Are we connected in our hearts?

Creola 2022-11-24 10:46:56

I stumbled upon Meryl's "Falling in Love". Simple plot, but once again deeply experience love. Just like being together, talking and laughing together. Why do both partners no longer understand their feelings and inner thoughts? They are very polite, and they are very polite to each other. Even if the Christmas gift is unpleasant, they do not communicate further. They just make every aspect of life not unpleasant and spend it safely. Ignoring those cracks, although there seems to be no surface unpleasantness, the deep loneliness has begun to grow. It's different in love.
Really simple plot. It's just that when people go through a situation like that, they're making life-changing decisions. Many times when people fall in love, look forward to seeing each other every day, and decorate themselves every day, it is to pursue the feeling of being loved for themselves. In fact, perhaps the deepest and most important thing is to love each other and hope that each other is happy and beautiful. The experience is for both sides, and it can be felt immediately, which is why it makes people addicted to it.
In love, people consider more not their own feelings, but their concerns for the other party. If you understand this feeling, you will be able to understand many of their words and deeds, as well as many opposite words and deeds. When Frank told his wife that he had met another woman, the wife was shocked and the last act was to slap him in the face. If I used to think it was understandable and uncritical for my wife to do this, but now from a love point of view, I can know that my wife is disrespectful to Frank, maybe very sad, but when there is love, it will not be done. After experiencing many, many situations, watching this film, I felt a deep understanding. We take into account more of each other's feelings, and in love, we have withdrawn from the scope of attention because of understanding.
This emotional depth can also be felt in this film. Between people who truly love each other, there are always concerned eyes. Any thoughts such as suspicion, jealousy, and resentment have no basis for existence. Separation events can be resolved without language. the beginning and the end. rather than the calculation to the end. Especially the scene in the bookstore at Christmas the next year, when they all said that they had a good time, anyone who has experienced love can understand that there are too many things in these words, although they each had a bad time, but In the end they all chose to say so. Especially the way she looked at him, to the way she looked at each other when they finally met on the train. They didn't say anything, but everything was so certain.
When we are with our loved ones, always pay attention to how they are feeling, what they are doing, the way they look at you and the way they speak, and whether we are deeply connected.

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  • Molly Gilmore: [talking to Isabelle about Frank] No, I think about him every day. Last thought before I fall asleep and first thought when I wake up. I talk to myself all day about him, even when I'm talking to somebody else, even when I'm talking to you now I'm talking to myself about him. Brian thinks I'm ill, he thinks that it has to do with my father, he thinks the stress and, you know, all that... Thinks I'm having a breakdown, but I'm not, there's nothing wrong with me. Except that I love him.