I only see the inheritance of love

Hope 2022-09-06 02:29:41

A very simple story.
The three children accompanied their divorced parents to accompany the cancer grandpa on his birthday. During the play, the grandfather passed away peacefully on the beach. The kids gave Grandpa the "Viking" funeral he wanted - made a boat, burned Grandpa and put it at sea.
Many people feel the cuteness of the three children, and the romance of the last family dancing on the silvery seaside, and I am most touched by the family's protection of the children, including the parents who are quarreling.
In the opening chapter, the parents are in a hurry to set off, and the little daughter is obsessed with taking away her two big rocks, otherwise, she will be suffocated and dizzy. I don't know what normal parents are like, but the father in the film put his daughter and her friend - two big bricks - into the car helplessly and tenderly, and the mother said to the daughter who was unwilling to wear the seat belt "In this way, let's let your good friend "Brick" teach you how to wear a seat belt, okay?".
It is because of such parents. Therefore, the children dare to say "you are arguing again, stop arguing" when they are arguing. Because when they say it like this, the parents will only laugh, "We are not arguing, we are just discussing."
Especially moved by this laugh.

The child's father cheated, and I thought I would find him hateful. Yes, in principle, I can't forgive a cheating man. However, he is also the perfect father in my heart. He will patiently say to the child, "When two people have been together for a long time, there will be some problems between them. Although these problems may not happen if they communicate well, but still Happened. They had a lot of arguments, and then, one person made a mistake, and that mistake was not easily forgiven by the other." Will keep saying "No matter what happens, you must remember that both of us will always be Love you", will say to the hostess "why did you move so far, 3.5 hours drive, oh, I spend 7 hours a week on the road to see the child", will say weakly "please don't put the child Take it from me.". . .
God, he is actually thinking about the 7-hour drive back and forth every week to see their children, how many parents of left-behind children, and where are they? ?

Later, when I saw the grandfather of the children, I finally knew what kind of family would educate such a father.
I think everyone would like to have such a grandpa.
He was a footballer when he was young, his best friend was a lesbian, he didn't like violence, he didn't like arguments. He would do crazy things with the kids, like staying with the kids on the beach on his 75th birthday, letting his granddaughter drive by the beach, hitting a road sign and saying, "That's great, I want to hit that one. The sign has been around for a long time." "Grandpa, what does that sign say?" "Haha, probably don't let children drive." It's ordin, looking for her stone friend with her three-year-old granddaughter, and even lying on the beach pretending to be dead to scare the kids for a while.

Look around, what is your grandfather like? What are the parents like? Most of them are high above the world in the children's world, pointing the country and scolding Fang Qiu!

Many adults and adults think that children have no ideas, children are just toys, so when I was a child, there would be a large number of adults surrounding the child and saying, "Your parents don't want you anymore, you are a child no one wants", which caused the child to cry, so they booed the house. Laughing loudly, that's why parents quarrel fiercely in front of their children and accuse each other of you being a jerk, completely forgetting that the one you accuse is also the child's favorite person; that's why parents easily throw away their children's toys , "Waste time all day long, don't hurry to study". . .

It may be because I have seen too many broken families, so I am particularly moved by such films. In the story, the inheritance of love goes from grandfather to father. I believe that even if the parents of the children really divorce, this love that parents carefully guard It will still be inherited. Because the children in the story are so simple and happy, no matter what happened, they never questioned the so-called "parents don't love me anymore"

so-called love for children is really not to maintain the so-called marriage relationship, but to make them firmly believe that "parents don't love me anymore" To love you forever is to squat down and look at the world from a perspective with them. You will find that "the sky is higher than you imagined, and the grass is greener than you imagined."
The family passed down from generation to generation, the love passed down from generation to generation , it's that simple and warm.

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What We Did on Our Holiday quotes

  • Mickey McLeod: She ate Granddads Swiss roll!

    Jess: I didn't mean to. It was an accident!

  • Jess: Then the policemen comes.

    Abi: That was just a misunderstanding, sweetheart.

    Doug: Sometimes when grown-ups discuss things very loudly, people will get the wrong ideas

    Mickey McLeod: He let me play with his taser.

    Doug: Well, he didn't let ya

    Mickey McLeod: He didn't say I couldn't.

    Jess: Does electricity feel nice, daddy?

    Doug: No, not nice.