When he hugged his young daughter, he was covered with smoke and scum on his face overnight; when he asked and quarreled over and over again, all the conversations were meaningless, she was accustomed to living as usual, barely holding on to it. Little love left behind by the triviality and flatness of life. Maybe she was just bored; the family that was formed by an accident at the time finally lost its meaning after many years. He is still stubborn, sensitive, and romantic, but she has lost patience and interest, and any form of expression is superfluous. The tiredness and repetitive life finally made her erupt. She looked so sad and helpless when she shed tears, but still drove him out of the house in tears.
What a beautiful girl will one day become that irritable and tired mother, an impatient wife who never listens to you; what a handsome and charming boy back then, will become the husband who keeps asking and quarreling, spoiling the young The daughter is late for class, wearing a hat full of dirt, drunk at 8 o'clock in the morning-is this all the reason for doubting marriage and love?
The most splendid fireworks have been opened, and only a chicken feather is left.
The film is interspersed with the past and the present from time to time, occasionally making people lost in the exchange of time and space. The emotional ending caught the beginning of the romance by surprise. Everyone has their own scars and defects, and living together is not as perfect and easy as once imagined. The last two finally broke up; I have been waiting for a reversal, but never came. His figure disappeared into the fireworks, and the ending song sounded, and the scenes were clearly the sweet taste of love.
There is always that blue in the film, tired, dull, monotonous, melancholic but affectionate. The young man who used to sing and dance in the dark, the setting sun lit up the girl's long golden hair. Her eyes were confused and immature, but full of confidence. And after many years, the tired mother, the wife who lost her brilliance, played that familiar song, whether it also recalled them from the past. When she put on a white wedding dress with her pregnant belly, the sun quietly shone on their faces. Her husband is handsome, young, poor but full of hope, and his life is full of fearless courage despite ignorance.
That is the power of youth. You still have time to make mistakes and have the opportunity to correct. Maybe they have just gone too far on this path to change it. Two very different people finally couldn't develop the dew love relationship into a long-lasting life.
Do you think that is love? It was a one-night stand.
The story still sees love, romance, and innocence in their disputes and boredom-so what. What you regretted is what you lost, what you disappointed is what you believe in. Just as the same audience believes, they love each other when they quarrel, her parents love each other when they quarrel, and they still love each other when they break up. But what's the use of falling in love? Hao Tan, what's the use of the hopelessness of life and the shortness of love? Heartbreak and breakup are nothing but an atonement for the original mistakes. Rather than believing in the death of passion, it is better to believe that fireworks are like this.
One of the biggest benefits when I grow up is that I won’t shake my beliefs just because of a movie, just like I don’t doubt love because I see Yao Chen divorced, I don’t see anyone who has been running for so many years and I am moved to believe in them. It is a model of love. Because love has no distinction between superior and inferior, regardless of whether it is high or low. Jin Fengyulu has never won but countless in the world, but the latter is often irrational, patient and tolerant, and diluted by the trivialities of life, turning into a common story in the streets and alleys, passers-by sighed at a loss.
The happiness and sorrow magnified in front of the spotlight are in life.
That being said, I was really depressed for a while after watching this movie. Who can not feel sorry for destroying such beautiful youth and beautiful passion before your eyes?
But I still believe that love is like embracing a belief. I believe in all the beautiful things in this world-including the romance like fireworks. Time has reversed your appearance, engraved on you the changes in the world, and the triviality and length of the days have dulled and sharpened your temper. How to tolerate all the mediocrity and mediocrity in a marriage without love, and how to avoid its cruelty, blindness and selfishness with love. Only after that can people hold hands and turn ordinary days and nights into a long time.
I always remember the girl who was still studying tap dancing in the street late at night. He accompany her, and the smiling faces of the two people lit up the night sky like fireworks.
The most beautiful thing about fireworks is that they only open for a while.
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