Would you believe in the beauty of love

Grady 2021-11-12 08:01:15

It's been a long time since I recalled a movie for so long, and I dreamed of the scenes in the movie again and again in the past two days.

After turning over the subtitles, I watched it twice, repeating the tap dance paragraph, the "You and me" paragraph, and the ring-finding paragraph. I kept thinking about the lines and scenes in the film, those laughter, those angry, those helpless, those tears.

Maybe we’ve watched a lot of movies that alternate between the two lines, but this kind of strong contrast does not make this kind of editing very clichéd or unorganized. In the end, the warm sun and the darkening of the church slowly disappear into the fireworks. Dean... the contrast is particularly strong. I am a very emotional person, and the love story that touches me the most in the movie is always.

Maybe Dean is just an ordinary guy who has not graduated from high school and came to New York from Florida. He is young and strong. He is a good boy, but he is a good boy. He will help Grandpa arrange all the messy luggage and decorate them. An empty room, taking the old man to see his new home.
Maybe Cindy is just an ordinary girl with countless exes and a messy private life. She is beautiful, and many perverts covet her, but she is a good girl. She will talk to her grandma in the cold family relationship, and she will always want to be A doctor.

Dean believes in love, believes that boys are more romantic than girls, believes in love at first sight, believes that the girl he saw is familiar.
Cindy also believes in love, and believes that although his parents are in a bad situation now, they must have been in love at the time. They will constantly ask his grandmother what it feels like to be in love.

They met, like every vigorous love, Cindy tells Dean cold jokes (I don’t think it’s cold ==); Dean plays the piano for Cindy, Cindy dances awkwardly; Cindy will go when he is at a loss Looking for Dean and would not say anything, and the impatient he would climb up the railing and let her say; Cindy couldn't make the decision to remove the child and couldn't help crying. Dean hugged her tightly and said, let us form a family. .

Dean took the flowers to see Cindy's parents, very sincere; Cindy gave the ring to Dean, which represented "Everlasting love". Everything is so beautiful, so beautiful.

There is a discussion topic on IMDB, "the relationship was over when...?" Yes, when do you think they came to an end?
Some people say that it was when Cindy left Dean alone at the hotel and could only let him take the bus home. Some people say that it was when Cindy was pregnant and they were forced to marry. Others say that this result was destined before they met.

Has love changed? I believe they still love each other deeply. Dean will jump out of the car and look around immediately after losing the ring in anger. Cindy will immediately say "I'm married" after hearing the strange tone of the boss (I really like the details of the video very much. Like)
and the word "change", yes, something has always changed. Over time, both of them have changed, haven't they? Dean has changed from a romantic to a family-centered person. She loves Frankie and Cindy with all her energy. Cindy becomes more realistic. She needs to travel back and forth to work and take care of her children.
Where will love eventually go? Sometimes two people love each other so much but over time they just find that they can't live together. After the flames of love fade, there are more things that need to be compromised, and the result that cannot be compromised can only be the end...

Do you still believe in the beauty of love when you know that time will change you, change TA, and

finally Dean silently My heart is broken when I disappear into the fireworks.

Favorite line in the film:
"I think she seems to have known each other... She is very different, like a song starts to play, you can't help but want to dance."

*This is director Derek Sianfrans's 12 years of grinding. Sword works. Rice will translate the interview in the near future:)

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Blue Valentine quotes

  • Dean: Tell me a joke.

    Cindy: So there's a child molester and a little boy walking into the woods. The child molester and the little boy keep walking further and further. And it's getting darker and darker. And they're going deeper and deeper into the woods. And the child molester... The little boy looks at the child molester and he says, "Gee, mister! I'm getting scared." And the child molester looks down at him and says, "You think you're scared, kid? I gotta walk outta here alone."

    [Dean shakes his head]

    Cindy: You don't think that's funny?

    Dean: No.

    Cindy: I do.

  • Jerry: Cindy doesn't usually bring her boyfriends home for dinner. So, uh, I'm thinking this might be serious.

    Glenda: Don't listen to him.

    Dean: I hope so.

    Jerry: You hope so?

    Dean: Yes, sir. I mean, I'm pretty serious.