他对她的爱是毋庸置疑的，从第一眼开始，讨她欢心，为她挨揍，接受她和别的男人的孩子。
I think she needs to look at her love for him like this:
At first, he took the initiative to attack, was funny and versatile, girls were easily attracted, and then they got together. This kind of relationship is very common, not to mention her rich history. But it cannot be said that she also loves (I always think love is a very heavy word) when she falls on him, she may like it very much.
Then they ml, in sharp contrast with the ml scene with her ex, obviously she enjoys it. Watanabe Junichi said that most straight daughters follow their physical needs. Although it doesn't sound very enticing, but I think it can also be regarded as a reason for her to fall in love with him.
Of course the most important thing is that when he decides to form a family with her, unmarried love is boring for a woman. At this time she is so fragile, so at a loss, he is so brave, and so full of responsibility. She fell, and I never knew whether love that was caused by being moved was regarded as love. The tears she shed during the wedding seemed to me an unrequited gratitude.
When did their love end? There is really no way to answer this question, because at the beginning of the film, the impatience of the heroine being awakened shows that she is bored with this kind of life. Those quarrels and those conversations are boring and useless. Without love, everything can be used as an excuse for quarreling. She didn't look at her, didn't want to talk to him, didn't want him to touch her. At the end of the film he walked up to kiss her forehead, trying to hug him, she cringed to refuse, she was not afraid, she was sick.
Regardless of the degree of her love, even if she loves the other person again, if she finds something unbearable in him, the emotion of disgust over time will naturally replace love. What she can't stand him is the problem of work. And what he said at the beginning "women always want to pursue their prince charming, but they end up marrying men with good jobs." is also a hint.
A man's frustration is a thing that annoys women. I don't understand. Since he didn't care about his humble status at first, why he couldn't bear it later, maybe he always had illusions at first. As for the man, the mistake is that since he says he is not worthy, he has to work hard for it, but he has no actual action.
What makes my heartache is that he loves her so much, so so much. He quarreled, never mentioning Frankie, he lost his temper, threw things and hit people, but never touched her, he threw the ring angrily, and went to find it again with heartache. He cried and hit the wall with his fists, begging her to give him another chance. Although she repeatedly emphasized I am married, I don't regard it as feeling for D. Maybe she feels insulted, or more like she is speaking to herself to control her words and deeds. The little comfort she gave by the hugs and dialogue opportunities seemed so extravagant, and it was a gift from her nostalgia.
Why? Why does she have to hate him so much. Even if he is annoying anymore, isn't so much love enough! But these are all nonsense. If you don't love it, you don't love it. Staying for an extra minute makes her feel uncomfortable. Hey, women are too realistic. The more they grow up, the more realistic they become. The more they experience life, the more realistic they don’t like love that is derailed from reality.
I was thinking about what will happen to them. He will drink all day long, but no matter how much he hurts himself, she won't give a shit.
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