The blow of losing my lover made me no longer understand feelings. After watching this forbidden love, I couldn't help but think, is love just desire itself?
When we were children, we longed for the care of our parents, and what we wanted was their company and constant dedication: it would be great if my parents sacrificed their working time to accompany me, and if they bought the latest robot on the supermarket shelf for I'm fine. Today's lunch mom made me my favorite potato again... and there will be no complaints. No matter how we ask for it, we will not be questioned, because we are children, and the parents who want it must be will be satisfied.
When we grow up, we will fall in love with a person. There are many reasons for love. Maybe he is tall and handsome and can play basketball. Maybe he will spend a lot of money to buy expensive gifts for me. Maybe he is always willing to accompany me. Doing all kinds of things, maybe it's his perfect character and kind heart... He has what we want in him, and when we are together, I can have them.
It happened because of my desires and demands, the other party noticed and responded to me, or the other party responded to me unintentionally, he gave me what I wanted, and I fell in love with him.
Is love so simple? Maybe.
Love is the result of a desire being satisfied and projected on the other person.
Why did Nelly fall in love with Charles, because he was Charles Dickens, the biggest idol of that era, the supreme writer in people's hearts, and the person everyone respected and loved. How did Charles fall in love with Nelly, because she was young and energetic, she understood his mind, she knew what he was thinking, and she was in the same world as him.
When the desire is satisfied, there is love; when the desire is no longer provided, the parting ways.
Maybe I don't know what love is at all, and my limited life span currently hinders my understanding of the most precious thing in this world. The world does not need the self-righteous words of a wounded person, she only needs to understand and be clear.
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