Affected by her, I turned out the movie from the hard drive and watched it again with my roommate.
I have the same feelings as my good friends. The first time I watched it, it was also for the purpose of looking for eccentric and glamorous shots. To be honest, it was really to see how naked and lingering these two people were, which caused a lot of plots to be ignored.
When I watched it again these two days, when I finally saw Jack's confession to Anne, tears could not be stopped.
It was completely different from the mentality of the first time I watched it. When I watched it the second time, I felt a lot of emotion in my heart.
In the movie, Jack and Anne are both veterans of love. Jack is a good drug salesman. Relying on the ambiguous relationship with the receptionist at the hospital, he pleases the doctor in order to sell more medicine. Anne is a young hot girl who is only 26 years old. She is beautiful and has a good figure. But, the only bad thing is, and the most deadly point. This seemingly perfect girl suffers from a rare Parkinson at such a young age.
The first meeting between the two of them dramatically diverted the romantic relationship that the two must have started with a friend. Jack lied to Anne that he was an intern and saw Anne’s naked breasts, and then Anne discovered the truth. Anne was nothing. The unrelenting beating and insulting, in fact, the first meeting and argument like this seemed to me to be the beginning of the two people's flirting.
When we met for the second time, the two even exchanged few words. Anne, a straightforward girl, was fed up with Jack’s overly rigid opening remarks. She didn’t want a consistent self-introduction. Where did you go to college? Where do you work, what do you like, a series of boring and meaningless questions like blabla. She directly threw out Jack's original purpose for this trip. "I think you want to have sex too, and I also want to, then let's go." Then it was the first passionate love.
From then on, the two of them have become a fixed friendship. If you have a need, and I have a need, then we can satisfy each other. The relationship is very good. Anne's heroine in the movie has a strong personality, but she has a strong sense of self-disgust. She yearns for Jack's love, but is afraid to accept it. The only thing she is willing to do is to continue the relationship.
Many traditional people think that when they look at it, they think that these two men and women are too casual, they only meet twice, and then they keep making love and making love like this. Love that is not for the purpose of marriage is a hooliganism. They are like this. Jane went to the extreme. Not reliable! Too unreliable!
Then suddenly things started to be reliable. Jack began to miss Anne. In the days when she didn’t call him, he couldn’t help but missed him anymore. He brought dinner to Anne’s apartment. Such a move made Anne suffer. After a little shock, she began to realize that the relationship between these two people was not just as simple as a friend. They didn't even have sex right after they met, instead they sat on the couch and had a long conversation. Such a move seems to be only done by men and women in love. They begin to understand each other for the first time. But when she woke up the next day, Anne was panicked. I don’t think a woman could refuse such a handsome man to be so kind to herself, willing to show her truest self in front of her. Her heart moved, but she Unable to promise him anything, her arrogance and self-rejection swelled to the extreme at this time. She didn't want the love of such an excellent man, she couldn't bear it, she didn't dare to accept it, and she didn't want the pity of this man either. .
She told Jack that we don't want to see each other again, but Jack's relationship has long been more than just friends, he didn't want to end like this, and then he waited for Anne in the car all night after Anne went out.
Anne was obviously touched by this action again to be at a loss, but she could no longer resist her own psychological treatment of this man's strong liking.
Jesus, if you are willing, then we are all right.
But this time Anne wasn't going to accept it wholeheartedly and bravely. She just started a relationship with half-push half-heartedly. First, she was touched, and second, she couldn't deny her inner feelings, but she didn't completely let go of her scruples.
After the two became boy and girl friends, of course they still kept making love until Jack came back from work once and kissed her, his heartbeat speeded up, his whole body trembled and his face flushed. Anne was frightened and asked him what was going on, then Jack spent a few minutes calming himself down and telling her. "I love you. I really love you.", such a serious but flustered expression, like a big boy with first love, shy but firm. Anne’s reaction can be imagined. Her brain blank conditioned reflex immediately replied "No, you don't love me. No." She started to be deeply afraid again, and she pushed herself into the seriousness of her girlfriend. In the relationship, now I have to accept such a heavy oath of "I love you". She is too afraid of such a confession, she is too afraid of such a romantic relationship that rises from the sensuality to the spiritual level. She didn't tell Jack that she loved him too, and Jack was very witty and didn't ask. The two of them just hugged and said nothing.
