her husband understand her? Does the English teacher understand her? I think the former does not understand the latter understands that she was just an ordinary middle-aged woman at first. I have an affiliation, I am dissatisfied with my family life, I have too many expectations for my children, I am extremely responsible for my job, and this description sounds very ordinary. What attracted me to her was the roughness of her body. She seems to be able to survive in any environment. She is tough. She won't bow her head if she doesn't reveal her vulnerability. The development of the
story seems to be an excerpt from a certain period of her life, but it seems to fully express who she is.
Always feel that the husband likes that little employee is the climax of the story and although it seems bland I still find it thrilling and heartbreaking Are you willing to wait for someone who seems to be gone from you? Will wait for what you're looking forward to when you see her quietly going about her own thing I'm thinking about myself what I'd do if it were me Obviously making a fuss doesn't do me any good, it just makes me The husband is more inclined to the other side. She acts like it doesn't matter if you come to dinner. You can ridicule that person. But if you are angry, let's not talk about the little mouse. Her lord, she is not sad. Maybe she understands that it is just a momentary infatuation. We will always meet. Have a momentary infatuation with many people in life and ignore those who are always around Olive is the one who is ignored and always around. Fortunately for both, Olive doesn't leave until her husband wakes up I'm just infatuated with him for a while, and he can't accept Olive's departure. Just like he said, Olive, I don't know what I'd do without you. Thank you for being by my side. The hormones are by my side. The momentary sense of happiness and happiness will make us Lost and thought that was what we wanted and when everything calms down you will understand that the solid companionship and the sense of security cannot be lost. When he said this, Olive's answer was, don't be so nauseous, look at her always Can't be gentle with him Is it a matter of love or not? Is it because she doesn't love him so she can't be gentle with him Maybe she's just such a cold person. She has feelings in her heart, but the way she expresses it will not be understood like her son has always been I don't even understand that she doesn't like her son. He doesn't like the person who puts the blame on others. He doesn't like his cowardice. Although everyone is cowardly, how strange you say. Everyone has a weak part, but he still hates some people's cowardice.
Does his husband know that his wife likes another man? I think he does and he doesn't take any drastic measures. I call this and Olive's indifference wisdom. Many things are beyond your control. Especially if the feelings are unclear, then reach a silent tacit understanding and balance. I won’t say anything, you won’t stop it, and the life will go on like this. The family is maintained like this. This is a very delicate feeling and a very delicate psychology. Activity I
remember the scene where my English teacher died in a car accident. Olive hid in the house and cried loudly. Her husband looked at her outside and closed the door softly. Even if each husband and wife have their own emotional parts, they still have to respect them. To pretend not to ask, don't want to, don't know, this is the first time she shows her vulnerability I think she loves this English teacher at least they know each other. It's the first episode of cutting an apple outside the door and she can feel it when she looks at him and laughs. It was a very real and natural relationship and that scene replayed them sitting by the river, she was in his arms, he asked her to run away with me, turned an apple peel into a snake in his eyes, and saw an apple at his son's house Pi would be dizzy That scene was so impressive But one day passed like a lifetime passed The man disappeared and eloped and disappeared And she was thrown back into life
When they were kidnapped, Olive said she wanted to go but he died. This was the truth when she thought she was going to die. I think she really wanted to go with the English teacher, but she didn't. After the kidnapping incident, she explained to him what she said in a whim. He said you never explained anything to me and never said sorry. It was the first time you said sorry to me. She was a little flustered. Then he said okay, we were all freaked out at the time. Did you say he knew it was her true words? I think he knew. I like it, but what is life? It's not about
entanglement But it is getting closer and closer. No longer ignore each other like middle-aged and ignore each other, but hold each other's hand and fight against loneliness together. Everyone is lonely. Two people are also lonely. He told her that we were going on a trip and agreed that they would go to the wedding together. Her delicate side was that she could see some subtle gestures and her attitude was like she saw that the student came back to commit suicide and she cleverly saved him and her It's very delicate, really delicate, rough, and very attractive. She heard the words of the other mother's words ironically. She paid it back one by one. She also paid it back in her own way. After the wedding, they walked back together. The scene of having dinner again is very sweet, isn't it? What is family? Maybe when I was young, it was lust and sex. Real companionship may still not be able to speak from the heart, but there is a silent tacit understanding in many things, and I am willing to slowly understand each other. The most precious thing is to know how to cherish it.
