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A certain friend A had his first real-life sexual experience when he was only 25 years old, and the plot is very much like a bridge in an island country calcium film. One day after working overtime late at night, there was no one in the office, and a strange man was found staring at him, thinking that he was a colleague who had just worked overtime in other departments, but he was suddenly confessed and was so scared that he was hiding in the bathroom and was about to take it out. When the guy was about to clarify what to do, he was dragged into the cubicle inside by this person...
Later, when asked how he felt about the result, he said: (2000 words of non-descriptive text are omitted here). At the moment of spraying, every cell of the whole person seems to be trembling. It is completely different from the feeling of "self-entertainment", but it makes it even more so. He lamented that he was suppressed and restrained until he was 25 years old.
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"Food sex is also." This is not actually what Confucius said, but it is clear-the desire for sex is the same as people need to eat and sleep.
But even in the 5,000-year history of civilization, our knowledge, understanding, and understanding of "sex" have remained at an incredible level. Whenever we talk about sex, our behavior changes as if we are talking about something dirty. , Dirty, obscene, abnormal things. And this "Sex Education", whether it is an entertainment for a youth comedy, or an educational one that allows people to have a slightly different attitude and understanding of sex, it is regarded as a movie. excellent work.
The first episode was a large-scale scene of men and women in bed. It frightened me when I was watching a drama during the lunch break in the office. I hurriedly picked up the phone that fell to the ground. I remembered the large-scale American pie I saw in the university. The drama is really not the kind of drama that breaks through the lower limit of your three views every minute and breaks your moral integrity by relying on various eye-catching and naked scenes.
Although foreign countries have a more open and tolerant attitude towards sex-related topics, children in foreign countries seem to be in contact with sex much earlier than us. It always feels that they are in the space age and we are still in the stone age. But I would still be surprised that they also have such or even some ridiculous problems and problems about sex.
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Each character in the play has its own questions, about sex, about self, about family...
Otis, the protagonist who has a sexual consciousness disorder, accidentally discovered that he seems to have the same professional ability as his mother, and can solve the sexual problems of his peers, but his psychological obstacles can only feel the flying fog until the end of the first season. The pleasure. The memory of the last time the protagonist watched the movie still remains in the small, melancholic, but very firm-eyed Ander Viking in "Ender's Game."
Maeve is so cool. Under the strong armor made of indifference, there is also a heart that wants to be loved and close to others. This is why Jackson played some opportunistic tricks, coupled with Otis's great momentum. "Bad idea", but was able to capture Maeve's heart unexpectedly by Otis, although Maeve also gradually realized that he had his own heart...
There is also Aimee, who only knows to please others, to please their "girlfriends" on campus, to accommodate them to open parties in their own homes, and to quietly maintain an underground friendship with Maeve; to please their boyfriends in bed, pretending to climax What the boyfriend wants is first. After listening to Otis’s "self-entertainment" suggestion, he finally took the initiative to push her boyfriend in bed and told him "This is what I want!" Everything together.
Lily, who can be any man as long as the other party has a Jaguar root, finally found someone who could end her virginity, but found that no matter what method she had, she was always closed at the entrance. When she asked Otis for advice, To confide in her heart, in fact, she is not obsessed with sex, she is just afraid of being left behind, of being left behind by her peers, or of being left behind by this society. When I saw her awkward dancing posture at the school dance party, I really thought of another happy character with Wired sense attributes, and of course my love-Phoebe in "Friends".
There is also the quirky cool and handsome Ola, the unabated charm of the man, the cool and cool mom Jen... These personal figures are shaped three-dimensional and vivid, and the image is bright. The whole play probably only started from the third or fourth episodes to really show its attractive charm. There is an awkward British comedy tune, and the moisturizer can poke your smile silently and inexplicably, gently.
In fact, it was Adam and Eric that surprised me the most. I even hit a timeout (What!? Is it possible...) to see Adam throwing down the scene where Eric was about to kiss by arguing. Some people explain that Eric is "homophobia is a deep cabinet", and they think that the phallic model and erotic pictures that Adma saw in Otis's house are clues. I always felt that something was wrong, and then I figured it out-I think this actually happened naturally, there is no conspiracy design of the deep cabinet. Otherwise, the reason why Adam's golden gun was not poured into the drain is difficult to shed. The director should use the deep cabinet as a foreshadowing, rather than deal with it because Adam can't really accept the reason for his lack of control in life.
Everyone has a Brokeback Mountain in his heart.
I believe that Adam did not like men before, but as he got more and more in touch with Eric, seeing this shining boy who was brave enough to be himself and able to communicate with his father frankly, he began to be attracted by him. With throbbing, there is a different desire to want a golden gun not to fall. Brokeback Mountain in my heart, in front of another shining boy, gradually separated from the morning mist and became clear.
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After watching the whole drama, you will find that this drama is not only about sex, but about all aspects related to sex, about family relations, about self-acceptance, and about friends.
In terms of family relatives, the family is more than just a form. Most of them are a family of three with one father, one mother and children. However, some families have two mothers (or two fathers), and some families have no father and mother by their side. From time to time, his elder brother evaporates from the world. There are many different kinds of people in the world. The family form that is different from the common family of three should not be attacked and questioned. It is like Maeve said "It is not my fault that the family is incomplete" when confronted with questions from the principal and other leaders. Single parenting, regrouping, adoption, same-sex parents...Children in any family form deserve to have a healthy growth environment that is at least not criticized.
Regarding sex and self, "The Road Few People Walk" says, "Life is full of suffering. This is a great truth." The troubles and problems of adolescence are only a few of them, but they are also normal things. Facing the setting of acceptance calmly and balancedly is the most important thing, because these are the problems that most people will have, whether it is an "outstanding person" with a height of 20 cm 7 inches below the navel, or a campus proud child who seems to have a superior family background and harmonious relatives. .
When I was young, I needed to learn about gender, understand the meaning of equality and respect, and know that my parents have a need, the kind of need that occurs in the groaning and roaring late at night, but it is not the father who is bullying the mother. Adolescence feels one's own physiological changes, explores one's own body, learns to accept different selves, and can even develop ignorant feelings. When I was young, I began to fall in love freely, and I learned how to get along with the people I liked. Some people choose to be single, and some people choose constant marriage. These are all freedoms. There is no moral distinction between entering into marriage and having sex that has not yet entered into marriage.
There are men in this world who like men and women who like women. Some people can be both male and female, while some people can love each other without sex at all. Some of the beauty of love is like "Notebook of Love", and there are also loves that are unforgettable between the men in "Brokeback Mountain". Not only Sora Aoi of Deyi Shuangxin can give you an orgasm, there are also people who are obsessed with "Fifty Shades of Grey", so lingering sadomasochism makes them want to stop.
And back to this title, Sex Education. The sex education we get from campus, family, and society is really rare. Sex education should not only include sexual knowledge, but should include the guidance and acceptance of correct sexual concepts. The knowledge of sex, such as how to use condoms, the different structures of male and female reproductive organs, how babies come from, how AIDS is spread...it is naturally important, and the more important part is people’s changes in sexual concepts and concepts. Accept.
An ideal world should be diverse, free, and tolerant. Owners have their houses, and cultivators have their fields. Love and friendship are natural. I just hope that one day we can talk about sex and everything related to sex openly. Of course, this day will take a long time. For the friend mentioned at the beginning of the article, I would like to say:
The world is not worth it, and it is worthy of youth at this moment.
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