Movies about family are always thought-provoking. Seeing the quarrel is like seeing the hysterical self yesterday. Seeing the reconciliation will make you think about how to say sorry to your mother. Seeing the ending, you will want to say I love you to every family member. Said that no matter how long it is, I want you to be happy. But when the ending song ends, you withdraw from the movie, and when you face your family again, "I'm sorry" and "I love you" can no longer be said.
The film covers almost all kinds of problems in the family, the separation of the eldest son, the procrastination of the second son, the growth and rebellion of the youngest daughter, the emotional problems of the parents to middle age and the long-term differences between the father and his father . A bottle of red wine, a pair of ripped jeans... It seems that anything can make people quarrel, but everyone knows that the real reason has nothing to do with red wine or jeans. It is just a confrontation accumulated by two different attitudes towards life. People always say they like it with fantasy, and adults always face reality and say they should. Young people will never listen to experience. Even if they fall to the ground because of a wrong choice, they will grit their teeth and persevere. Only after this journey will they know what life is like. When he goes back to talk about his experience, he will also Become an adult who talks to him about his experience. And his children will also say what he said at the beginning. There is no truth in life at all, there are only people of different ages.
It's just that although the family is so trivial that it is frustrating, the reason why so many people are still willing to invest in it may be that no matter what differences there are, you will stand behind him or even in front of him when the family needs it, no matter what. No matter what kind of quarrel, you can smile when you look at the eyes of your family, and no matter how long you are separated, you can still feel a moment of warmth and tranquility at the dining table where your family is sitting. Perhaps after countless quarrels and reconciliations, everyone finally sees the trivialities of life and understands each other's preciousness. This family can finally keep the flowers and see the moon, and face life together in peace, which is also a happy ending. Think of someone holding your ashes and throwing them into the sea that your heart longed for when you died, and burst into tears because of the smell of your life. Isn't it a romantic thing.
I have never doubted my parents' love and devotion to me, but I can't always face my father's denial. From quarreling to escaping to understanding, I grew up very slowly, and even today I still try to hide in my spiritual comfort zone, hoping not to worry about the trivial things in life, not to criticize my family, and not to get out of anger for meaningless things . My mother said that I will never grow up, but I feel that I have seen a lot of things. I no longer affect my emotions for a little gain or loss, but learn to cherish relatives and friends, and cherish the benefits that can bring to myself and the people around me. Happy every moment.
In the movie, the father said that it is a happy thing to be able to raise three children and witness their growth. I'm not sure if my dad felt that happiness too, but I hope he does, now and at some point in the future, I hope he's happy because of this family. I also hope that all parents and children in the trivial family can feel even a moment of happiness from it.
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