When I was a child, my dad took it to watch. My dad's education method is basically similar to that of Dr. Seaver in the play, but it is more in line with China's national conditions.
When my parents were young, the parents at that time seemed to be very open-minded. Even if they knew how to educate their children, they were still bound by traditional parenting methods and lacked communication with their children. Because of this, my dad took a lot of detours in the process of his growth, but he also experienced himself in this way. He later said that he was very grateful to his grandfather. After having me, after reflecting on the father-son relationship between my grandfather and him, he felt that there are some experiences that can be taught to children. Although some walls should be touched, some south walls are actually unnecessary. Based on my observations, he distilled his education into three points: friend, reasoning, and moderate dignity. And as I grew up a little bit and my dad gradually formed his educational philosophy, the show definitely acted as a catalyst.
I was very impressed that Mike and Bernard Eddie sneaked into the college party organized by their seniors, what they called a grown-up party. The basic process at the meeting is to go to the bathroom after smoking cocaine high. With the kindness of the girl's invitation to go to the bathroom together, Mike defiantly refused and persuaded the two best friends to stop there. After the access control time, he returned home angrily. Mike explained to Dr. Seaver that he did not smoke, but he did not understand that he had done the right thing, but others laughed at him, and he was not happy. Finally, Dr. Seaver woke him up, "You don't need to please anyone, you do what you think you should do."
With the above foreshadowing, I have the following little experience.
In the third and fourth grades of elementary school, I went out for a vacation. My dad took me to the local shopping mall to pass the time. In addition, I asked him to buy a game before, so he suggested whether to go to a large-scale game or go to an Internet cafe. I have no feeling for the large scale and I feel that I should not go to the Internet cafe at such a young age, so I justly said that I don't want to go there. My dad patted me and said "good", then immediately took me to a video entertainment store to buy a genuine Red Alert 2: The Rise of China (the name is a bit embarrassing, and people around me said that they had never played this version, I thought for a while This is a mod with a genuine shell to cheat money). After that, whenever my classmates asked me to go to an Internet cafe, I would pass all of them. This situation continued until college, and did not go to the long summer vacation after the college entrance examination (because it was not yet 18). It was the first time in my life that I went to an Internet cafe until I came home in my second year of sophomore year.
In general, I feel very lucky that when I was a child, it was catching up with American culture and becoming popular in China. Parents had the opportunity to contact these, which also gave us a different childhood.
I like to compare this show to Friends, probably the first two American shows that most people are exposed to. Looking at the troubles of growing up in the 1980s around 2000 will be more immersive. After all, it was only then that PCs began to popularize and private cars appeared. After entering the 21st century, the material elements in the growing pains have not kept up with people's expectations. At this time, Friends in the late 1990s is closer to people's life in the 21st century.
It used to be about 20 years ahead of us, and now it's almost 10 years ahead. (Accidentally said that China is rising)
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