. In the third act, the two of them had a big quarrel, and the climax was pushed to the climax through words, and I thought, "It's a good TV series... So it's really a pity that it's a pretty good story."

But I think the ending is not bad, especially when the heroine stopped the reporter and warned him that your speculations are false, and if you slander my husband, I will sue you. Here I think the one who still listens to the question is really the wife of [Xian], who defends her husband's reputation to the death. However, seeing this, from the perspective of female psychology, I think that the heroine no longer maintains her husband's reputation because of love, because even if she loves him again, since the person has gone and the love has been lost, then thinking about this person is basically a matter of time. Only how he betrayed himself and how he robbed the reputation that should have belonged to him. But why does she still continue to defend her husband's reputation at this time? There is only one answer: to safeguard the interests of the family. Just after her husband passed away, she jumped out and said that the book was actually written by herself. However, there is no proof of death, and from the point of view of the people who eat melons, she must think that this woman is a good philistine and utilitarian, and that her husband came to compete for interests as soon as he died. Therefore, it is unwise for the reputation and interests of the heroine to make such a fuss. And the heroine is obviously a smart person, so she simply continued to endure it, and she also ended up as the widow of a Nobel Prize winner for literature. It's good for your own children, otherwise, when people mention her son in the future, I'm afraid they will say: This is not the son who tore up the couple for the Nobel Prize in Literature, then her son's career and even his life will be over. After talking to the reporter, the heroine turned her head and said to her son, I will tell you and my sister the whole truth one by one after I go back. From this sentence, it can be judged that the heroine's final choice of forbearance is not a sincere forgiveness. It is a choice made for the benefit of the family.

I hope there is a chance, there is a female director, and I can remake this story well.

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The Wife quotes

  • Joan Castleman: I am a kingmaker.

  • Joan Castleman: I can't do it anymore, Joe. I can't do it. I can't take it. I can't take the humiliation of holding your coat and arranging your pills and picking the crumbs out of your beard and being shoved aside with all the other wives to talk about some goddamn shopping trip while you, while you say to all the, the gathering sycophants that your wife doesn't write! Your wife, who just won the Nobel Prize!

    Joe Castleman: So, if I'm such an insensitive and talentless fucking piece of shit, why the fuck did you marry me?