I have wine and distance according to the choice to walk alone

Serenity 2022-04-04 09:01:08


This is an independent film produced in 2015. When you see the word independent, you know that it must be different from commercial films. Independent films generally have their own unique appeals. The grandmother we see in the film is indeed different. She is no longer the taste of the holiday, nor the whispers before going to bed. As the film unfolds, a maverick grandmother is also so cute.
The grandmother in the film is an out-of-date poet, rightly an out-of-date poet, and a feminist, tattooed, foul-mouthed, and somewhat stubbornly unwilling to accept the so-called convenience brought by the times. So she cut her credit card into pieces and strung it into wind chimes and hung it at the door. In my opinion, this is such a lovely person, do what you like or say if you don't. So when her granddaughter came to her residence to borrow money from her for an abortion, the two embarked on the arduous journey of borrowing money.
When this maverick grandmother heard that her granddaughter was pregnant and wanted to have an abortion, she did not discourage her like a traditional grandmother, but took the initiative to teach her boyfriend a lesson and taught her granddaughter to swear. Here the director discusses the role of women in society, including the questioning of women's morality. As a woman, you should have your own right to choose. In the movie, when the grandmother accompanies her granddaughter to the hospital, there are people who oppose abortion shouting at the door, but the grandmother will say, "Would you like to have thousands of abortions? Women who have given birth, will they all go to hell together? Don’t joke, if you die, you will be smeared, nothing else.” Women should have their own choices as to whether or not to have children, it has nothing to do with morality and belief. Driven by such a concept, we will not be surprised when we see the girl's mother walking into the picture as a strong woman. It's not just the girl who is afraid of the harsh mother, the mother of the strict mother has been afraid since she was five years old.
In life, we often say that three women are in one play. In the movie, the girl, the mother, and the grandmother appear at the same time. It is really very beautiful. From their communication with each other, it is not difficult to see that the relationship between the grandmother and her daughter is not harmonious, and the communication between the girl and her mother also has problems. So a strange feeling always haunts them. Even when a girl becomes pregnant, the first person to seek help is not her mother but her grandmother. But after a day of running around and fruitless, I still went to my mother with my grandmother for help. Three seemingly independent individuals with modern female characteristics all yearn for each other's love and attention, but do not know how to respond. But the solution is as simple as that - talk boldly.
After a day of running around, my grandmother also seemed to realize this, so she took the initiative to go to her girlfriend's house to talk to her. Like time, love will pass, but the difference is that love will remain in the heart, and it can also remain in the pen. So in this era when no one is reading, my grandmother decided to go back home to write something about love.
As said at the beginning of the film "Time passes. That's for sure".
I have wine and a distance, and I don't want to delay your progress, so I choose to go alone.

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  • German 2022-04-22 07:01:56

    I hate grandma's values ​​in the play.

  • Cale 2022-04-03 08:01:01

    3.5, warm and not sensational, not exaggerated or artificial, it is rare for a low-cost film to be made like this. The grandmother's performance and the granddaughter's appearance are also very good.

Grandma quotes

  • Elle Reid: I like being old, young people are stupid.

  • Sage: So, you used to like men?

    Elle Reid: Oh, I always liked women, I just didn't like myself.