Headhunting calls, this is obviously a marketing gimmick. "a family man" is indeed more able to express the story that the film wants to tell, which is a big life choice for the workplace and family.
Dane, it can be said that he has everything that everyone can dream of, a high-paying career, a happy family of three, how dazzling he is in the eyes of ordinary people, but who would know that behind all this, there are many crises brewing.
In a very bad environment of economic crisis, Dane got a promotion opportunity. His success is not because he is smart, but because he is not only smart, he is more willing to give. The first time the crisis occurred was the scene of having sex with his wife at home. I clearly remember what her wife said at that time:
How real is this scene, every successful professional man will work harder than anyone else at work, but after returning home, he still thinks about work. How can we do better performance, get a higher position, get more salary, change to a bigger house, and live a "better life". On the other hand, the wife on the side only hopes that her husband can spend more time with his family. There is no right or wrong in what the two couples think, but their roles are different. They think about two things, and they are both sides that every family needs to face, work and family. But it is too difficult to adjust everyone's thinking to the same channel. If you don't even give your wife the time to do a, then it is estimated that the family will fall apart. (It is very likely that the husband will go out to find other people, and the man who will go home is already a good man in my opinion)
However, reality made a joke to this successful man:
On the one hand, the work pressure is huge, and on the other hand, the child is seriously ill. The win-win family suddenly faced a double-lose situation. Dane, who refused to admit defeat, didn't want to lose the game, and he couldn't believe that when his child was seriously ill, he still chose work in front of his work and his children.
Life needs to face many setbacks, such as failing the college entrance examination, disappointment in love, bottlenecks in the workplace, business failure, and the life and death of family members that must be faced at this age. I understand, but my next generation is facing a life-and-death crisis. I am afraid it is a reality that no parent can accept. What is it for? Why did you get such a result.
At the time of the child's life and death, Dane finally chose to accompany the child, but he still did not give up his work. This is the quality of a motivated professional manager, and he will not admit defeat no matter what. Even if he slept next to a child with a breathing tube inserted, he was still working hard to achieve performance. Finally, God did not live up to his efforts, but at the same time gave him another multiple-choice question, whether he chose to gain benefits in business or to help a job seeker. This is a question of values that most people face after working for a period of time. Whether to continue to work hard and climb up, or to follow the inner feelings and pursue themselves bravely, this is another very important decision that Dane faces in life.
It was the child who taught the father what his job was really about: helping other dads find jobs so they could take care of their families. The child did not complain because of his father's little company, and the wife did not get angry because of his father's inattentive company, because it was the father's incomparable efforts that made everyone proud of him. At this moment, I feel that there is nothing wrong with everyone and that life is worth living. It’s just that we need to face different things at different stages. The most important thing is that we have to face it bravely and dare to be ourselves.
In the end, of course, the child recovered, but without a job, he gained the opportunity to start a business, and at the same time he had a happy family.
This is the first time I want to record some feelings in such a long space, but the writing is very bad. Mainly because, at the age of 30, I also faced frustration in the workplace and confusion in my family. Especially when I go home and communicate with my wife, I only have a deep understanding of the xx scene, including watching my child slowly get out of control. I am very confused and feel that my efforts have been in vain. But after watching the movie, I felt that all the hard work was worth it. It seemed to be a vain, but it was a chance to give me a new life, because I have been living very seriously, living hard, and thinking hard. The most important thing is that my family has been supporting me and I am incredibly proud to be a family man.
Thanks for the great inspiration this video has given me.
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