This movie wants to tell people to cherish the person in front of them and know what they want. Perhaps this is the problem that the thirty-year-old Jenny suddenly realized after crossing: rather than chasing the hypocrite with gorgeous appearance, it is better to cherish it. That innocent and cute boy is really here. Of course, sometimes we really need to ask ourselves, what do I want? Gorgeous appearance? Noble status? Or a simple life? A person who truly loves himself? Life is not a movie. You can return to thirteen without a few tears in the dream house. Please see your heart clearly and cherish what you really want.
However, I want to say more than this.
I remember once I saw a passage that said: Appearance determines whether two people can be together, personality determines whether two people are suitable for being together, and material determines whether they can be together steadily. This passage makes sense, but I want to add one sentence: Three views determine how long two people can stay together.
Even if the boy or girl opposite makes you look pleasing, you like his (her) character, you think he (she) is the most unique person in the world, he is none other than you, you can do whatever you can If you want to chase him down, maybe you will really be together in the end. But one of you two likes to enjoy the luxury and high-end life, the other likes simple and plain happiness; the other has a habit of showing personality and become the best in the crowd, the other likes chasing dreams even if just sticking to it as a hobby; the other loves to participate in lively and crowded parties, the other Love to swing in the open. Two people whose pursuits of life are so different, no matter how much they love each other, they will only part ways in the end.
Jenna and Matt in the movie are such a good friend who is not even a couple. The adolescent Jenna hopes to make six sisters who behave uniquely in school. In order to get close to them and the boys she has a crush on, she is willing Accept their requests as much as possible, even embarrassing the "unsocial" Matt. Later, Jenna, who had suddenly become thirty years old, found that her childhood dreams had all come true. It seemed bloody, but I think it made sense. Because, sorry, the essence of Jenna is the same as her group of six sisters. Although she looks a little clumsy at the age of 13, the domineering and prestigious status of the six sisters in the school is indeed what she yearns for. To put it bluntly, she and the Six Sisters are of the same type, but at the time she was not able to do that. It’s not difficult to explain why she found herself messing with her good friend’s husband after crossing, without real friends, and not meeting with her parents...because her essence is the same as Lucy, she is just like that. A girl who loves vanity and pursues luxurious life.
Therefore, I can understand the heartbeat that Matt confided towards the end of the film: Jenna, I don’t want to lie to you. In the past few weeks, I have felt about you. I thought I would never again. Feel this way. But in the past few days I realized that I am going forward, and you are also going forward. We took a different path a long time ago. We couldn't turn back. We made a choice.
Matt is a kind and rational boy. He knows that if each other's pursuits are destined to be different, what is the use of falling in love with each other? This kind of love will not last long even if we are together. Seeing this, I felt inexplicably sad, distressed the boy's rationality, and also distressed the girl's hindsight.
Fortunately, the director was considerate of the audience's mood and asked the 30-year-old Jenna with her own halo to return to the past by the dream house, and completed the happy ending with Matt.
Uh, although it is very bloody. . . . .
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