Because I want to understand the mother-daughter relationship in the United States to see Fang Xintianya, the American mother-daughter and the Chinese-style mother-daughter look different, but they are almost the same. Growing up under the influence of different cultures, Chinese daughters are obedient and filial, and are taught to obey their mothers since childhood. American daughters are more egoistic, they will not be afraid to interrupt their mother's nagging, I am my own style. Chinese mothers start to arrange their children from a young age, from life to study, from the clothes they wear when they are young to finding a partner when they grow up. Mothers have to intervene. They are always high above and will not share their life, especially their feelings with their children. Life. American mothers also want their children to develop in the direction of their own arrangements, but they are not as strict as Chinese mothers. They are more often compromising with their children. She will tell you what to do but will not force you to do it. .
Addle is immature as a mother, and she does some things that are more eccentric than her daughter Ann. In the eyes of her daughter she is a selfish and annoying mother. She has always wanted to escape from her, but she has never been able to. Ann couldn't stand her mother's restlessness, she wanted stability, not precariousness. She wants to live the same life as most people and do what everyone at her age is doing. But she also shared her mother's joy, happy for her when she met what she thought was love, and forcing her to cheer up when she was decadent. Even though I didn't want to be an actor, I went to audition with my mother. She said that she went to the supermarket to work to escape, but it was more out of love for her mother. The traffic policeman she met told him that when he was about to flee, the traffic policeman told her that it was not yet time. At the end of the film, the traffic policeman asked Addle to express her selfless love to her daughter. She sold the car that was her hope to Ann for college. I was very moved by the scene where they finally said goodbye at the airport. And that last sentence. Even if you can't stand her, you hate her, even if she ruins your life, my mom is still a legend, still full of power, and when she died, the world was too simple, too clear, too sane. The mother is the source of all emotions, and the love between mother and daughter is the most inexplicable. Hurt each other countless times, because of love, this kind of love will make people lose their minds. Ann wanted to escape, but she actually had too many worries in her heart, so she couldn't escape.
We also hope that we can be ourselves and hope that our mother will not interfere in our life, but can life be called life without the interference of mother. So when you understand that your mother's intervention was out of love, to make you avoid detours, you will love your children in the same way. So great, so selfless, so helpless, maybe only one party will leave the contradiction between mother and daughter to solve only love will never disappear.
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