I want to write a few words about the marriage scene

Danielle 2022-03-13 08:01:01

At first, the woman didn't realize that there was a problem. When she heard the thoughts of her client, the old lady who wanted to divorce, the camera suddenly zoomed in and she was shocked, but the woman had the ability to convince herself. Reality may be just an illusion. It wasn't until the man told her that he was tired of having someone else before he woke up. In fact, she wasn't too surprised, subconsciously slowly accepting that things would come this far. Even if the incident happened, he did not immediately change his behavior and attitude, and he could continue to slide down by relying on an illusory but powerful inertia.
The biggest breakdown happened when the woman learned that her friend had always known and betrayed her. This humiliation came more intensely and unexpectedly than the man cheated on. The woman once said that it would be hell if two people needed to translate the communication into a common language, and both of them needed time to see each other's different positions in the marriage relationship and stand with each other again. The man needs to wait for the woman to understand the thrill of betrayal and the entanglement in it, and wait for the woman to be "opened".
After six months of adjustment, the director did not choose to show more about the separation of the two, but in fact this period played a very important role. Missing brings beautification and freshness. Separation and change force the unconscious or the foolish person to start to reflect and try to find new ways and possibilities, only in this way can they realize which of all the options is more bearable.
During the divorce process, the two went back and forth, and whoever gave in to the other pulled him back to the battlefield. The only result of this method is that Jiuxing not only said what was on his mind, but also exaggerated the hurt, thereby deepening mutual understanding and understanding.
In fact, the problem should still exist, but both parties are aware of it. Although he may not be able to answer what love is from beginning to end, he also realizes that the warmth of home cannot be replaced. They can no longer get along in the old house, they are all new.

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Scenes from a Marriage quotes

  • Johan: You need to put a lot of effort into not caring.

  • Marianne: We're pitiful, self-indulgent cowards that can't connect with reality and are ashamed of ourselves.