There is a clip in the movie, which is very impressive. The couple who quarreled in the car to the point of stalemate, opened the door of the car and faced the child, and immediately put on a happy smile and a warm hug. I remember when I was a child for a while, my parents quarreled very fiercely. Every time my face was red, my mother would always say: If it wasn't for the children, I would divorce you. After those stumbling days, my parents have come to this day, although they still occasionally bicker, in my opinion, it has become the spice of their lives. Many times I called home at night, my mother was using the computer, and my father was watching TV with me. I imagined that picture, and my heart was always very warm. I have never asked my mother, after all these years, do you still regret the choice you made? At that time, the marriage would continue, whether it was really because of the children or because of love.
Is marriage the grave of romantic love?
In married life, can the romance and freshness of the relationship be maintained in the real complicated trivial matters? Or ordinary life is lived, but it will always become mutual accusations and complaints, and endless accumulation. I don't know if every bride and groom has thought of everything they will face in the future when they make the promise of "I do". Everything in real life is trivial, every detail of the other party's habit that may drive you crazy, can you accept everything plainly, without regrets or complaints?
A lot of times, quarrels start like this for no reason. A minute ago, the two were still intimate, but maybe it was just for one sentence. You didn't want to say it, but I took the right seat. I accused you, and you started to get angry. All the old accounts of the rotten millet were turned out and intensified, so a small quarrel turned into a downright big quarrel. You get angry and I slam the door out.
you are always like this! Can you think about it for me! Can you please forgive me! Can you make some sense!
In the quarrel, we are used to thinking with our own thinking, and what we complain about is why TA can't understand me more. Understanding each other is really not as easy as saying it. And this kind of complaint will accumulate, causing the two people in the quarrel to often lose their minds. Obviously in love with each other, but at that time, he said the most severe responsibilities and spoke ill of each other. This kind of damage to the heart again and again, even if I think about it in the future, it will still hurt a little, right?
I think the best way to do this is to stop the quarrel at the beginning, before the words that hurt each other can be said. The two people who have calmed down, think about it, it's just a sentence, just make it clear, why bother with those trivialities.
MM said that after watching this movie, she was completely desperate for marriage and gave up hope for love. I am the opposite.
Marriage is not the grave of love, it is another true beginning of love. And what makes marriage a tomb is only the people inside, who have made the tomb for themselves. I have always known that it is not easy to manage love, and it is even more difficult to manage marriage. Even though I am still afraid of quarrels and hate quarrels, I still hope to meet someone who will stop me at the beginning of quarrels. We will resolve them in our own way, live mostly happily ever after.
This is my best hope for future marriages . .
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