Original title: The Story of Women and Money (1)
Recently, I made a good friend, and I met friends with Wen, which can also be said to be a netizen. My No. 2 said, you must have met a liar, are you an 18-year-old girl? People believe anything they say. It must be a liar, or a poor diaosi making up stories to play with you.
So, bored, I received 100,000 yuan from Haoyou today. Of course, I won't ask for it. I just show a screenshot to a certain child. There are still fools in the world, and fools may live like you. The winner in life that is valued by people who are reliable and alive, maybe when you are fully alert and alive, it is difficult to meet the miracle moment. In fact, he is not the first reader I added, currently someone in Qinghai around the lake, He's the kind of idiot who just slaps the table and resigns when he doesn't agree, and we have a good chat, so what if he's a poor diaosi.
Today, I will continue to talk about a vulgar topic. I didn’t have enough fun last time. Today, let’s talk about the story of money and women. There will be some people who are born out of real events around me.
1 Is it really good to marry well?
I have written about milk tea girls and local tyrants who open online stores before. To be honest, I am not absolutely disgusted with young and old, maybe there is true love. Liu Tuhao is a phoenix man who works like a camp, and I don't want it for nothing, so there is no envy, jealousy and hatred. I'm just very annoyed by the attitude of the girl with milk tea to convince women to win in life, what is good for marriage, what is a happy marriage and a career with the help of a domineering president, you let Miss Dong who still maintain a fighting attitude, how about you let the old godmother who has retired for a long time Where are you?
I think what women want to wear is sexy, comfortable, and maverick. It's all their own business and their own rights. It's nonsense for women to please themselves. When I wrote articles before, there were also women. The compatriots left a message saying, you don't understand, women use their physical advantages and use a little means to obtain a resource, not stupid, but to become smart, and it is also a kind of toughness to understand and dominate stupid men.
The problem is that feminism does not treat men as opponents. Love is the most beautiful chemical reaction between men and women. Why must we weigh the pros and cons and compete for superiority? There must be so many routines? Why can't it be simple and rude and direct, I love you, and you also hate me, and then we decided to challenge the fickle humanity together?
Therefore, I don't like the good marriage style, love should be equal, based on understanding, based on appreciation, based on two hearts beating at the same frequency, how can we just cater to please? I think that people who really appreciate me will still feel a warm heart when I am leaning on crutches, my face is wrinkled, and I smile with a big mouth with few teeth left. You are still the girl back then.
And, is it really good to marry well?
Not long ago, I went on a trip to Thailand alone, and in the group I had a beautiful sister who married very well at first sight. Beautiful and generous, almost the most popular person in the whole group. When our group arrived at the shopping store, I thought about it, the tour guide also had to eat, so I was cruel and spent 200 yuan to buy the thinnest belt. What are you going to do with the money? Some of the eldest sisters and aunts in the same group couldn't stand his aggressive tactics, and they bought a bunch of crocodile leather bags and wallets that were beyond their budget and ability. That pretty sister is the most flattering one. The tour guide said, buy a belt. In the future, if my husband goes out and does something bad, he will at least think that this is a gift from his wife before he takes off the belt. Pretty sister bought it without blinking. This is not the first time she has come to Thailand. She said that she has also bought a crocodile leather bag before, but she doesn't carry it very much.
In other words, in this situation, should I feel ashamed, buy a swollen face and make a fat man, even if I come back to eat instant noodles for a month, I have to fight for the snobbish tour guide to shut up quickly. In fact, I don't think so, I just came out to play, who tmd cares if you are a passer-by or not, and even, I will not complain about his excessive sales with the group members, because it is unnecessary, and, Why should I get your approval. That pretty sister is married to a rich man, but I don't think I should envy her.
She is spending money, but I also have my benefits. When I went out to play, I just got up on a whim, and then I left. Because I earn the money, I don't need to find a best friend to keep my husband at ease, and I don't have to go out to play and I have to report every day and think about buying a belt so that he won't worry me. When I was in Pattaya, I wore a very sexy swimsuit and painted a blue fat Heiner tattoo (don't try it, I have scars), and I could go to the night market with the people next door for half a day with a vacuum kit and sling. I never worry about my husband being unhappy or not being able to go home, and I don't have to approve everything just because I travel alone. I also watch adult shows if I want to. I don't have the burden of being a good wife at all.
Of course, the beautiful and easy-going sister may indeed live happily and be held in the palm of her hand by her rich husband, but she definitely does not have as much freedom as I have. I am a very willful person, and I am not very good-tempered. Whether it is in my parents’ family or my in-laws’ family, I am a person who has never been wronged. Going backwards, no matter how high her EQ is, a well-rounded sister still has some grounds where she has to make concessions. Think about it, most girls from rich families live more recklessly, and they will understand what I am saying.
How cool is it for a woman to make money and be self-sufficient and make the people she cares happy. In the past few years, I often stayed up late to write manuscripts. Every time I paid the manuscript fee, I was like a nouveau riche. I took my No. 2 home and my mother to go shopping, that is, as long as they took a look, I would buy it immediately. Where do you need to act like a spoiled brat with your husband, to make her happy to reward a piece of jewelry and buy an extra piece of clothing. I know that there is also a marriage where true love does not change. Men will, like me, spend money on women they care about as a pleasure in life. The problem is, only after trying to switch roles can you know how cool it is to be a woman who has the power to give . Moreover, how complex and selfish human nature is, and how many men's love can be powerful or great enough to let you help your parents' family unscrupulously.
There are many friends around me who are obviously better financially and married than me, and most of them envy my dedication to No. 2. I am poor, I will try my best to support No. 2. I will let her play around and buy some useless items in her best years. She bought a DSLR very early and went to Play in many places. These are the envy of my wealthy girlfriends, because they may live in big houses and drive luxury cars, but they can enjoy it all by themselves, and they can't help their poor parents to improve their living standards.
And my choice has also given my family No. 2 the best gift. She never thinks that a good marriage is the greatest success, because even if it is based on love, what if one day this man stops loving you? Everything you have can become everything of another woman at any time. In the American drama "Pose" I was chasing recently, after Erica insisted on getting out of shape, her carefree father immediately kicked her out of the high-end apartment and had to sleep on the street. This kind of captive relationship, whether it is a legal buddy or a true love outside the city, is unstable, because the decision is only between the so-called true love-a man's thought.
Just ask those chaste girls who are chaste girls, who are fighting for beauty and educating women to be feminine and conservative, have implicit sexual hints, and meet the requirements of the patriarchal society, and tell young girls,
When you accept this luxurious love, what are you paying for?
(To be continued)
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