Is the so-called sense of belonging in the other person or in your own heart?

Mitchell 2022-04-04 09:01:08

05# The 45th film review 2017/10/29 Dear Brother / Text



The male protagonist asks if the woman next door likes married life?
The woman said she liked it.
The man asked why?
The woman said that she likes to have a sense of belonging, like that she belongs to someone.

Then last time, starting at 88 minutes, watching a silent movie. The male protagonist still writes every day in the pub.

But he started inviting the hostess out for a drive and things like that, not just leaving her at the hotel. This is their journey of redemption.



It is said that after the filming of the film, the relationship between the real two people outside the show has been heating up for a while. Although they are now divorced for some reason.

Angelina Jolie in this movie has absolutely no aura like she used to. As far as the character arrangement in the play is concerned, it seems that the despair is not deeply portrayed. Instead, Pete, as always, seemed to be saving something.

After coming out of church, she said she asked God to forgive her for all the nasty words she said during their acquaintance. Also ask him to give her the strength to express these anger.

The male protagonist has been writing and writing, but it seems that nothing has been written. And the heroine has been looking at it, and it seems that she can't stop her eyes. What does she want to see, to see other people's lives? But it's definitely not simply watching others make out. Did she want to look at other people's lives to reflect on her own? She had insomnia, spoke little, and drank heavily; he was silent, smoked, and continued to write.

What does the appearance of the hotel owner who lost his love in the first place mean? Contrast or contrast?

The heroine dresses the man next door like the man when he was young and buys the same jacket. Or dress them up as they were, she peeked next door because she envied their lives, she imagined them and even dressed them up as they were. Do you want to relive the wonderful life they once had?

Overall, this movie was pretty depressing to watch. Especially for those who are in a bad mental state, it is not recommended to watch. real.



Later, the heroine didn't watch it, but the hero couldn't control himself and started watching it. When he saw that his wife wanted to have something to do with the man next door, he was found out. This is the climax of the show. The male protagonist forced the female protagonist to speak her heart, because she was jealous of the couple next door, so she wanted to seduce the man next door, and she wanted to destroy their seemingly beautiful marriage.

In fact, the heroine cannot have the lives of the men and women next door, or even have children, so she is jealous, and she hates the beauty opposite. She wants to destroy the beauty on the other side. She wants to destroy the beauty she sees, she destroys the marriage of the man and woman next door. Not through the screen, but the male protagonist's dictation, accompanied by the noisy noise of the next door.

Although the male protagonist explained to the woman next door the perverted psychology after the female protagonist could not have her own child, it seems that this incident has passed, and the female next door is pregnant. Maybe after this incident, they will be stronger. But watching in the play, the couple next door is still on their honeymoon, and the man can't stand the temptation. For the woman, it seems that this incident is destined to be a shadow that cannot be erased, and it will definitely have an impact on their future lives. But that's not what this show is about, but that's the reality.

The so-called husband and wife is to know all the strengths and weaknesses of each other, and they can face it together and give each other time to make corrections. It is undeniable that the husband clearly knows his wife's many shortcomings, but is willing to give her a chance.

After watching the entire film, it may be that you have not watched it coherently, and you may not have a deep feeling. But what impresses me is that there must be communication between husband and wife, whether it is a few words before going to bed or a few words after getting up, it is better to be alone in a blank room at all times.

Don't look down on it. These three-word exchanges are like reading a book for half an hour or three or two pages every day. The accumulated whispers can form a powerful force and help you resist the indifference of the outside world.



There are many scenes in the play where the wife is alone in the room, crying or in a daze. And the husband is in the pub or drinking or writing, but there seems to be no progress. Ironically, after discovering the little secret of his wife peeping at the couple next door, the relationship with his wife seems to have eased a lot. When he and his wife are in the same room, they write the most.

The two don't need too many words to get along with each other. It may be just watching his wife basking in the sun on the balcony, reading a book, and looking up to see each other. It just so happens that the two of them can see that each other is warm, and that's enough.

As the male protagonist said at the end, he finally understood that the fisherman was following the tide. You let the tide take you out, or let it bring you back. Sometimes you have to go with it. Sometimes, that's all we can do.



At the end of the movie, the male protagonist's novel is also finished, the typed manuscript is put into the document bag, the printer is packed, the female protagonist packs the luggage, and they drive away, not knowing whether it is the next trip or home.

The female protagonist reached out and held the male protagonist's hand, the picture was frozen, and the two smiled at each other.



Confession:
I watched this movie in three parts, and it took two weeks to travel through three places. It might have inspired life, but now I have almost forgotten it, but the costumes of the heroine in the play are really good. Next I want to write an article about clothing collocation.

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Extended Reading

By the Sea quotes

  • Roland: Have a nice day...

    Vanessa: I won't.

    Roland: I know. Love you.

    [door closes]

    Vanessa: [softly] I know.

  • Roland: You're smiling.

    Vanessa: [breathing shakily] Now my outsides match my insides.