Why donating a hope to someone you love is opposed by your mother?

Amber 2022-04-03 08:01:02

You can pull out the teeth from the mouth of the dead and put them in the mouth of the living. It sounds disgusting, but no one will think there is anything wrong with it;

Donate an egg cell to a loved one, giving them hope in life, but it will still be blocked;

Physiologically speaking, blood donation, kidney donation, sperm donation and egg donation are all donations of cells. This donation is different from the donation of items. For example, if you give someone an umbrella, the style of the umbrella, the price, etc., You know it all, you will remember it because you don't have it anymore; the donor organ is not, you haven't even seen what your actual egg cell looks like, it's like you lost a hair, Other than the pain of the surgery, it's hard to feel what you're missing.

Innocent things, things that are flushed down the toilet every month, are blocked when donated to relatives. The reasons are nothing more than ethics and morals.

The relationship between the sexes is the basis for building a civilized society, and it is a rule that can make social relations more orderly. Under this rule, everyone is the beneficiary, husband and wife are stable partners, and fathers are sons. Relying on the safety of the generation, this relationship is repeated between the uncle/aunt/aunt/uncle and their children, so no matter how big the family is, the relationship can be divided in an orderly manner, and the family can branch like a big tree. Therefore, as a beneficiary, everyone is reluctant to change this established rule, and incest has become the most shameless behavior, and everyone dares to support it openly, no matter what the reason is.

The person who is two years older than you is not your elder brother, but your elder uncle. This sounds strange, but it is actually very common. In this relationship, age is the source of strangeness, and every character obeys this rule, so no one will feel wrong. If she is both your mom and your sister, or your aunt and your sister, and one person occupies both roles, it creates a huge conflict that every onlooker will find ridiculous, every Both parties feel angry. If someone asks at this time, why are you laughing, why are you angry, no one can tell, because this kind of anger stems from someone breaking the rules that human beings have set since the establishment of a civilized society.

The conflict in the story is not so superficial. In this middle-class family of intellectuals, everyone understands that this is a matter of medicine and technology, whether it is a calm bystander or an angry participant. In the sharp collision of the conflict, the daughter believes that the egg cells are the same as the kidney and liver, and the mother refutes that the kidney donation is to save lives. In this conflict of venting emotions, mother's debating skills were obviously superior, but he still did not explain the difference between egg cells and kidney cells. In fact, the mother also understands that this is not incest, but the upcoming new life will give her daughter Sadie two identities, which will hide a huge crisis.

The contradictions created by the director and screenwriter are more complicated than simple incest, so the person who breaks the rules cannot be defined as a villain, and the person who guards the h rule cannot be defined as a hero, under the premise that everyone's starting point is kindness , and everyone looked pitiful.

There are many themes in the film, and I'm talking about a very small one. It's just one event that drives the plot, and there's no more unfolding after the film, but it's a question worth pondering. For example, we can ask ourselves, the same body, why there seems to be a status gap between the face and the butt, no one will apply the liquid foundation on the butt; or will you wash your face with the water for washing your feet. Psychologically, we seem to assign different values ​​to different parts of the body, and this value seems to be related to the high and the lower.

Sexual organs are also endowed with a meaning derived from what has been said above: the rules of civilized society. In order to maintain the stability of the relationship between the sexes, this part of the body will become obscure and shameful, as if it had to be covered with a cloth, to hide what represents one of the two biological needs of survival and reproduction.

These short few hundred words are not chicken soup, not chicken blood. Because most of the time, I can't figure out what this set of rules means to me. I was very excited to see Sadie bravely resisting the rules that imprisoned her, but I also noticed that all the other bystanders were silent, whether they were laughing or angry.

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Private Life quotes

  • [first lines]

    Rachel Biegler: Remember what Marty said?

    Richard Grimes: Ugh.

    Rachel Biegler: "Having a baby is an immoral act."

    Richard Grimes: Marty's an idiot.

  • Dr. Dordick: [comparing semen to soda] So, the seltzer comes from one place, the syrup comes from someplace else, and, together they make Mountain Dew, or Diet Coke, or what have you. But, if the pipe gets clogged, you don't get Mountain Dew. You just get seltzer.