a. Husband and wife
Communication is important in married life. The husband is busy with life and does not ask about the tea, rice, oil and salt, and the wife has nowhere to talk to her grievances for many years. So the wife chose to leave, but the husband felt that his friend was provoking his wife to leave.
b. Parents and children
In the first few years, the father was busy with work and neglected his son. He didn't pay attention to his preferences and needs. He would throw a tantrum at him because of wet materials, and would lock his son in the bedroom because he ate ice cream, and he didn't even know what grade the child was in.
Later, in getting along with the children, he gradually learned how to be a father. Pick up and drop off from school, because the child has a fever and miss an important meeting, sit down at the Halloween party to encourage his son's host, tell him stories every day, and give him good night kiss. The most important thing is that even if the wife left without saying goodbye, even if the judge awarded the son to the wife, he never spoke ill of the wife before the son, and emphasized that the mother loves you very much, and I love you very much. It's really important to give your child a positive parental image, no matter what the adult is.
The sudden departure of my mother is very irresponsible in my opinion. I understand what it feels like to lose yourself because of the family, but it doesn't take 18 months to make up for it. When the father and son just established a good family "order", they wanted to break the peace under the banner of maternal love.
But a mother loves her children after all, and she will now consider which family he wants more from the child's point of view. So at the end, she will cry and say "I love him very much" but let the child be by the father's side.
I have always believed that giving birth and raising a child requires careful consideration, because in the next 20 years, she/he is the responsibility of the parent, and the focus of economy, time, and energy will gradually shift to the child's point of view. The separation of parents is a blow to all children.
But when separation is unavoidable, don't indoctrinate your child with the flaws of the other parent. Love can make them grow up healthy.
Some advice for those who are afraid of marriage
1. If you decide to have a child, you must be responsible.
2. Don't lose yourself in marriage.
3. Communicate! communicate! communicate!
4. Don't speak ill of your father in front of your children.
5. Companionship is more important than any substance.
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