At this time, someone must be pouring poison into chicken soup, telling you that there is no hatred for no reason in the world. Did you offend your predecessors without knowing it? Examine yourself first to see where you are going wrong.
In fact, everyone understands that being harassed for no reason is too common in the workplace. Even if you do nothing wrong, you will inevitably be missed.
There are 3 main reasons:
1. Your presence increases the workload of the TA.
In your job requirements, you must pass the TA part, and the project you are working on will not be counted in the TA's performance appraisal at all, and it will increase the TA's workload for no reason. There are too many scumbags in the workplace, and not everyone has the mentality of doing more and learning more, which naturally breeds hostility.
2. See you as a potential threat.
There are too many such plots described in ancient and modern Chinese and foreign palace fighting dramas. At present, you and TA have no intersection, but are you sure that one day the promotion channel will be blocked by you? Destroy the opponent in the cradle first.
3. Being in a vicious state of mind that holds grudges and angers. Every year, the fraternity and sorority associations in American universities have to set up layers of rigorous assessment mechanisms for recruiting new recruits. From time to time, there will be news that people will be killed because of overdoing it, so many universities have imposed bans on fraternity and sorority haze. The relatively mild admission assessment items include, being a senior's mount for him to crawl around the playground, doing laundry, cooking and cleaning as a servant for the senior for a week. These people were all tortured to join the club, and they finally managed to sit on the throne of power. In the workplace, many people have the same mentality. No one helped me back then, so why should I help you? Or, just in a bad mood. Yesterday, my child was named and criticized at the parent-teacher meeting, and I had a big fight with the other half in the morning. You are still urging me to ask for project documents today?
Now the feng shui turns and it's your turn to sit on the other side of the table. For those who are at a low point, do you step on the foot, pull a hand, or pretend to be invisible?
We don’t dare to hope to change everyone’s practices, but we can at least start from ourselves and be kind to people and younger generations we meet in the workplace.
Start with yourself and end the tradition of excluding younger generations from generation to generation.
I'm not teaching you to be a little white rabbit,
you will be eaten by the dangerous rivers and lakes without any bones left.
Be a friendly and intelligent person.
Highly motivated, willing to accept challenges, never give in,
and be kind to others.
If some people's light is destined to be unstoppable,
why not reach out and help?
Let's see how Lucca does it. I really like this character more and more.
[To strangers]
As early as the seventh season of "The Good Wife", Lucca extended a helping hand to Alicia, who was frustrated and lost.
She obviously doesn't know strangers, so why should she teach her how to do her job well? You know, lawyers who charge according to the number of cases despise the bottom of the chain, and if they teach others, they will receive fewer cases and their remuneration will be reduced accordingly. Lucca, who was not wealthy at the time, had absolutely no need to point out Alicia.
In the bar, Lucca once pointed out Alicia's fault, you care too much. Yes, in an indifferent workplace, why should you put your true feelings into others? In fact, this is Alicia's fault, and it is also Lucca's fault.
Compassion, empathy, heart to heart, if I fall into the valley, I will be grateful for any helping hand, so I will treat others like this.
After drinking the cup, Alicia invited Lucca to start a business with her.
The two cherished each other and found the same kind. From then on, we will fight side by side and advance and retreat together.
From the bail court to the later big law firm, Lucca's career has stepped to a new level.
Gain a good comrade-in-arms and business partner, all thanks to the original "nosy".
[To competitors]
Diane, who is at the top of the workplace, did not expect that one day she would go bankrupt because of being defrauded.
Her Lady Queen, who didn't say a single swear word for seven seasons, also uttered a national curse under the sudden blow. The old club, whose front foot is still desperately trying to retain and reluctant to give up, turned his face and refused to recognize anyone. And those good friends who threw out the olive branch are all hypocritical at the critical moment.
Diane, who plans to retire to South France and face the sea in the spring, experienced unemployment, bankruptcy, betrayal and separation at the age of sixty. Life hits the bottom all of a sudden, and the seemingly beautiful life is so vulnerable and insecure, just like the Hermes bag at the beginning of the film, which will disappear in the next second.
When no one dared to hire Diane, the partners of the black law firm were also suspicious, and Lucca stood up to protect Diane.
You must know that Diane has a higher level. After joining the black law firm where Lucca works, Lucca couldn't even keep his own office and was demoted to sit in the public cubicle.
Logically, it is inevitable that there will be resentment in the heart, right? Lucca said there was no response, not even a frown.
[To the juniors]
Maia is a very rich second generation. (The savage girlfriend, who doesn't understand snow, looks so good in formal clothes!) The
screenwriter said, hehe, how could the rich second generation be smooth sailing? So before the first episode was over, Maia fell into the scandal of a Ponzi scheme because of her father, and suddenly fell from the second generation of the star to the point where everyone shouted, even worse than Caroline in "Broken Sisters".
Caroline can also hide in a place where no one knows her and start over. Maia works in a law firm, and even if she takes an elevator, she will be chased and scolded.
This is how Lucca enlightened Maia, who was hiding in the bathroom and crying secretly.
It's totally unnecessary, so why bother? Because Lucca always cares too much.
It is precisely because the shrewd and capable exterior is wrapped with a warm and friendly heart, Lucca has always been different. Not long after graduating from law school, from the bail court to the big law firm, and then to the road to the partner, the clothes are getting better and better. What remains unchanged is a kind-hearted mind.
The icing on the cake and the charcoal in the snow are very different. Those who have been helped by Lucca doubly remember her well.
But Lucca didn't expect anyone else to reciprocate for doing so. The ceiling of patriarchy still exists, and it is not easy for women to work hard in the workplace. Supporting each other secretly is probably the secret of every working woman with dreams.
If someone is destined to shine, go and help.
It is a pity that too few people know this golden rule.
In terms of utility, it is much more beneficial to lend a helping hand at the right time than to read 100 network management methodologies and participate in 1,000 networking sessions.
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Did you find Lucca's boyfriend very familiar?
Demo, don't think that you look like a high-quality elite man in a suit and leather shoes, I can't smell the strong comedy smell on you?
Do you recognize him, he is the Doug in "The Hangover" who is always left behind!
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