We never talk

Micaela 2022-03-20 09:01:44

The story is told very well, there are many twists and turns, there are many small details, and the front and back echoes are very suitable for two brushes and three brushes. The reasoning makes the case very interesting, and what is really touching is that this story makes me see the great sadness and loneliness of an ordinary person in the Internet age.

The Internet age makes our communication seem so frequent, but the face behind the screen is so lonely. No one knows what the people on the other side of "typing" are thinking, and we don't know what Delete and Backspace deleted and never sent.

So maybe we talk to people every day, but we rarely actually communicate.

Maybe every day I "talk very happily" with my colleagues in the office, complaining, gossip and laughing together, but I may hardly talk about some truly "private" issues. When it comes time to really need friends, you instinctively understand that coworkers are unreliable. Not to mention the estranged relationship of colleagues, even relatives whose blood is thicker than water actually rarely communicate with each other throughout the year.

Like in the movie, Dad asks all of Margo's Facebook friends, and none of them know what Margo usually likes to do.

Does she have no friends?

Dad and Margo chat hundreds of thousands of messages on imassage every day, but he doesn't know where his daughter is studying and what time will she go home. After his daughter didn't answer the phone, didn't reply to text messages, and didn't go to school, he couldn't think of any name that could help him get in touch with his daughter.

A father discovers he knows practically nothing about his daughter's life.

I think that was the saddest moment in the whole film.

The Internet age allows us to see where strangers on the other side of the world go and do what they are doing today, but it also separates people who stay in the same room all day behind the screen.

I may know that my classmates from thousands of miles away walked 3888 steps today and ordered a cup of coco takeaway at 16:32; but I don’t know that she had a very bad life today who set the flag to lose weight, so she drank a super cup of milk tea. to decompress.

Moments let us know the details of our friend's life, but we don't know whether she is doing well or not, and we can't ask questions.

Now most people may say yes, communication is the most important thing; communication makes the world a better place; learn to listen and learn to express; body language will reveal your true inner thoughts...

But no matter how much you understand, you will not be able to live your life well.

There's a lot we can say about communication, but we're still like blind men and elephants groping in the dark how to tell those closest to us what we really think.

Facing the bereavement, the father and daughter actually miss Pam very much, but neither of them told each other. One chose to sit in front of the computer on Friday night and watch family videos all night, while the other chose to live on the live broadcast platform. Talking to a stranger about how she misses her mother.

It's not that the two people don't care about each other, they don't hate, they don't love each other, they just chose not to talk about it.

we never talk.

When I found out that a friend started replying to me frequently with hahaha, I understood that she chose to bear her feelings alone.

Powerless.

I followed her example and typed a string of hahaha to send.

Hahahahahaha ヾノ≧∀≦)o

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  • Esta 2022-03-26 09:01:05

    The most computer-savvy dad

  • Elenora 2022-03-28 09:01:03

    It is unique and novel to tell stories entirely on the computer platform by means of searching for information, video calls, online news, surveillance videos, etc. The story is also told ups and downs, not easy. There are not many characters. I heard that the shooting time was not long, but it was edited for two years. It can be seen that there is a lot of post-processing.

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