Give the child his own eyes!

Daija 2021-10-22 14:34:11

In the afternoon, I watched an issue of Tell the Truth. It was about whether the child should be poor or rich. The more I look at it, the more strange it becomes. Is it worth discussing? Adults care too much about money. When to raise children has become a question of more money and less money...
Perhaps it is because of the inertia of this kind of thinking. After watching "Coraline" just now, I saw a friend who said fairy tales. The world is no longer perfect. Everything in the fantasy may be a huge trap. I think that in the movie the door is the cause and the door is the result.
Nowadays, parents are less and less aware of the purpose of raising children. They say, how fierce the competition is, you must study hard. Such as this example, there are too many and too many requirements. When the child is unhappy, he said earnestly, "When you grow up, you will understand." It's like the lines of an old witch, "You will learn to look at the problem from our perspective soon."
Going back to the question of whether children should be raised poorly or richly, is there a difference between parents who care about money so much and love money no matter how they raise their children?
Sometimes you should really look at what the child sees and what he pursues. Instead of applying your own values ​​to your children, you must also turn your children's eyes into buttons.

In the movie, the docile dogs become monsters with bat wings, while the wild black cats are the key to the rescue.
When the buttons are about to completely block the moon and the little girl starts to cry, the black cat that suddenly appears is the brightest hope in despair. When we are overwhelmed by reality in our lives, we are like black cats. Wildness may be the best way to redeem yourself.

We asked the child, what is your ideal? Why do no children say they are cleaners? It's natural for adults to judge their status strongly, but do we have to put buttons on our children to be successful in education?

As an emperor, Zhu Xiaotian is certainly not a good emperor, but he will be a good carpenter.
Li Yu is not a good emperor, but he is a good poet.
Keep opening your buttoned eyes and laugh at them. But it seems that you are neither a good carpenter nor a good poet, but a layman who can get enough food and clothing for three meals. After many years, the traces you leave are only one of the huge numbers in the census.

Eh~! Completely digress, my vulgar angry youth.

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Extended Reading

Coraline quotes

  • Other Father: [robotic] All will be swell, soon as Mother's refreshed. Her strength is our strength...

    [one of the robotic hands closes his mouth forcefully]

    Other Father: Mustn't... talk when Mother's not here.

    Coraline Jones: If you won't even talk to me, I'm gonna find the other Wybie. He'll help me.

    Other Father: No point.

    [face distorts]

    Other Father: He pulled a loooong face... and Mother didn't like it.

  • Coraline Jones: [on the "Other" Mother] Why does she want me?

    Cat: She wants something to love, I think. Something that isn't her. Or, maybe she'd just love something to eat.

    Coraline Jones: Eat? That's ridiculous, mothers don't eat... daughters.

    Cat: I don't know. How do you taste?

    [chuckles]