What should have passed should not have passed, it will pass

Cassandra 2022-09-17 02:12:14

Movie Gone Girl, Japanese drama My Dangerous Wife, Chinese drama The Temptation of Returning to the Village. . etc., the struggle of a cheated wife to fight back, this subject is not uncommon, and it has been photographed in all kinds of tricks. The anxious wife is a detective, a strategist every step of the way, a neurotic who may seem calmer than ordinary people, and can go crazy at any time. . But even those wives who pretended to be kidnapped and blamed their husbands for directing and acting in a big play, or falling into the sea for plastic surgery to create a new life for themselves... are far less than Dr. Foster, such a spread out to see the whole picture is not complicated The small town story, so heart-wrenching. Deeply pierced, thorough and powerful. Drama stories must be more tense and conflicting than reality, but the heroine "used to have dreamy expectations for the hand that held the child, thinking that she had found a soul mate for a lifetime, and after a few years, she really envied others' happy and happy days. , one day I suddenly found a hair on my husband's scarf that didn't belong to me... Then I gradually found that my husband thinks differently from me, and even the world is really fucking different from me." The process, there are probably a lot of women, can be called empathy. The first is self-examination, self-questioning and self-affirmation from head to toe, refusing to accept the facts. I'm beautiful, but I have a strong temperament. I have a high education and a strong career. We fell in love at first sight and have gone through a thousand sails. There is also a smart and lovely child. Is he enough to be derailed? Then there is the collapse, entanglement, pain, and self-psychological construction "I'm not the kind of poor and pathetic woman, I can't face the tear, cry, make trouble, hang myself." what can you do? You can suspect, spy on, and then confirm and forbear, gradually break the bottom line, and lose yourself step by step. Although I know that he has been with others for two months, but as long as he can admit to cheating, we can still talk... WTF, in fact, two years, from the neighbors to his help to the mother-in-law, he didn't know about it, and he lied to my face, look into my eyes and deny it? Although he embezzled all my savings and forged my signature to mortgage the house, as long as he can leave the mistress and reunite with me, we can still try... WTF, they have revived their love and concubine again, and it's not Fling, it's involuntarily Love each other and give birth to a child? ... The cycle repeats several times, getting closer and closer to the truth and farther and farther away from happiness. The so-called forgiveness or cherishing, unless it is based on a relationship like the couple on the opposite side, which is very interesting, and knows each other well without breaking it. Their relationship seems to be riddled with holes, but it is actually unbreakable. The relationship between the male and female protagonists is just the opposite. It seems to be indestructible, but it is actually vulnerable. Because they have been in a bubble of narcissism and self-conviction. Refusing to examine the real person, pursuing life as a flawless package for others to see, pretending not to see the rotten sores in it. Although the female protagonist is shrewd and strong and has a strong wrist, the biggest problem is that she loves the male protagonist with all her heart, and she still believes in the romantic and exclusive character created by the male protagonist and tries to get it back. She embraced the West again and again and hoped to find out the truth, and again and again suffered multiple blows and was on the verge of collapse. And the complete disintegration, collapse, and fragmentation is actually a necessary process before reconstruction. She attempted suicide, but ultimately failed. At that moment, how desperate she was, she also hoped how desperate he would be. She directed and acted a big play hysterically, forcing the male protagonist to collapse and completing the plan she started: living in this town with her son, getting back her own money, and the one who should leave is him. Is the so-called perfect revenge a good ending? I don't think so. So I like the ending of the show so much. After an upheaval... It's not that the scumbags deserve what they deserve, and the little three people shout and beat, and there is no moral conclusion or judgment of right and wrong. The ending is a normal day in real life. The sky is high and cloudless, not too cold and not too hot. The male protagonist accompanies the little three sister to buy groceries. The girl shows a lot of pregnancy, and her face is cautious and happy. Compared with the previous domineering, it is much softer. Hiding in the car, a little sloppy and tired, he hesitated to say anything, because he couldn't because of the restriction order, and he didn't dare to go forward, silently drove the small broken car and left. The heroine, who looks more energetic with her hair tied, takes her son to drink coffee. The son is not in pain because of these dramas, nor has he been empathetic and intimate with his mother since then. It looks like a boy whose mother would feel ashamed when he touched his head. The hostess listened to the news that the little three sisters were about to move to London. There was no joy, no anger, and no waves. So really, life goes on, not dead is alive. What should have passed and what should not have passed, will eventually pass. What if she tries again after a long time: what did I do that weekend afternoon? She would probably remember that it was a perfect day to save a life. And it doesn't matter if you meet your ex-husband by chance.

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