In other words, there are not a few such films discussing love and marriage. Thinking of the "Revolutionary Road" that I watched last year, it is estimated that many people want to sigh, if life is just like the first time.
The last thing I was impressed by this film was the interspersed narrative techniques. The beauty of the past and the unbearable reality of the past have been contrasted strongly throughout the film. The more beautiful I once loved, the more painful it was to face reality. At the end, half is the sweetness of the wedding, and half is the tearing apart.
It doesn't really matter why they broke up, and it doesn't matter what makes love deteriorate.
Many people say that Cindy doesn't love Dean enough, I don't agree. She wanted a man she could admire, ideal and talented, Dean should have been like that. When they sang and danced on the street, Dean was so charming. It’s what makes Dean so uneasy. Maybe he loves Cindy too much. From the bottom of his heart, he feels that he is not worthy of Cindy. He wants to use all his love and all the responsibilities to the family to keep this woman, and as At that time, he himself sang like: You always hurt the ones you love, his love is too tense, which disturbs himself and Cindy. And Cindy herself is also uneasy, perhaps due to family reasons, perhaps due to her early indulgence, her heart is sensitive and fragile. They, maybe no one is wrong, maybe they are all wrong again. Maybe if women are less sensitive and men are less inferior, the world will be much safer.
The conversation they had at the dining table revealed the reason why they couldn't continue in the end: Dean said, if you are not interested in what I say, I won't say it. ——I burst into tears at that time. I understand Dean's grievance very well, and Cindy looks at his back with disdain, choking in the bottom of my heart. Uneasy love, the deeper the love, the more hurt. It may be said that if you love too deeply, press too hard.
There are always too many uncertainties in life. When I was 20, I couldn't know what I wanted, who I would meet, and who I would give up when I was forty. Life is really tricky sometimes, but we can only live in the moment, and love is even more so. Love is here, don't forget to hug, love is gone, don't forget to bid farewell.
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