Very emotional but very confusing after watching (be careful!)

Demetrius 2022-11-14 13:44:43

I just read Zeng Liang's diary update, and I remembered The Secret I had read repeatedly in the past few years, so I thought about it, and it seemed that I could write something.
I have always advertised myself as an idealist. What kind of zen stories are the young monks asking the old monks, whether the wind is moving, the flag is moving, or the heart is moving. Others see it as nonsense, but I have no doubts. Tears silently.
I remember watching this film every 3 or 5 years from 2008 to 2009. In a blink of an eye, 3 years have passed. Every time I encounter a bit of depression, sadness or anger, I always think of the phrase it's the law of attraction, and consciously Don't allow yourself to dwell in negative emotions for too long.
How much do I love the secret? Because I watched the movie version, I always wanted to buy an original book, but I thought it was too expensive, so I downloaded the original pdf and went to a print shop to print it as a book. [You ask me if I want to take it with me to flip through it at any time? I glanced at you, how could I tell you that my original intention was to memorize this book, but because I was too lazy, I planned to have a miscarriage]
Because I have always been a sensitive child, I am not interested in psychology, Buddhism, and I Ching. Ah, I have read some systematically, and after that, I have read more or less books on psychological growth. I feel that the law of attraction is not completely incapable of scientific explanation.
Some people saw "the secret" and thought it was just a joke. How could you get what you want? Then I want a luxury car and a mansion, I want a beautiful family, you let the universe give me a try?
I'm going to roll my eyes~ Even if you ask for Aladdin's magic lamp, you still have to rub the lamp with a rag a few times, right? Don't take your non-technical nonsense with you! To achieve the so-called realm of achieving what you want, it seems that as long as you order, the universe will serve your simple actions. In fact, it is still very difficult to actually implement it.
First, you want and believe there will be. This is difficult. Remember the chestnut I just mentioned that wanted a hot kang head in my wife's house? Most people want it, but think it's nonsense at the same time. It's impossible! If you think this way, then basically you won’t have anything you want, and you don’t even believe in yourself. Is the universe that stupid? Therefore, the first big technical barrier is that you have to be convincing and sincerely believe that you will hold the banknotes in one hand and the beautiful woman in the other.
Once you do that, life starts to look different. Children's shoes who have watched the film can't remember the self-report of the author who wrote Chicken Soup for the Soul. When he wanted to make $100,000 (or 1 million?), he suddenly thought that if his book could sell 400,000 copies, Then he can make $100,000, and then he noticed the national enquirer bookshelf in the supermarket, and an idea came to him: if 400,000 people knew about my book, they would definitely like it and buy my book. Dangdang~~ something amazing happened. A few weeks later, a freelance writer interviewed him. This writer was writing for the national enquirer. After the article was published, his book began to sell out [I I really don't know how to tell stories~ Please see the cause and effect for yourself! 】
Let's analyze this as a chestnut! When you want to make 100,000 yuan, what do you think? Is it ["Ah, it would be great if I had 100,000 yuan" and then turned around and went to sleep thinking] or [I see fire in my eyes" I want to make 100,000 yuan, and I believe I can make 100,000 yuan "Thinking ah]. The two are very different! When you are the former, I am afraid that you are daydreaming as a far-fetched joke, and you still expect a miracle to happen? 100,000 yuan crying and shouting to hit you? ! But if you are the latter, you must be rolling in your head how to make 100,000 yuan. At this time, your vision will be very broad and targeted, and every time you see something, you will react along the way: Can this help me earn 100,000 yuan? Just like the author of Chicken Soup for the Soul, he has seen hundreds of books and periodicals in the supermarket for people to read, all of which are used as backgrounds. When he is thinking about selling books to make money, when he sees books and periodicals, they become A golden opportunity. And 【When you act, God will come to help】~ Is there a little bit of truth?

Where did I say, there is no logical dividing line ---------------------------------

I Thought the visual of the moving air shockwaves in the secret film really worked for me, I was tempted to describe it in terms of magnetic fields or frequencies. Most people have had this experience. The house leaks happen to rain overnight. When you get up and feel bad, you feel that everything is not going well all day, as if you can't get through anything, and then you will give yourself Labels: Today is a really unlucky day, so it will be even more unlucky in the future. The explanation given in the film is: your negative emotions attract negative events, and you yourself ask for more negative situations to happen. It looks very mysterious?
In fact, it can be explained from another angle. For example, in the film, the woman in the film who felt unhappy because she fell under the bed when she woke up in the morning, when brushing her teeth, found that “Damn! No toothpaste! ], so the anger became even greater; the same woman woke up in the morning feeling refreshed, and when she brushed her teeth, she also found that the toothpaste was gone. ! It's the same thing. Because of the different moods, the reactions are different. Isn't this bit of incident a day of "good mood" or a day of "unlucky"?
[The key is not the thing itself, but how to interpret it]. The event itself is very neutral and has no subjective color. It is the so-called good or bad thing that people's morals, emotions or attitudes try to comment on. Half a bottle of water is half a bottle of water. Different people will come to the conclusion that there is still half a bottle of water or only half a bottle of water.
Since learning about this issue, I've tried to avoid exaggerating negative judgments because of a single event. When something like "I'm a loser" or "I'm just a bad life" or "I'm just in a bad way" because of some unfortunate events, stop and change your mind immediately, never give yourself a chance Come to a negative conclusion! It's okay to talk about things, but don't label yourself like this because of individual events! ! !

Forget it, I'm still talking about where it counts~ Anyway, it's the dividing line I see by myself--------------------

In fact, this film covers a wide range. In my way of reading the book, which is not rejected by anyone who comes here, but who has only tasted it, I have found that whether it is Christianity, Buddhism, metaphysics, the law of attraction or spirituality, the general principles are actually the same. Well. I think I am a very miraculous existence. I always meet devout Christians, and when they are trying to pull me into the membership, I always talk to them about Buddhism, and then they all talk very hi~ I have a A very good friend, a very devout Christian friend. From time to time, he will send a QQ question to me and ask me: Are you happy today?
To have a religious belief is actually quite important or utilitarian, it is very useful, and a lot of burdens can be thrown to God, Buddha or Allah, because human abilities are too limited. When encountering some injustice, [this is the arrangement of God/Buddha/Allah, this is a necessary experience], and then calm down.

In the end, some people have a lot of feelings when they watch the secret, and then make changes in their lives, and some people think it's nonsense after watching it, what to do or what to do. This is actually a kind of "thinking", how much do you want to change the status quo and become more cheerful/optimistic/joy/tolerant. . . . . If you think about it, the universe will use this film as an opportunity. If you just think about it casually, even if you watch it, it is a movie that you have seen and forgotten. After all, the so-called redemption and change do not lie in the outside, but in your heart, not baa~

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The Secret quotes

  • Michael Beckwith: It has been proven now, scientifically, that an affirmative thought is hundreds of times more powerful than a negative thought.

  • Joe Vitale: This is like having the universe as your catalogue.