Are you being too greedy?
He apologized to his wife for this. "I feel ashamed. We already have so much, and I want to be happier."
That scene in the parking lot, just a few words, there are many, many things behind. Susan Sharondon, who plays his wife, loves her husband and is deeply proud of the happy family they have built. For her, her world is her husband's world, and it is only natural for them to be of one mind. But when one day she found out that her husband's world was more than hers, she became unbalanced.
He danced so happily that he completely forgot her existence!
In a short scene, Susan didn't say it, but the words hidden behind her stubborn expression were: (Am I making you unhappy? Am I not enough to make you happy? Is the happiness you want a world that I can't enter?)
"It's not your fault!" Richard Gere said to his hurt wife More!)
It's not your fault, it's not anyone's fault. I should have been happy. There's nothing in life that can't satisfy me, you've given me a perfect family, I've got all the happiness that a middle-aged person defines in society, if I still don't feel happy, it's my own problem, not anyone else's wrong!
While most people blame others for being unhappy, how many feel guilty for it? How much of our real emotions have we sacrificed in order to conform to the image that the superficial mask should be? When we have everything, but we still can't fill our body with happiness, and there is always a vacancy, can we not feel ashamed for it?
Happens, Happens, when we ourselves, as outsiders, look at our friends and family members who have everything they deserve but are still unhappy, what we most often advise them is contentment. We persuade others to open up, persuade others to be satisfied, persuade others to cherish what they have and not to expect that it should not be theirs, and even think that the other party is too willful and greedy.
You and I should be satisfied. Who should sign the black pen and ink of the word "should"? It turns out that when we are constantly signing and judging the joys, sorrows and joys of the people around us, we also set up a frame of prejudice that is difficult to reverse.
When we judge whether others should be happy or sad, we lose ourselves at the same time.
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