For these open modern men and women, making love can be just a piece of entertainment, each taking what they need, but love is extremely heavy.
As time went by, Jack's feelings for Anne became deeper and deeper, but Anne’s Parkinson’s condition became more and more serious. She began to be unable to cut a photo, and could not easily open the medicine bottle. Jack took her to Chicago. , That was the first time this stronger girl dared to face Jack and admit her condition, her own bad situation. She found a group of Parkinson's patients who were strong but brave like her in Chicago, and she was deeply inspired and moved. At the same time, Jack heard some cruel and realistic advice. Anne may gradually lose her ability to take care of herself in the next few decades. Don't say she wears clothes. Maybe you have to help clean up her urine.
A normal person would panic when he heard these words. It was also the first time that Jack really felt the horror of Parkinson's disease. For the first time, he thought about whether to shrink or break up. But the most dramatic thing is that he heard Anne's confession to him at this moment. These are the three words that he had waited for a long time but began to be afraid to hear.
Jack didn't want to break the score. The two people who loved each other deeply started to run around looking for a cure, but there was no way. No doctor could tell them how to cure Parkinson's. Jack and Anne were exhausted physically and mentally but at the same time they were forbearing. For the fragile relationship between the two of them, their psychological panic factor began to spread rapidly. Finally, the proud and strong Anne couldn't stand it anymore. She couldn't stand the outpatient visits and see Jack's lonely eyes again and again, and she couldn't stand the brutal tearing of the scars in front of Jack again and again, bleeding, but nothing Ways to make it heal.
Anne couldn't bear it and said to Jack, "You don't help me find a doctor because you are afraid that I can't take it, but you can't take it." It's okay, but when you're done, you have to go."
In fact, there is nothing wrong with what Jack said. No one wants to guard the rest of his life with a blank face, a dull expression, and a lifeless person, but there is no way. Jack loves her.
After Anne proposed to break up, Jack didn't keep anything. I think he must have thought about it at that time, letting go may be the best choice for himself.
Anne, suffering from such a disease, should have been very fortunate to have found such a handsome boyfriend who loves her. According to common sense, she should treat him in every possible way. But Anne herself said'I'm being such a bitch." Anne sometimes speaks viciously, indifferently, and mean. She has always been contradicting the relationship with Jack, and she even thought that she would be angry with Jack in this way.
She doesn’t love Jack, but she really loves it, and she loves her so much that she doesn’t want to drag this man down.
Jake loves her too deeply, in a string of Hollywood "The male protagonist realizes that he shouldn’t leave the female protagonist>Music sounds>Female The protagonist just happened to be out> after the classic cliche that the actor chased and finally caught up.
Jake confessed once again that the two embraced each other and stayed with each other for a lifetime. This is the most emotional section. At this time, Jake already knows Anne’s illness well, knows that she will be unable to take care of herself in the future, and knows that the rest of his life will be spent in dressing, feeding, and washing diapers for Anne. And he was still willing to stay with Anne for a long time. Whether the decision was deliberate or a whim, it was a moving decision. He even gave up his chance to be promoted and applied for medical school, which must be in order to join the team to study the cure of Parkinson's in the future.
From the beginning of the unreliable artillery, to the end it turned out to be so reliable, I think it must have surprised many people.
This kind of romance movie always can't escape the clichés, so there is no need to scold it for how tacky and old-fashioned, because everyone has a happy ending wish in their hearts. Instead, think about what it really brings you.
Now that I look back and watch it again, I have to admit that Xiao Ling Yao's film is really a level higher than "Do Not Ask for Return" and "Cannon Friends".
It not only tells a simple story from a friend of a gunner to a lover, but also the psychological transformation of the hero and heroine in this story and the courage to face love and the unknown.
Meet Thousand of people by You,
and not for Really Touch Them of you,
and the then you One Meet the Person,
and your Life Forever's changed.
We will meet thousands of people in their lives, but no one really touches you to .
Until such a person appears one day, your life will be completely changed.
I'm waiting for you, I will wait for you in the future.
Thank you for all the beautiful people who have appeared in my life.
I wish the lovers finally get married.
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