Morality, what a noble word. Pure, what a noble phrase. When morality and purity are combined, I suddenly feel that the word becomes suspicious. People with pure morals, I will be suspicious, and stay away.
I have encountered a lot of things recently. Some people have some things, which frequently impact my world. Sometimes, I will doubt myself and want to see what my inner face is.
It may be because when I was a child, I faced many older class teachers. I was always unhappy because of their values. I asked you not to be late, I asked you to sit down in class, I asked you to put your hands behind your back and raise your hands, even I would also encourage students to inform each other and strive to be "class guards". I even talked about how to use "knowledge" to make money when I gave a speech, but I was forcibly interrupted.
These noble and moral teachers, although I never doubted their kindness and knew their usual self-disciplined life, I found that I just couldn't respect and love them.
When I got older, the strict and rigid rules of the teachers slowly faded before my eyes. On the contrary, in a music class, the appearance of a certain class teacher playing the piano dancing and dancing always stayed in the mind and formed A very strange glance in my impression of her.
In fact, I am a person with high requirements for self-moral review. I once remembered chatting with old friends, and suddenly learned that an old classmate was surprised and even sad when he was taken up by someone. I can be considered a well-informed person, and I also call myself a liberal, but it is really difficult to calm down when facing things like abortion, drug abuse, and childbirth. But when I put down the outer wall of "morality" and tried to understand it with my heart, I was able to understand the maneuvers of some of the stories and the hardships of the world.
Suddenly remembered a sentence, in front of the environment, everything is forgivable.
Everyone is not born like you and me. It’s just that such an environment creates such a person. Some people have high morals, because the environment around them will tell him that violating morals is unforgivable, and it is a sentence for themselves. , Like my strict self-discipline head teacher who grew up in the first-generation revolutionary family.
For other people, because of education or childhood experience, the surrounding environment did not tell him what was moral, or told him, but did not let them realize what must be observed, what must not be done, or said to be done. It's not good, so when he fails to comply once or twice, and obtains some material or other psychological satisfaction, he will go further and further down that road.
If you make a quantitative analogy, it is like: Your environment requires you to have a moral score of 80, and there are good rewards and punishments. For other people, the environmental requirement is only 60 points, and it’s okay if you accidentally reach 50 points, and you will be more free. If you are higher, you will not be praised. Naturally, he will not have that requirement of himself.
So for them, we are not qualified to say contempt. Besides, moral standards are always changing. One cannot use his own standards to demand others, even if this set of standards is universal.
This is like the little story I mentioned in the psychological test I posted before: The
Sheriff of Nottingham caught Robin Hood and his partner John John, locked them in the castle, and put them on two locks. The beautiful Marian begged the sheriff to forgive her love for Robin Hood and let them go. The sheriff agreed, but offered Marian to stay with him overnight. Marianne agreed. In the morning, the two prisoners were released. Robin Hood immediately asked Marianne what method was used to set them free. Marianne told the truth, but she didn't expect to be insulted by Robin Hood and said she was a slut. Robin Hood announced that he never wanted to see her again. Hearing these words, Little John came out to protect Marianne, suggested that the girl go with him, and vowed to love her forever. Marianne accepted Little John's suggestion, and both left.
I definitely don't doubt Robin Hood's chivalry spirit. Perhaps for Robin Hood, he would rather die by himself than Marianne save him in this way and put them in humiliation. Absolute knights and absolute pure morality. Purity is beautiful, but thinking from another perspective, it is hostile to the richness and complexity of the world. Its natural black and white worldview itself provides the best spirit for the "authoritarian" of the class teacher and the coldness of Robin Hood. soil.
Because I know how virtue can create barriers and indifference in the relationship between people, although I respect those who are clean and self-conscious, I still treat everything under the banner of "morality", and treat others indifferently and harshly, and take the opportunity to improve myself. People of all have doubts and stay away.
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