He later had a stroke. I really felt Oliver's love for him. It was a kind of love that couldn't be seen lightly, but it was real. It was love in action. She didn't say love. Her behavior and the way she expresses her feelings will make people cry She said her son, you snapped your fingers in front of your dad, don't you think it's disrespectful to his performance? He will be sad, you don't know? He said to the medical staff that you don't I don't care about my husband. You are just treating him as a sick person. Treat her coldly. I want to cry. She loves this life with her weak love. But I have to care because that person is my husband and the one who walked through life with me. The sickness comes. The son does nothing to make the old man feel warm. This is the parent's dignity and filial piety. In the end, it is the child's own business. If the child is not filial to the parents, what can he say? mind how they take care of them what they should do when they are sick you need to understand that the older the parents are, the less talkative they are maybe they are looking at how the children they bring up will treat them will they be filial to them they will be happy if not they maybe If you are disappointed with yourself, you will not complain about anything, nor will you take the initiative to ask for something
She took care of him, wiped his body, talked to him, chatted with him, and talked with him about her feelings. When her son was wronged at home, she called him and told him about it, and then suddenly broke out into the microphone and said you're talking, is there anyone? She needs a person to communicate with her when listening to people who will not always be sane Don't live so lucky, so painful, so seemingly innocuous, so long-hidden, a momentary outburst of loneliness, and the next day, return to her usual indifferent expression, she's tired, she's also tired, but she always has her own reasons for her husband's death Then take good care of the dog She also thinks that when the dog dies, she will end her life. She will be lonely until she dies.
Remember what she said on the phone? I ate and got my clothes on. No one told me like I had nothing to do with them. Then she cried, she was very wronged, that was her son, why didn't she feel warm at all? She is a cold person and needs love. Knowing that when her husband was in the hospital, her son yelled at her at home. That was the only time she treated her son. Saying that my husband had a stroke, can you please stop talking to me so loudly, that's a rare way for her to show her vulnerable side. I always feel that the relationship between people is indifferent and indifferent The indifference is hard, unreasonable and even unreasonable, then warm her to make him happy because it is a family, because in this world, you two are the strongest relationship, it is an inseparable family with blood, it is the longest time to be with each other. The most sincere family, so, no matter what, you must be gentle with your family. Use your tenderness to touch her hardness. This is the quality I like and what I want to achieve.
Everything she went through in her son's house, she was wronged, she was laughed at and bullied, she still looked hard, she was sad in her heart, there is no second person in the world who knows this Let my family feel this way I will accompany them to be their beam, be their street lamp, warm them, listen to what they say in their hearts, talk to them, give them spiritual comfort, don't let them
be but she is still hard She survived. She insisted on letting her take off her shoes on the plane. She felt ashamed, but she did it anyway. I think she was very ashamed at the time. In the past, I put on my shoes and left and came home. Even if there is no one in this world who loves me, I still have to live strong because as a person, I have to live with dignity and strong no matter what.
She met him who lost his wife. Later, it can also be a companion She said that this world makes me feel frustrated but I don't want to leave it. Is she nostalgic for something? I think it's just a thought to live or to live even if I'm lonely, even if I'm not accompanied, even if my son doesn't understand me, even if it's a lot A lot but there is no reason to live, just to live,
originally wanted to commit suicide and then saw a bunch of children and she cried after they left I think as a teacher she didn't want to leave a shadow on the children and then she found that no matter where she died, it would leave a legacy for future generations. She doesn't want to die under the shadows, this is her kindness and side concealment, this is her unique tenacity,
even if lonely, she has to give herself the courage to live. Later, she took the initiative to find him and brought her own flowers, which symbolize vitality and life. She was lying beside him lying in his arms She said I didn't want to leave this world She closed her eyes She was very tired She wanted to take a break and wake up and continue to live and grow flowers This is life, this is life
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