I had to mirror the standard of a family in our "world": a man like Maura is the most dignified character in the family, which means he must be well behaved, walk straight, be of good character, be a man of integrity, carry Can afford the heavy responsibility of supporting the family and the rise of the country. In short, young people have a red heart to the organization, and old age must (emphasis added here) be full of children and grandchildren. This is the so-called most basic dignity of the elderly; and women's roles are mostly good wives and good mothers. Knowledgeable, diligent and kind, selfless dedication; the standard for children is filial piety (*n power), obedient and sensible, go to school and study, graduate and have a successful career, get married and have children immediately. The family scene that everyone looks forward to is full of happiness and harmony (automatic brain fills the Spring Festival Coca-Cola advertisement screen). Above, there are only two words to describe it: unreal.
Because of this, the elders say that I have been introverted since I was a child, because I am used to burying my true self, but I don’t like to pretend to be too much, and I can’t make anyone happy. In fact, when I was very young, I was able to see through the illusion of an adult. , I mean, every ordinary person has a good side and a bad side more or less, in the face of children, adults often like to show or disguise the good side, and only willing to show the good side; Older people often like to show their dignity and knowledge, so that young people can obey and follow. I have less and less patience to play with them, just like those politicians. No one is perfect, even parents, and every little individual is so unique, there is no way to avoid a neglect or a lack of education that affects the formation of a young child, just like Ali and Josh, Ali's The coming-of-age ceremony reminded me of a forgotten Children's Day when I was a child, and I cried an afternoon of grief and indignation; and when I was older, like Josh, I was sometimes involuntarily trying to find something. I wanted to prove myself, subconsciously always. Lack of recognition and attention, fortunately, like Ali, I will not blame myself for a forgotten companionship, please, how many times I need to swallow up the forgotten children's day in the process of growing up. , in order to make our little hearts grow hard now, put away the unsatisfactory, get along well with others, and live numbly in this chaotic world.
so, no body stupid, the least act of arousing awe is camouflage, and there is a slight difference between them. The key lies in the purpose, if you want to gain power and money, it is the best The unforgivable hypocrisy, and secondly, the kind that makes others bow down and exalt one's own dignity is also extremely ridiculous. In short, camouflage is easy to identify, come on, don't pretend.
Maura (Mort) is the elder that I feel warm and respected, facing a bunch of big kids, he doesn't try to disguise himself to get everyone's respect, and he doesn't try to manipulate the children's lives To consummate her old age, she spoiled and encouraged Ali, the little daughter who had accomplished nothing. She concealed that she had accomplished nothing and complained in public for why Maura canceled her coming-of-age ceremony. That night, she would still be tolerant and say "come on, honey" to the little daughter who was standing at the dinner table when she came back home.
Maybe many parents can also use pampering to "tolerate" their children, and there are also many who lose face and stalemate each other and try to be brave. But in the face of every weird child in the family who is struggling in disguise, these fragile young people still need to struggle with themselves to see the strong arms and transparent heart that Maura has already supported. Maybe, when they are old Only then can we have understanding and feelings, they are on their way.
Honesty and understanding are what I think is the strongest bond between family members, and the most powerful support that everyone can get with the changes of time and space, and what nourishes this bond is actually love, and love itself is not owned by everyone. It does not exist because of harmony and beauty, and it is not given if a word disagrees. The possession and domination of a soul that is not independent and free is not love, it is attachment, and attachment lacks the support of each other. , but love can.
The Maura family may not have many strengths, and a few of them may be doing nothing and in danger of dying alone. Everyone is full of problems, and it doesn't seem easier for them to get along: the hidden unsatisfactory The eccentricity is responsible for the prying eyes of others, to cover up the cowardly truth, and there are bursts of words, swaying between self-loss and hurting others and hurting yourself, every delicate emotion and conflict is not uncommon, but this family has or is trying to become transparent , strengthen yourself, embrace your family, and love every lost soul.
In my mother's words: the world has not been peaceful recently. Disputes between different races and countries are incessant, and interests and ideas are the hurdles that human beings cannot overcome, no matter how advanced or rich they are, at least not now. Many extremist religious people complain about the deterioration of the world: it is difficult for the weak to survive, men are together with men, the end of the world is coming... In order to win over more desperate torturers, forming an increasingly large force, plundering with hatred the lives of innocents. The sad reality is that such groups are not going away, imagine if Maura had lived in a less tolerant culture and class than America, he might have been beaten to death. The perpetrator may also be the object that a certain culture cannot tolerate. Endless killings lurk in the modern world, many of which stem from the blockade of ideas.
It's important to use open mind to face unacceptable encounters, or things that are just beyond one's own concept, there is no need to make enemies everywhere, we are just bacteria that live on this planet by chance, like Maura dances with himself in camp camellia Connie's conversation.
Maura, who was very free to dance, hugged Connie and asked, "Who are you?"
Connie: "We are just a few bodies"
Maura: "Yeah", Connie: "Yes, that's all, it's just that some people have It's just the penis"
Maura: "But, um...get the penis away"
Connie: "Get out of the vagina", Maura repeats "leave the vagina".
Maura: "What's so important..." The
two of them were speechless and danced drunk.
I think it's love and nothing else.
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