To be honest, when I watched this drama, I always expected the heroine to be like Uma Thurman, but she was the only one who bleeds in the end. Why? Because it's not easy for women to do it! If a woman has a successful career like the heroine, she must not be able to concentrate on taking care of her family. Even if she is not as focused on her career as the heroine, as long as you work, you will always be unable to take care of your family. At this time, you not only have to worry about work, but also The trivial matters of the family have a headache. However, your man will still feel that the family life is not harmonious. After you have been neglected and derailed, he can still look pitiful and say, "I can't feel the warmth of the family at home, so I can only go out to find comfort." Or say "It's all your fault that you are too strong, you only care about your career, and never care about me. Only she can give me true love!" I just want to know that true love is a fart.
And it doesn't matter if the marriage fails The person who said to you with infinite sympathy, "Dear, you also have to think about whether you have done something wrong, you can't blame him all." The person who really should give her two slaps
If your child can understand your hardships, then you will be thankful that you have saved the galaxy in your life to have such sensible children because most children can't understand your hardships when they are not fully sensible, they will because sometimes they can't get A hug and a patient explanation from you will make you feel hurt and switch to a side who can give them patience. At this time, will you completely despair of this world? Too bad even your kids can't stand by your side. It's not easy for a woman to be a housewife like my mother, because you don't have money to support your family, you have to be diligent and take good care of your family. Anything that happens at home is your fault. It's not your child's poor grades. It's your fault for not educating your children well If your child is ill, you blame you for not caring about your child. Your husband's work is not going well. You don't have the ability to help your husband. Even if you add a little more salt to cooking, you blame you for not cooking well.
You conscientiously dedicated your youth and turned into a yellow-faced woman in the end. Your man cheated. That's what it should be.
When outsiders sympathize with you, go back and say, "Look, women have no career and this is the only end." You are sad, you are in pain, you resent yourself, and you shouldn't be too stupid to give up your career. Who is to blame? Look at your former best friends, friends, classmates and colleagues The woman opposite the door is bright every day. You have a successful career. You can only wipe the floor alone and feel sad and think about why I have failed in this life.
At this time, you will think that my life has failed, it doesn't matter. My child must succeed, so you double your enthusiasm into the child's growth, but the child will complain in turn, "Mom, your love makes me breathless. It's too hard for a woman to do it. Sure enough, "how to balance family and career" is the lifelong topic of most women. Either you have high IQ and EQ, and you have a successful career outside the home. I have never seen such a perfect woman. I've been to a few female lead characters who, in addition to the plug-ins in the TV series, also have the male lead's unchanging true love (well maybe you should have a better life and have a good family so that even if the marriage fails, at least your money is still with your father. Like the little three in the film who had an extramarital affair with someone else's husband and got a big belly because his father was rich, he could also take the scumbag to London to continue the wave) On the contrary, I have seen many women with outstanding careers who also have a lot of difficulties in life and have to feel wronged When seeking perfection, many women who focus on family have to have a strong attitude when they have to be strong outside. Like the heroine, they have experienced marriage failure, career failure, friendship, betrayal of children, and no understanding of all kinds of blows. No matter how confused, wronged, and lost, I have to smile and watch everything go. My mother and the heroine are two completely different types of women, but they both have a strong and vulnerable side, and this strength and vulnerability are both for women. Similarly, when I watched station B, I found that many barrages were lamenting what happened to the people in this town. There are problems with the three views. The brain circuit is abnormal. Obviously, the heroine is the victim. It must be because the small town is too closed, so it is easy to find strange things. The heroine can't stay in the country. The heroine has to fly away and leave the dog town. In fact, is there any place in this world that is not the same? A world of scumbags, isn't it? Women may only use tears and weakness to exchange for a little sympathy and fairness. Be strong like a heroine, but in the end, she has to show her bloody wounds to outsiders to remind everyone who is the victim. When I was 21 years old this year, when I was watching this drama, I kept thinking about all kinds of messy questions. How to manage a successful marriage and career? Do men cheat when they get old? If that's the case, then do I still want to get married? If it's true love Then I will definitely get married. If my true love cheats after marriage, how should I react? Do I have the air to pretend that nothing happened and continue to love each other on a blind date?If I can't bear it, can I stay calm and sober, kill the scumbag boy, and live my life well, and then when the heroine rushes over to rescue the passerby who fainted on the roadside, the BGM sounded, I suddenly stopped thinking so much. Well anyway, things are impermanent and life is like a play. You never know when your show will turn into shit. You still have to be like my mother said, "Can you still live?" Just live a good life.
But you have to have your own career no matter what, because when life and love are all messed up, and your son loves you and ignores you, you still have the ability and the ability to support yourself, and you won't become a complete waste.
At least when it comes to serious work every woman will be respected
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